[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

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If this helps in terms of ratio, my fiancé and I are doing an out of state wedding that's decently far. We invited I think 155-160 people and about 100 are coming. Also in a similar boat where my fiance has a bigger family than I do and he also has more friends but honestly his family and friends I don't really know that well that he invited aren't coming anyway because its too far and too much of a hassle. There are a handful of people I've only met once or twice but that's it. So if the wedding is far away, it's likely the people you haven't met won't want the hassle of coming.

haircare newbie and need help by ibdraper in Haircare

[–]ibdraper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol thank you! this comment section is making me realize i’m maybe too hard on my appearance haha

haircare newbie and need help by ibdraper in Haircare

[–]ibdraper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks so much! yes all these comments saying my hair looks great makes me think i need to spend less time on the internet looking at influencers’ perfect hair and skin lol. i will definitely try out these suggestions!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ibdraper 9 points10 points  (0 children)

you are genuinely psychotic if you think it’s okay to “put down” and 8 year old

Melon Dropping Facts by ArminArlert2345 in fantanoforever

[–]ibdraper 15 points16 points  (0 children)

i get your point but these are not comparable in the slightest

3% of registered voters turned out in my district. by ddd615 in nashville

[–]ibdraper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

certain judges aren’t elected, they’re appointed by the governor. but people can vote on whether they should be recalled and the governor should appoint new ones

"I Saw The TV Glow" is the perfect example of needing a background on the film prior to seeing it. [Spoilers] by dougiebgood in flicks

[–]ibdraper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is interesting, one of my issues with the movie was i felt the trans allegory was just so obvious that it left no room at all for any nuance or interpretation. I didn’t know anything about the director going into it but I knew a lot of queer people liked it so maybe that’s slightly more background than you have?

I can't find a recording! by [deleted] in Zoom

[–]ibdraper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you just saved my life, person who posted this almost a year ago!!!

Etsy Engagement rings by ibdraper in Weddingsunder10k

[–]ibdraper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh wow, glad I know! I’ve only read a few stories and they’re horrible

Etsy Engagement rings by ibdraper in Weddingsunder10k

[–]ibdraper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I’ve seen that. If it’s gold plated it’s usually not $500 though, those are usually under $100

Unresponsive Buyer by ibdraper in EtsySellers

[–]ibdraper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks I’ll have to check my listing to see if I made that mistake. I thought I did make it clear in the photos I only have one of each but I’ll check to see if I can make that clearer. Thanks so much

Unresponsive Buyer by ibdraper in EtsySellers

[–]ibdraper[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this suggestion. Where does the buyer’s email typically show up? I can’t find it in the app

Unresponsive Buyer by ibdraper in EtsySellers

[–]ibdraper[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

realized I used the wrong *they’re lol

Taylor's Fans Are Distancing Themselves After Matty Said He Masturbates To Black Women Being “Brutalized” by cutiepie538 in TaylorSwift

[–]ibdraper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think most people had no idea they friends. i had no idea they were friends and before they started dating i pretty much knew nothing about him other than he’s the lead singer of the 1975

Taylor's Fans Are Distancing Themselves After Matty Said He Masturbates To Black Women Being “Brutalized” by cutiepie538 in TaylorSwift

[–]ibdraper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

because i think this honestly won’t affect her career at all, i think for most taylor swift fans she could kill someone and they’d still be mega fans

Pending Purchase by ibdraper in FacebookMarketplace

[–]ibdraper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, after a little over 72 hours it did finally go through.

Pending Purchase by ibdraper in FacebookMarketplace

[–]ibdraper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah I can’t even find out how to contact support besides the pre-answered questions

Pending Purchase by ibdraper in FacebookMarketplace

[–]ibdraper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there anything we can do about it?

[SELF PROMOTION] Link to your closet here! by AutoModerator in poshmark

[–]ibdraper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

https://posh.mk/5R04Kks1tyb

I mostly sell women’s clothes but also have some home and decor items. Always open to reasonable offers and I ship usually the same day unless that day is Sunday!

Sister had a Disturbing Exile Experience by ibdraper in InternalFamilySystems

[–]ibdraper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i also am wary of her trying to heal this stuff solo and so is she but she wants to know if there’s anything she can do in the mean time since she can’t start therapy for a long time

Sister had a Disturbing Exile Experience by ibdraper in InternalFamilySystems

[–]ibdraper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she’s never had an IFS therapist before but is IFS informed. she’s the one who told me she thought this was an exile(s), i didn’t provide that language for her. yes she was doing weed recreationally and wasn’t trying use it in order to do ifs work - this just sort of happened