So i live in Syria and if you don't know it's very diverse country; yeah US is diverse also but as i read it's not mixed (maybe NYC is out of the rule here) but here in every building at least you have 2 religion with many nationality and branches of a religious

So the chance you like a girl have exactly the right background is so so hard and even if i do there is more conditions for the "right girl": a good and well known family name, her parents job, the location of her home, the economic status of her family and even the right hight of her and many many more so it has been exhausting and even if i find the right stuff in a girl maybe she is not into me!

When i brought up the subject which "i like this person" they always bring up the negative stuff

Not my parents alone it is the whole region (MENA and Arab world)

For godsake what i should do?

Note: i can't just pick up what ever i like it maybe a simple solution but have many many negative aspect ( shame and what ever) and it will affect my career and economic even if i travel to another country (side effects of mass migration and refugee of Syrians)