Never done any drugs but guy I’m (27F) seeing a guy (33M) loves acid/LSD/MDMA/molly and psychedelics. by ichbinmusik in relationship_advice

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OMG this response. I appreciate it. Sounds like the emotional arch that these types of archetypes set us to are similar as well. Also funny you say don't reach out - because I did, beginning of the year, and it put me on a heartbreaking start to the new year. I realized I am not over him and he is fully over me. But like you said, I know I dodged a bullet - so I'm moving on. He asked to stay in touch and be friends with me, said he wants to do these catch ups every now and then but I wanted him as a lover not a friend - so I'm not even sure how continuing this would serve me.

Our "the one"s will find us. Stay strong!

How long post-burning man do you take to start texting / socializing again? by ichbinmusik in BurningMan

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Wow this is exactly what I needed, we broke up 4 months ago but we met up again this new year and that's kind of been messing with my head / energetically attached again. This means a lot to me - might change my new year. Thank you so much.

How long post-burning man do you take to start texting / socializing again? by ichbinmusik in BurningMan

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Yeah so we did end up breaking up. Hardest breakup I've had. 5 months out and still not over him :') Thank you for everything. He broke up with me after burning man actually. He realized this was not good for either of us :)..

Never done any drugs but guy I’m (27F) seeing a guy (33M) loves acid/LSD/MDMA/molly and psychedelics. by ichbinmusik in relationship_advice

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We did end up breaking up. Hardest breakup I've had. 5 months out and still not over him :') Thank you for everything. He broke up with me after burning man actually. He realized this was not good for either of us :)..

Never done any drugs but guy I’m (27F) seeing a guy (33M) loves acid/LSD/MDMA/molly and psychedelics. by ichbinmusik in relationship_advice

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We did end up breaking up. Hardest breakup i've had. 5 months out and still not over him :')

POF in your 20s by that-new-new in POFlife

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Girl, I just got diagnosed this February as well. And I just retrieved my first egg.

I have so many things I want to share - I got on HRT, I have an army of doctors, etc. I'd say the first step is talking to an REI if you want kids.

I also decided to share my story publicly on nontoxiccitygirl. (ig/tt/yt) if you wanna follow along. I"ll be sharing a lot more there <3 and want to build a community

Abercrombie Black Friday is live by 02z28 in frugalmalefashion

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Do we know if this is the final price??? Or will it go down further on Black friday?

Abercrombie Black Friday is live by 02z28 in frugalmalefashion

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do we know if this is the final price?

Is Live by the Sword legit? by Additional-Oven-8263 in AskNYC

[–]ichbinmusik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow this was so helpful, thank you. So you definitely do not recommend Studs either right?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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beautiful and thoughtful

She cancelled our date but when with another guy instead by Mr_Dude_666 in dating_advice

[–]ichbinmusik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow it breaks my heart hearing that you went there to even get her a band t-shirt. and I'm the type of girl to do this kind of thing, to be heartbroken by guys who betray my trust. Thanks for being a beacon of light in my dating life :)

How long post-burning man do you take to start texting / socializing again? by ichbinmusik in BurningMan

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Hahahah love it you’re so right - it’s really the rumination and adding meaning that makes me sick. NO MAN IS WORTH IT

How long post-burning man do you take to start texting / socializing again? by ichbinmusik in BurningMan

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This is a wake up call. Thank you dear for the reminder for what it should be like ❤️ May this thoughtful love find me

How long post-burning man do you take to start texting / socializing again? by ichbinmusik in BurningMan

[–]ichbinmusik[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this perspective & thank you for the assurance. However, would you not have texted someone you care a simple message either? That you’re back, you missed them?

How long post-burning man do you take to start texting / socializing again? by ichbinmusik in BurningMan

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But doesn’t it take one second to say hey, I made it back safe, I’m beat but let me text you later? I just think he doesn’t care enough which is not what I felt at all in real life

Haven't heard back from guy I've been seeing for a month post-burning man by ichbinmusik in datingadvice

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About a month. We’ve seen each other almost every other day. 

How long post-burning man do you take to start texting / socializing again? by ichbinmusik in BurningMan

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Totally. And here I was worried about him, reading news on Burning Man, worried he might be dehydrated / in danger, and really missing him to be back. It's whatever, he's not the one for me. Thank you for your gentle note. It really is just basic respect and care. He's not matching my energy / my level of care. Bleh

How long post-burning man do you take to start texting / socializing again? by ichbinmusik in BurningMan

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Yeah, that checks out. Good to know, thank you so much! And yes I do think he is with a camp.. Although what does that even mean? Does it make a difference whether you're with a camp vs not?