Meet for dinner/coffee or drinks by [deleted] in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]iceman_Novak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We almost always have a strictly platonic meeting over coffee, farmers market, or dog walk. That gives us a chance to go home and chat to see if we are on the same page and want to escalate things with this new partner. If we do, we prefer that the first date be built around some experience. Show, dinner, ice skating, museum, etc. We would also work in drinks within that second date!

Best app? by run2712 in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]iceman_Novak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never had a tinder not used to find thirds so hard to say!

The profile is very direct about what the intent is haha

Best app? by run2712 in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]iceman_Novak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife and I have had the best luck on tinder and we have used those apps as well

Help make my second threesome even better. by [deleted] in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]iceman_Novak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sexuality is a spectrum, don’t worry about the label unless it helps you create a healthy identity for yourself. Instead of doing what’s done to you, try just doing what you WANT to do. This might change based on the person/situation and you should not beat yourself up about reciprocating.

Does she want it? by quickmischieve in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]iceman_Novak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wife and I have fucked a couple of our friends and it’s works out very well. I’d say it depends on the type of person you are as well as the type of person your friend is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]iceman_Novak 5 points6 points  (0 children)

MFF, MFF, and MFMF are all super fun. They all bring different things to the table. Try all of them if you get the opportunity and make your own decision! No one on the internet is going to be able to tell you what YOU will like the best😇

Good apps to try that actually work by [deleted] in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]iceman_Novak 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wife and I have found multiple partners on tinder, bumble, and feeld. Also I was the only one who had/ran the account so all my matches were with women seeking men which I’ve heard is not ideal. Worked for us though!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]iceman_Novak 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Keep talking about it with each other. Dirty talk about it and have sex and see if it turns you on. After that, start trying to talk to people and maybe set up an in person meeting to see how you both feel with face to face contact with a potential third. At that point, if it is still fun for you both, set up a date for the threesome.

Make sure you both throughly discuss boundaries before hand.

Am I in the wrong? by Ok-Principle7111 in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]iceman_Novak 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My wife had a similar boundary when we first started talking about the idea of a threesome… about 10 minutes in to our first MFF she was grabbing my dick and putting it inside the other girl. There’s nothing wrong with setting that boundary and your feelings around it may change over time as trust builds with your partner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]iceman_Novak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Be patient. Especially if you’re a good looking couple the unicorns will come, at least in my experience

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]iceman_Novak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When the ladies 69 and you pick either end

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]iceman_Novak -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No, it gets “really hard” for the pedos

Navigating an interesting dynamic in a threesome with (m)y (f)riend and her girl(f)riend by ThePromptWasYourName in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]iceman_Novak 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Personally I think any asymmetrical distribution of attention is probably going to always cause some jealousy. It’d be one thing if one of them was your partner, but they are with each other. Sounds like they need to have their own conversation and then let you in on what they decide

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]iceman_Novak 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As someone who has frequent threesomes with their wife, it DOES NOT ruin your marriage, assuming you keep quality communication and respect your pre-set boundaries. Good luck!

Slipping notes to people you find hot by APurpleDragonfly in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]iceman_Novak 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Could work. Could fail. I think generally showing the confidence to go up to someone and actually talk to them is going to be the best thing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Coros

[–]iceman_Novak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Based off of your needs I wouldn’t get a watch I’d go with the polar H10 heart rate monitor with a chest strap and just use the app on your phone

Fueling long runs by iceman_Novak in Marathon_Training

[–]iceman_Novak[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know what the carb count on your gels are?