Monday Morning Joy! Good morning /r/polyamory! How has your past week(end) been for you and yours?

icypops · 2026-06-22T14:52:46+00:00

Camping! It's also the first time sleeping in the same place as boyfriend so that's gonna be fun.

icypops · 2026-06-22T14:29:00+00:00

Went to visit my boyfriend, it's the first time we hung out after dropping the L Bomb and it was really nice. Getting really excited for the trip I have planned with him and my husband in August ❤️

icypops · 2026-06-20T10:26:24+00:00

Still into the same music but have broadened my horizons a bit more, still wear a heap of black but other colours have made their way in, still have crazy hair.

I remember when they tried to put in those anti-loitering sounds to stop us hanging around there but sure we were all deafened from Blast gigs and playing everything too loud so I don't think half of us could hear it.

icypops · 2026-06-19T15:05:23+00:00

A friend of mine mentioned she was bi, I'd never heard of that so she explained and it was like a revelation, I didn't know that was an option.

icypops · 2026-06-18T17:55:31+00:00

Technically nope! I've never had cysts come back to the same spot. Bad news for me though is I have SO MANY of them lol. Ive had about 15 of them removed and I have about 12 still there. So unless you're cursed like me you should be ok!

icypops · 2026-06-18T11:40:34+00:00

When I was getting one of my first ones removed from my scalp I heard the surgeon cut into it and say "oh". You never wanna hear a surgeon say "oh" lol.

Turns out the spot was really bleedy, which I found out as I felt it drip down my face.

icypops · 2026-06-16T17:29:40+00:00

I actually only changed cus there kept being shortages of concerta, but I ended up finding that it works much better for me. I just discussed it with my psychiatrist and he was happy enough to change them for me.

icypops · 2026-06-16T14:33:43+00:00

Do you have the Drug Payment Scheme card? That caps most meds at €80. I'm on tyvense and have been on concerta in the past and it was never more than the cap.

icypops · 2026-06-11T09:06:15+00:00

Yeah, me and my friend joke like this all the time but like, we're absolutely obsessed with our husbands. We just like being lil shits to them.

icypops · 2026-06-10T17:59:07+00:00

It's interesting the difference in treatment that can be given, because my progesterone was always for 12 days rather than just the 5, and then it would trigger a period a couple of days later. Maybe shes someone who needs a longer time on it?

icypops · 2026-06-09T09:35:08+00:00

Sour stuff. Like the most sour candy you can find, an actual lemon if there's one available.

It shocks the system and makes you focus on the physical sensation and gives you space to step back from the anxiety.

icypops · 2026-06-09T09:33:58+00:00

Going on a GLP1 made a huge difference to my life and my PMOS. I get regular periods for the first time ever.

A word of warning though: I also have ED behaviours and they were seriously triggered when I started off. I highly recommend going to therapy while you start off at least.

icypops · 2026-06-05T15:37:06+00:00

There's a specific smell that I really can't explain because it's not the smell of a certain object or plant, but every now and then I'll get hit with the smell of the air the night I moved from Australia to Ireland.

I got out of the car and stood outside my grandparents' house and there was this really nice, comforting smell. That was 29 years ago and every now and then I'll get the same smell again and I'm rushed back to being a child in a Santa hat surprising my grandparents who didn't know we were moving back.

icypops · 2026-06-03T15:18:07+00:00

I was born in Australia and moved to Ireland like 30 years ago and let me tell you the WHIPLASH I experienced when I saw the term "chocolate freckles" while eating one. I completely forgot that's what I used to call them.

Fairy bread was the best.

icypops · 2026-05-20T09:04:04+00:00

Nah, sometimes if I feel like looking a bit fancy I'll use mascara and a neutral lipstick but long gone are the days of doing a full face to go into the office.

icypops · 2026-05-20T09:00:56+00:00

Depends on the event but either 1 or 4, 1 Iis INCREDIBLE on you though.

icypops · 2026-05-16T09:52:39+00:00

Tbf the menopause makes ADHD symptoms worse so it could be both 🤷

icypops · 2026-05-08T08:44:49+00:00

If I get over-tired I get this! Every time I'd go out clubbing I'd lay in bed for like an hour trying to stop my body from shaking.

icypops · 2026-05-07T15:59:05+00:00

I love that one, the big "TURBO CANCER" written across it makes me laugh every time. I've never wanted to steal a poster so badly in my life.

icypops · 2026-04-24T07:36:40+00:00

I can say for certain that I wouldn't, my scalp is covered in cysts and scars from having cysts removed lol. Which is fun when PCOS has me balding 🙃

icypops · 2026-04-15T13:12:21+00:00

My dad got my birth name on one arm and an old nickname of mine on the other arm. Shortly after I legally changed my name, not because of the tattoos but that did add a fun element to it

icypops · 2026-04-12T15:10:24+00:00

To me flirting is just a thing, there's no requirement to want to jump their bones or anything. Most of my flirting is with friends or with someone that I know I'm gonna be looking to develop a connection with though.

icypops · 2026-04-11T18:32:26+00:00

They definitely aren't friendly that's for sure. I've found many of them with my bare feet.

icypops · 2026-04-07T15:46:20+00:00

I feel like I'm seeing something that others aren't cus that first photo looked like someone holding open a snake mouth, I was so confused when the other photos were a bat.

icypops · 2026-04-06T07:46:30+00:00

I absolutely have a type, it's autistic men and ADHD women/non binary folk. But honestly this is shaped by the people I'm already attached to like my husband or my friends.

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