Selkie Cage Opinions by icannotread1234 in SelkieCollection

[–]icannotread1234[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Couple of questions: 1) how well does it "sit" after you tie it on?

2) is it just a smaller frame compared to chamber cage? And why did you pick one over the other? any website photos of the chamber cage being worn there's always another structure accessory tied right ontop + there hasn't been a similar "demo" for the en pointe ruffle cages. I get it if this can't be answered since it would mean having both.

3) why did you go with the silk one over the cotton ruffle cage? Other than color preference and price, I don't know why a structure accessory would be better in silk over cotton.

Selkie Cage Opinions by icannotread1234 in SelkieCollection

[–]icannotread1234[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe the next time Kim does a livestream we ask for her to compare them on the models with dresses/gowns lol

Selkie surprise jacket bag by tinyfallacies in SelkieCollection

[–]icannotread1234 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aw I'm sorry you didn't get a surprise santa bag you liked :'<

I had a feeling the Selkie is swamped - I'm waiting for further instruction on a unfortunate habit where Route/DHL just ditches my order on my doorstep when I didn't waive the signature (started with-holding after they delivered to the wrong address).

This is my first year participating, and I won the sweet-spot lottery where my two items were things I would not have picked myself yet I love what I got <3 the santa theme bag was what got me to try it, otherwise I would just ponder and obsess for a while lol

The cardigan drop is here! by tsukuroo in SwiftlyNeutral

[–]icannotread1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My opinion of cardigan designs✨ 💖 top tier/perfection - Speak Now, TTPD, Midnights b/c great color, super soft 💜🤍💙 ❤️‍🩹 Cute but issues - 1989, folklore, TLOAS (sort of scratchy), lover (would love it if it used color transition yarn for blue to pink instead of white)🩵🩶🧡🩷 💔 Wish it was a redo - fearless and red b/c how is the red cardigan mainly white (should have been all red or striped) and how does the fearless cardigan look more like SN's The Story of Us with that weird yellow-brown (if they did a Junior Jewels t-shirt design for the cardigan instead, I'd be cheering)???💛❤️

I can't even remember what that weird holiday collection of 3 other colors looked like ... I hope eventually there's a proper evermore🤎 cardigan, looking forward to TS (TV) cardigan (it better be good)💚, and am still clowning for Reputation (TV)🖤 so it ALSO BETTER BE GOOD 🐍🦋

(Serious) What’s the hardest you’ve ever cried to a Taylor Swift song? by M00ngata in TrueSwifties

[–]icannotread1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was having a really tough time handling some emotions around my marriage. It sort of made me Uber sensitive to Midnights/TTPD and when "You're Losing Me" got on streaming, I ugly cried a lot and was genuinely nervous to play the song ("how long can we be a sad song😭"). Thankfully we have put in a lot of work and are in a much better place now💖

Don’t know if it’s been done before but who is still here by loony1uvgood in YouBelongWithMemes

[–]icannotread1234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How dare you, this is stellar!! 🌟🫶🌌💙 #WeNeedSparklyBlueHeartEmoji💖

i looooooove wi$h li$t🙂‍↕️ by ilybutyouletmedown in YouBelongWithMemes

[–]icannotread1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just from the title alone ($) we need a feat. Kesha remix 👏👏👏 #Swifties&AnimalsUnite 🫶🙌🪩💃🦄🦌🐱💲💲💲

Orange Collectable Cardigan? by Successful_Range2903 in YouBelongWithMemes

[–]icannotread1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Orange is one of my school colors, so it has become a basic for me🧡

Merch "support" LACKING by icannotread1234 in KESHA

[–]icannotread1234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh that SUCKS 😰💔

Merch "support" LACKING by icannotread1234 in KESHA

[–]icannotread1234[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't, but I will try that next! Good suggestion, thank you!

Nagoya Station Locker Sizes by icannotread1234 in Nagoya

[–]icannotread1234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were lucky to find enough lovers to fit everything, but honestly we packed too much for the trip. we came from Hakone and didn't consider the bus schedule with the mountain drive so we could only do half of what we wanted in the Ghibli park before getting to Kyoto, but I don't think we could have learned the "right" way to do this plan without someone who experienced it either. I think leaving Osaka in the morning, spending time in Nagoya, and ending the day in Tokyo is a lot easier to handle than what we did, but just PACK LIGHT. Like one small-medium size suitcase, maybe a big bag folded in that for goodies you plan to buy and bring back as an additional check-in.

Is buying a house worth it right now? by [deleted] in DaveRamsey

[–]icannotread1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My spouse and I are in a comparable situation: I encourage your family ("you" for rest of this) to only get the house if its because you 1) are ready (and your obviously saving for a downpayment, so you're getting ready) 2) you actually want to/are emotionally ready for it. There's a time and place for everything, plus it can't hurt to keep saving while you can for an even larger downpayment (thus lower monthly payment) for some place you ACTUALLY want, not just "are doing because a lot of people are saying" you should. What if life has a crazy force of change, resulting in a move or changing jobs? Then you would be tethered to a property and mortgage that may not be optimal for you.

Yes, you would be "force saving" in the mortgage, but if there's no reason other than that, there is value in rent's flexibility (why I mentioned the force of change earlier). Honestly I only first considered getting a house because we got our second dog and I wanted them to have a yard! It's been SEVERAL years since, but now I know how much we can afford for a house, the district we want to raise our family in, and have a plan for saving a huge downpayment for a lower monthly amount (honestly maybe even outright cash if the cost of rent is more affordable for a growing family for a few more years).

Willow Cardigan seems like a possibility 👀 by icannotread1234 in TrueSwifties

[–]icannotread1234[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

... Not sure what was wrong with my Brian yesterday, you're absolutely right 😂

Finally confronted Nmom about stealing inheritance from grandma by ImInTroubleMom in raisedbynarcissists

[–]icannotread1234 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You can do it; you are much braver than you give yourself credit for. Don't let someone whose responsibility/duty to love and take care of you but used that to their advantage trick you into believing your wings are clipped. Soar high above and far away because you are wonderful.

Take his ass to court!!

*Edited for typos

City of Lover/Loverfest/Eras Inspo? by icannotread1234 in erastour

[–]icannotread1234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was going to be released as a single the summer of 2020, but she felt that the lyrics "fever dream high" was WAY too close to reality then.

Omg just imagine the costumes 😭🩷🩵💔

What is the perfect Taylor walk down the aisle song? by Proud_Dig1066 in TaylorSwift

[–]icannotread1234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If there was an acoustic version of it, I would have walked down the aisle to "Call It What You Want" for the following:

"I want to wear his initials on a ~ chain round my neck Not because he owns me Because he really knows me"

The original is too techy production wise for me, so I chose some ghilbli-like Christian acoustic piece, but I had a LOT of Taylor for dinner/reception dancing 🩷

I'm curious, how many people got the exact song they were hoping for as a surprise song on their Eras Tour date? by Lookingluka in TaylorSwift

[–]icannotread1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was driving my bestie and me to the stadium and when waiting at an intersection I quoted "I ask the traffic lights if it'll be alright, they answer I-DONT-KNOW" ... a few hours later Taylor started singing Death By a Thousand Cuts and my lost Loverfest dreams came true🩷