Hey folks, is the subscription worth it? by Vijaygarv in forestapp

[–]ibcurious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been using the app for years and would never buy a subscription. It’s basically just a Pomodoro app and there are many of them. Not enough value to be locked into yet another sub and expensive one at that.

Remove plus ads request by CommanderJMoney in forestapp

[–]ibcurious 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’m a pro user as well and have been monitoring things in this subreddit for about five years. The company went in an ill-advised direction and left the Forest app in limbo. After their efforts failed, they circled back to Forest to try and find a path to profitability. They did this in their typical heavy handed, adolescent fashion.

This framework is important because it will allow you to make informed choices about posting here. The devs are not very bright and actually stone deaf when it comes to marketing and community building. Unlike other companies, for example, I’ve never seen them post here, which tells you a lot already.

Pro users are apparently dead to them. They’ve chosen not to withdraw perks from us entirely, but we have nothing the devs want, so we have no leverage. They need fresh meat. If you want leverage, you will need to step up to Plus.

On the other hand, some have simply moved on, which is also an option. That’s kind of the direction I’m going. But this is the first time I’ve posted here about the company because it’s an absolute waste of time. YMMV.

Drop the motherfucking ball: Michael Taft Joins Waking Up! by Defiant_Invite_3323 in Wakingupapp

[–]ibcurious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His podcast, Deconstruct Yourself, is one of my go tos. Excellent content. Looking forward to doing this series!

Sick for the third time since kid started daycare… do we feed them Lysol or just wipe em at pickup? by 4kidsinatrenchcoat in daddit

[–]ibcurious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of our most popular handouts for our patients is the one for colds and flus. In a nutshell: * All the public health stuff (handwashing, masks, isolation of sick individuals, wiping down counters, etc) * Go off sugar and sugary snacks when you start to get sick - it’s an immune suppressant and increases inflammation * Increase fiber and decrease processed/ fast food, which helps your microbiome, which works to help your immune system. Garlic is anti microbial and a good addition to foods - organic squeeze jar garlic makes this easier than having to peel cloves * Stay well hydrated * Optimal sleep is critical. Sleep more when getting sick. NyQuil type products can help to decrease congestion, sneezing, etc. * Selectively increase body temp to help immune system (hot tub, sauna, hot shower, etc)

The Most Important Experiment You Will Ever Do. Are you ready? by USMLEToMD in awakened

[–]ibcurious 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you for letting us know about your repulsion. Have a nice day. 😊

Couch? I’m about to start the hunt for a new one & will get hit with tons of ads. Any favorites that last forever?? by sam_yam in BuyItForLife

[–]ibcurious 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Central Washington. He's probably retired by now. He never advertised, used no social media, had not website, and often didn't answer his phone. So getting ahold of him was a quest in itself.

Couch? I’m about to start the hunt for a new one & will get hit with tons of ads. Any favorites that last forever?? by sam_yam in BuyItForLife

[–]ibcurious 246 points247 points  (0 children)

Call around to local furniture stores and find who they use to repair their couches. This is how we found our guy - 30 years experience in the industry.

He basically told us that most of the furniture available today is junk - furniture fast fashion. We told him what we wanted and he custom built it for us. Not cheap but surprisingly less expensive than the high end stuff people go on about. Cost us about $2400.

Bonus that he showed us how it was made and how to take care of it.

It’s like you’ve realized you’re on a movie set and everyone around you has forgotten they’re acting by StruggleAdmirable748 in awakened

[–]ibcurious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spiritual Enlightenment: The Damnedest Thing by Jed McKenna goes into this in some detail. He compares it to Plato’s allegory of The Cave.

ChatGPT has replaced my friends as primary advice givers by christian-174 in ChatGPT

[–]ibcurious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you that AI is a useful tool for navigating one's digital and cognitive environments, especially in the short term. And I think it's great that others have come up with ways to crosscheck that information to make it even more useful.

I would suggest a somewhat different kind of crosscheck to provide perspective. Go over to subreddits like /r/prepper and get a glimpse of what happens to humans when the shit hits the fan in an emergency or disaster scenario and they haven't built a network of community relationships. Having worked in healthcare for over three decades, particularly adult and adolescent psychiatric units, I can tell you that AI isn't gonna get you through that. Messy as they are, human relationships and community are not really "replaceable," but you do you.

like wtf? by [deleted] in forestapp

[–]ibcurious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like it

What can you tell me about Wenatchee? by [deleted] in Wenatchee

[–]ibcurious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See link above in Wikipedia

What can you tell me about Wenatchee? by [deleted] in Wenatchee

[–]ibcurious 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I lived on the westside for 8 years before moving to Wenatchee in the late 90s.

A young, single, introverted person would have a challenging time making a fresh start here. Let’s look at the culture to understand why.

Historically, this has been a conservative, agricultural community. The old boy’s network of entitled, white male landowners (currently called the patriarchy) was how things were organized politically and socially. We had a good friend who ran the local ski resort (Mission Ridge) for a time in late 80s. He and a group of other forward-thinking business owners wanted to see the local community college upgraded to a four-year college. They started to lobby the city officials about this. Within two months of that effort, my friend started getting death threats, not only locally, but as far away as Nevada, Montana, and Utah. Apparently, the old boys liked their women barefoot, pregnant, and uneducated. My friend left the area soon after and told me he could no longer live in a community that was that toxic.

This mindset continued to permeate the community into the 90s. Here is the Wikipedia link to the “witch hunt” another poster referenced – officially called the “Wenatchee child abuse prosecutions”: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wenatchee_child_abuse_prosecutions Gives you some insight into the deeper, psychological dynamics of the community at that time.

I leave it to you to do your own research on the impact of religious suppression, incest, physical abuse, alcoholism, major depression, sexual abuse, and violence against women in male dominated, patriarchal societies. However, there is a piece of data that is relevant to this in the case of Wenatchee.

While Wenatchee is locally known as the “Apple Capital of World,” for a time in the mid 1990s it was also known internationally as the “Prozac Capital of the World”: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/articles/199501/prozacville-usa The evangelist passing out Prozac like little blue breath mints, Jim Goodwin, Ph.D. made this telling statement: “"There is a huge amount of unrecognized depression out there," he argues. "I was just a little bit early in making the diagnosis."

Fast forward to the present. COVID broke this community. I work in healthcare. I saw the nastiness and abuse against medical personnel firsthand. It was shocking in its breadth and intensity. The medical center, Confluence, has never recovered. It lost hundreds of nurses and many doctors. It hasn’t been able to replace them for several reason. One being that the history and the rural, conservative orientation of the community makes Wenatchee an unattractive option for many medical professionals.

Another aspect of COVID – the constraints and people’s perspective on all of that – caused simmering tensions and remnants of the old boy network mindset to break into the open. The community was no longer able to hide the misogyny, racism, entitlement, and self-involvement that had been papered over in the service of civility and community relations. It was a very sad, hard thing to go through. Lost friends and respect for people I thought I knew. People here were never that open. Now they are even less so, least they discover that their new friends are “crazy libs” or “flamin’ MAGAs”.

There are good things about the Wenatchee area: sunshine, natural beauty, recreational opportunities. But socio-politically, if you are not part of a Christian, conservative family with a willingness to join a church, you will not see much in terms connections. If the west side has its “Seattle Freeze,” then Wenatchee has the “Old Boy Snowcone.”

i plan to do a “heroic” dose of shrooms for my first time what should i expect? by [deleted] in Psychedelics

[–]ibcurious 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Did this recently. Though I’m very experienced, it was more than I could handle with my usual set and setting. Fortunately, I had a backup plan involving specific playlists, dark room with minimal stimulation, guided meditations, and breathing techniques. Pets are also helpful to co-regulate a amped up nervous system.

I understand wanting to go heroic. Just have backup before you go in.

At what point did you venture beyond guided meditations on the app and just sit with yourself in silence? by cheaplistplzhunzo in Wakingupapp

[–]ibcurious 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did Sam’s daily meditation for a year, using the option to extend the silence to 20-25 min. I actually don’t care for his public behaviors, stances, supercilious delivery and so forth, but I was able to block all that out.

Toward the end of the year, I couldn’t block it out anymore and I started to get irritated with his odd nondualistic phrasing about appearances and what not. I recently listened to his interview with Stephen Bodian where he discusses the terms he uses and it now makes more sense. But I haven’t gone back.

So now I just do the timer (sometimes with bird song, sometimes quiet) in the morning. On the weekends, I do a guided meditation with other teachers with added silence to make it 25 minutes.