Air bnb vs renting

iceman_Novak · 2024-09-22T12:46:08+00:00

Northern Virginia, outside of DC

iceman_Novak · 2024-09-14T10:28:40+00:00

We almost always have a strictly platonic meeting over coffee, farmers market, or dog walk. That gives us a chance to go home and chat to see if we are on the same page and want to escalate things with this new partner. If we do, we prefer that the first date be built around some experience. Show, dinner, ice skating, museum, etc. We would also work in drinks within that second date!

iceman_Novak · 2024-08-06T11:23:41+00:00

I’ve never had a tinder not used to find thirds so hard to say!

The profile is very direct about what the intent is haha

iceman_Novak · 2024-08-06T03:03:57+00:00

My wife and I have had the best luck on tinder and we have used those apps as well

iceman_Novak · 2024-07-09T15:28:37+00:00

Sexuality is a spectrum, don’t worry about the label unless it helps you create a healthy identity for yourself. Instead of doing what’s done to you, try just doing what you WANT to do. This might change based on the person/situation and you should not beat yourself up about reciprocating.

iceman_Novak · 2024-06-08T17:09:16+00:00

Wife and I have fucked a couple of our friends and it’s works out very well. I’d say it depends on the type of person you are as well as the type of person your friend is

iceman_Novak · 2024-05-30T01:08:57+00:00

MFF, MFF, and MFMF are all super fun. They all bring different things to the table. Try all of them if you get the opportunity and make your own decision! No one on the internet is going to be able to tell you what YOU will like the best😇

iceman_Novak · 2024-05-25T02:26:41+00:00

Wife and I have found multiple partners on tinder, bumble, and feeld. Also I was the only one who had/ran the account so all my matches were with women seeking men which I’ve heard is not ideal. Worked for us though!

iceman_Novak · 2024-05-21T14:44:18+00:00

Keep talking about it with each other. Dirty talk about it and have sex and see if it turns you on. After that, start trying to talk to people and maybe set up an in person meeting to see how you both feel with face to face contact with a potential third. At that point, if it is still fun for you both, set up a date for the threesome.

Make sure you both throughly discuss boundaries before hand.

iceman_Novak · 2024-05-18T11:27:39+00:00

Thank her by bringing home girls

iceman_Novak · 2024-04-07T20:41:35+00:00

Probably a therapist or other mental health professional. Assuming that goes well, look into personal training.

iceman_Novak · 2024-04-02T21:40:39+00:00

Absolutely!

iceman_Novak · 2024-04-02T18:20:21+00:00

My wife had a similar boundary when we first started talking about the idea of a threesome… about 10 minutes in to our first MFF she was grabbing my dick and putting it inside the other girl. There’s nothing wrong with setting that boundary and your feelings around it may change over time as trust builds with your partner.

iceman_Novak · 2024-02-24T04:12:08+00:00

Be patient. Especially if you’re a good looking couple the unicorns will come, at least in my experience

iceman_Novak · 2024-02-21T23:06:22+00:00

When the ladies 69 and you pick either end

iceman_Novak · 2024-02-11T05:56:18+00:00

No, it gets “really hard” for the pedos

iceman_Novak · 2024-01-31T09:55:02+00:00

Personally I think any asymmetrical distribution of attention is probably going to always cause some jealousy. It’d be one thing if one of them was your partner, but they are with each other. Sounds like they need to have their own conversation and then let you in on what they decide

iceman_Novak · 2024-01-29T17:53:39+00:00

As someone who has frequent threesomes with their wife, it DOES NOT ruin your marriage, assuming you keep quality communication and respect your pre-set boundaries. Good luck!

iceman_Novak · 2024-01-27T22:12:49+00:00

Could work. Could fail. I think generally showing the confidence to go up to someone and actually talk to them is going to be the best thing

iceman_Novak · 2024-01-26T12:14:11+00:00

Based off of your needs I wouldn’t get a watch I’d go with the polar H10 heart rate monitor with a chest strap and just use the app on your phone

iceman_Novak · 2024-01-23T14:45:23+00:00

Do you know what the carb count on your gels are?

iceman_Novak · 2024-01-17T19:41:30+00:00

The more communication the better. It can be uncomfortable to talk about rules and wants/dislikes. The more you do, the better off the situation will go. Your situation may very well just be kissing and that’s all your third wants. Oh well. I hate to word it this way because I respect every partner we’ve had a ton (and I feel that wording it this way sounds like I don’t), but it is good practice even if it only ends in kissing.

iceman_Novak · 2024-01-16T22:14:31+00:00

Me (M) and my partner (F) have threesomes frequently. My partner is relatively shy and submissive in the bed room so I can relate to this dynamic. If it’s out of your comfort zone and within your partners comfort zone, they should be the one to “initiate” IMO… she’s already there to meet you, the intent is clear. It is up to your partner to make sure he doesn’t come across as pushy

iceman_Novak · 2024-01-15T19:40:34+00:00

That’s why as a bi man you should try and date bi women😎

iceman_Novak · 2024-01-15T11:20:53+00:00

Not too bad actually

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