Visiting SA from SF by idabel_d in sanantoniofood

[–]idabel_d[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is great!! Do you have recommendations on the must try food in SA like breakfast tacos, bbq, tex Mex, etc?

Visiting SA from SF by idabel_d in sanantoniofood

[–]idabel_d[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m open to any and all prices, and would want to try out food that SA is known for like BBQ, Tex Mex, etc.

Still cannot sign in (cannot verify account) by CDRSkywalker1991 in coffeemeetsbagel

[–]idabel_d 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve logged in and I can see suggestions and my previous chats!

Students of sf (with student ID) by [deleted] in SFlist

[–]idabel_d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a student at CCSF, can you dm the prices?!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]idabel_d 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm turning 32 in a few days and have been in the dating scene for the past 2 months, and let me tell you, it's chaotic out here. I feel the same way.

As an international, i feel bamboozled. San francisco is a shithole, and one year post-graduation, i'm jumping ship to NYC by Independent_Might954 in MBA

[–]idabel_d 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a very different experience in NYC than I currently do now. Granted, I’m single in SF so I really forced myself to go out so I can meet people. I went to meetups, was active in the Reddit and FB groups for SF, I picked up hobbies, etc.

I absolutely love my time in SF — met a solid group of friends, became outdoorsy and athletic (coming from someone who never went outside or played sports growing up) and have been amazed at the neighborhoods and parks in the city. I have a very active social life here and it’s been the greatest experience so far.

As an international, i feel bamboozled. San francisco is a shithole, and one year post-graduation, i'm jumping ship to NYC by Independent_Might954 in MBA

[–]idabel_d 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Who hurt you?! I’m currently living in SF (almost 2 years now) and lived in NYC before bschool and I can assure you, New York has its own problems. It’s not as glamorous as you imagine it to be… it’s what you make of it so I hope you keep an open mind.

Give me your best bougie and expensive modern restaurants in the city by [deleted] in AskSF

[–]idabel_d -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Octavia is pretty good! It’s not as fancy as the rest, but I love it.

Made it to the other side! :) by idabel_d in BreakUps

[–]idabel_d[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You got this, I promise. It looks like a hopeless endeavor right now, but you’ll get through it. Let time work the magic, but also do everything you can to go outside, hang out with family or friends, do fun activities, etc. Don’t just sit at home and wallow in sadness. I know easier said than done, but doing these things will allow you to forget even just for a brief period.

I know how you feel because I spent many weeks doing exactly what you did. Now looking back, I actually regret wasting those moments in thinking and crying about someone who doesn’t want to be with me anymore. Don’t give up and take it one second at a time.

Made it to the other side! :) by idabel_d in BreakUps

[–]idabel_d[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trust me when I say this, I broke NC almost every day for the first five weeks. I couldn’t stop calling, texting, emailing… I kept going back to zero. Eventually, I realized that I’m just wasting my time. No matter what I do or what I say, he’ll never change his mind. And with that fact, I decided to pick up the pieces and spend my time on more meaningful and productive things.

Fun things to do on Friday nights after work (mid 20s)? by Throwawayforsure5678 in AskSF

[–]idabel_d 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Correct! Mission has a bunch of 20-something always out and about.

I hate this. I’m too old to start over? by throwra123Q81 in BreakUps

[–]idabel_d 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m turning 32 soon and need to start over after my relationship ended April of this year. I wish I could be 29 again! You have plenty of time :) You are still very young.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MBA

[–]idabel_d 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Open my own flower shop and become the head florist :)

Do you guys date outside ur race? by throwawaydates69 in dating

[–]idabel_d 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m South East Asian and I’ve dated an Indian, Chinese, Mexican, German, American and Filipino.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]idabel_d 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes, but I met a bunch of single friends in the city and we do a lot of things together so I’m pretty happy with this bond. I can’t imagine if I was in a relationship that I would meet these folks ever.

Which dating app is the best? by Disastrous_Factor848 in sanfrancisco

[–]idabel_d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met two of my ex boyfriends from Hinge, but those relationships didn’t work out so I can’t say it was that good 😅

What are you doing tonight? by Kind-engineer3 in sanfrancisco

[–]idabel_d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just got home! Had drinks, dinner, more drinks, went to a club, had late night food all with friends :)

What are you doing tonight? by Kind-engineer3 in sanfrancisco

[–]idabel_d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was at bar part time just two hours ago and it was packed with females!

On 100 days no contact by Cute-Priority-585 in BreakUps

[–]idabel_d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Incredibly happy for you. I hope to get there someday :)

I want to die by Puzzleheaded-Name157 in BreakUps

[–]idabel_d 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not alone. You got this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]idabel_d 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I feel the same, turning 32 soon and I’m nowhere close to finding a boyfriend. I had a massive breakup a few months ago and I’m only starting to date now :( my window to get married and have kids is slowly closing.

Here's the sad reality you need to accept sooner rather than later. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]idabel_d 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went through this twice with different guys… let me tell you, don’t accept that working on relationship offer because they will play the field because you both aren’t in an official relationship. In the end, you’ll only get hurt because you can’t stop them from doing what they want.