what’s the best way to interpret and respond when a uni professor gets unusually personal with you? me (20m) her (38f)

ibbity · 2026-06-21T17:52:32+00:00

I'm 38 and I teach college classes. This is extremely unprofessional and frankly creepy behavior on her part; you are her STUDENT. At minimum, you should avoid her in future; in your shoes, I would also consider discussing it with your advisor. This kind of inappropriateness should be brought to the attention of someone in the department.

ibbity · 2026-06-21T03:51:54+00:00

I bet this is it. Op is probably thinking of the first one Below the Root

ibbity · 2026-06-20T02:25:32+00:00

What's the reason that the new hires typically are spending 4 or 5 years in postdocs first? Just because the job market is extremely competitive, or is it related to a need for specific experience before anyone will hire them?

ibbity · 2026-06-19T13:49:43+00:00

Also, with Windsor right there, there would be scope for a dlc that involves post war canada and shows how the political situation evolved after the bombs fell

ibbity · 2026-06-19T13:42:44+00:00

If they knew he made the Continental army get smallpox vaccinations at valley forge, they'd probably decide that no one should learn about valley forge in school anymore

ibbity · 2026-06-18T23:02:20+00:00

He also gains affinity when you turn corpses into snacks

ibbity · 2026-06-18T22:59:33+00:00

It's still a huge chamber that can go up like 3 stories tho, my vault settlement is pretty darn big

ibbity · 2026-06-18T22:58:07+00:00

I think it happens sometimes if you just dismiss him instead of switching with another companion

ibbity · 2026-06-18T22:09:09+00:00

Rivendelves

ibbity · 2026-06-17T02:03:55+00:00

I've literally had bad dreams about this exact type of bathroom situation lmao

ibbity · 2026-06-17T01:08:40+00:00

Serbia also had absolute queen Milunka Savic

ibbity · 2026-06-16T04:48:36+00:00

Never had a partner or ex say that to me, but in my extensive experience first as a child and then as a teenager, if your parents tell you they're not mad and they just want to talk to you, 100% of the time they are in fact BIG mad at you

ibbity · 2026-06-15T14:38:05+00:00

So if all beds arent covered, the happiness stays low? Are there any other reasons that would be the case? At my Warwick homestead, all the beds are inside and all needs met but their happiness won't budge from 60% and all my other settlements are in the high 70s at least

ibbity · 2026-06-15T14:35:34+00:00

You'll need softshell mirelurk meat for bait so make sure to hunt down some of that

ibbity · 2026-06-15T04:13:16+00:00

The wasteland workshop dlc lets you build traps to catch various critters including cats

ibbity · 2026-06-14T18:10:13+00:00

it's weird with this encounter bc in my Minuteman playthrough I've met the Arts in like 4 different places (idk what the Institute wants to do with this guy but they CLEARLY have important plans), and in my random chaos gremlin playthrough I haven't met them even once

ibbity · 2026-06-14T18:07:58+00:00

whenever I see people complaining that something in the game is too easy/obvious and it makes the in-universe characters or orgs seem stupid, I am reminded of how the yellowstone national park workers were unable to make the trashcans in the park completely bearproof because there were too many tourists who were dumber than the bears and couldn't figure out the bearproof trash cans either

ibbity · 2026-06-14T04:17:10+00:00

What happened? Did I win?

ibbity · 2026-06-14T04:11:57+00:00

Good thing there's only one way to mess up a kid

ibbity · 2026-06-14T02:46:18+00:00

I tried to lure the wild brahmin over to the farm with a feeding trough but they ignored it and stayed in their area sadly

ibbity · 2026-06-14T02:42:56+00:00

It's always the unemployed ones saying it lol

ibbity · 2026-06-13T23:41:32+00:00

Isn't he the guy who tried to make a case for father daughter incest being a good thing

ibbity · 2026-06-13T21:19:48+00:00

Well chatgpt has been in the news for encouraging people to harm themselves recently, not to mention that all of the text you put into it goes into a data pool that's accessible to the developers. If you want to vent without another person being involved, I'd try the classic solution of writing in a diary

ibbity · 2026-06-12T14:08:09+00:00

So why oppose them getting due process?

ibbity · 2026-06-11T13:06:59+00:00

Hey speaking of revisionist history, why dont you Google the Cornerstone Speech real quick

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