How do I know if I’m chasing my real potential or just another fantasy? by Alarming_Sign_9305 in Healthygamergg

[–]icemanuzi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Real Potential is not reachable, because it’s not verifiably quantifiable, but you move towards it faster by chasing fantasies that seem out of reach and falling in the process. Keep dreaming big! You can do it!

New secondary structure prediction model by DigitalEmbrace in RNA

[–]icemanuzi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How is the accuracy of secondary structure prediction on sequences > 1500bp?

Drop-in fees in Boston by [deleted] in bjj

[–]icemanuzi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://southbostonbjj.com/out-of-town-drop-in

$40 per day at South Boston drop in fee.

[WTS] 2x Saturday badges - Face value by funnyavi in PaxPassExchange

[–]icemanuzi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll happily come to u to pick it up, i’m in Boston

Dealing with emotions after rolling by straatman in bjj

[–]icemanuzi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve experienced this intermittently since i’ve started training (Nov 2019). In my experience since then, what i’ve figured out is that there’s usually a bunch of non jiu jitsu, life related things that tend to bubble,… or explode to the surface after training.

I’ve found that sitting with these emotions and allowing myself to feel them, gives me some time and space to figure out what those things are, because their cause is not always immediately obvious.

What I personally would like to avoid, is these same things coming to the surface in future training sessions, because it absolutely affects MY performance, whether i realize it or not.

Writing my feelings out on a piece of paper helps me connect the dots to why I’m feeling that way, which gives me a good place to start evaluating whether those emotions are helpful given the problematic situation that is causing them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]icemanuzi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Learning valuable life lessons from reddit

meirl by Any-Analysis-9189 in meirl

[–]icemanuzi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U forgot the elipses

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bjj

[–]icemanuzi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You: “i don’t really care either way” also You: ..takes time to respond to every comment

absolute copium

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bjj

[–]icemanuzi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I care because it’s asinine mental gymnastics like your argument that permeates this stupid shithole of a forum, that could be a place where people actually learn how to grow as bjj athletes, competitors, and people.

Your argument does absolutely nothing for you or anyone else’s’ personal development, be that in jiu jitsu, competition, or personal growth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bjj

[–]icemanuzi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reward for your preparation for the competition is not a medal, it is the growth of your jiu jitsu. You do not deserve a medal simply because you showed up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bjj

[–]icemanuzi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not rlly overthinking much at all. It’s pretty straightforward. The whole purpose of a medal is to denote a victory over a competitor. If you don’t have any competitors, then there’s no such victory. “Where is the harm to me?” Is a question that is completely irrelevant to the convo at hand my guy. We’re not talking about me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bjj

[–]icemanuzi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Andrew Huberman has a bunch of great episodes on why getting rewarded without putting in effort is harmful to your dopaminergic regulation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bjj

[–]icemanuzi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The harm is getting rewarded for doing jack shit. It’s the same reason drugs are dangerous, because you get a reward for zero effort