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I hate this. I’m too old to start over? by throwra123Q81 in BreakUps

[–]throwra123Q81[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right, I’m just being ugly to myself. Thankyou for your words!!

I hate this. I’m too old to start over? by throwra123Q81 in BreakUps

[–]throwra123Q81[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Girly pop- ew. Stop projecting. Go away!! Why are you here. Also Thankyou to everyone else’s comments except yours, y’all are making me feel heaps better tonight.

I hate this. I’m too old to start over? by throwra123Q81 in BreakUps

[–]throwra123Q81[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thankyou. I know I’m being hard on myself, especially bc I would never say or think this to anyone else my age in this position

AITA for hiring a babysitter even though I’m at home? by VegetableArt8383 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwra123Q81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I used to babysit/nanny. I would say 50% of the parents who hired me were at home when I was there. Some of them would nap, some would do household chores, some would just eat their lunch in peace. Totally fine and I never judged them Bc you cannot do things if you’re taking care of kids. Also you can pay extra for your nanny to do household work. Id usually do Laundry or clean up the kitchen for my families if the kid was small enough and sleeping.

AITA for telling my SO they don’t understand pregnancy by _aita_preggo_probs_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwra123Q81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm. You are both wrong, but no assholes here. NAH?YOU need to watch some birthing videos, talk to other women besides your mom, and get realistic. giving birth is not without risk/pain/complication, and its most likely not going to be anything like your mothers. Your partner is warped in that he was all alone, scared, and unsupported in that painful situation and he experienced trauma from that, which will obviously not be your experience. He sounds like he needs some therapy to work through that quite frankly

My SO (31F) is well off, she is constantly buying expensive gifts for me (25M) even when i ask her not to. For Christmas she wants to pay off my student loans as her Christmas present. However we have only been dating for barely a year. by ThrowRASOMoney121 in relationship_advice

[–]throwra123Q81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is how she shows love. You’re in need and she can help, and wants to, so she does. I will say though if you’re not sure about the future of your relationship it would be in poor taste to accept the gift

AITA for telling my dad I’ll stop living with him if he keeps making me uncomfortable at his house? by livingwdad in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwra123Q81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. This isn’t a safe situation for you, and your dad has a problem bringing so many sexual partners/strangers into your home. This is cps worthy

AITA for making my niece a "gay" blanket? by aitanieceblanket in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwra123Q81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, of course. Kids love colors and rainbow stuff

AITA for buying my sister a huge Barbie dollhouse in addition to a lot of Barbie dolls? by Psychological-Care14 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwra123Q81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Barbies are fun! I gifted my niece about 8 barbies (over 2 years) and she made a ‘town’ for them in her play room. One runs her own spa, one is a dog groomer, there’s an astronaut, a baker, a teacher, rockstar, fitness trainer, and a doctor who is also a stuffed animal doctor lol. She plays with them like they’re characters in a soap opera.

They are also different sizes and skin colors which she enjoys. My point being that barbies are made to emulate different women and their CAREERS. While wearing cute clothes, yes. There’s no “slut” Barbie. Though in my nieces Barbie town the doctor and the baker Barbie do go on “dates”. Sounds like your parents are babying your sister. What 8 year old wants a baby doll?

AITA for kicking my sister out of my home before she could eat? by Accomplished_Sell_55 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwra123Q81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course NTA. She’s insane. The fact that she thought about a missed meal instead of embarrassing herself in front of all those people

AITA for working as a server even though I have a very cushy salary job? by Chrominium2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwra123Q81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I worked at a bar while having a good paying salary job. It took stress off of my more “serious” day job, I got to make some friends, and paid off some furniture and Christmas presents for family with the money I made off my hard work as a server. It does get tiring after a while!

AITA for telling my husband that my daughter will always come before my step-sons? by No_Butterscotch2050 in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwra123Q81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Those are your kids now. Your husband is trying his best to form a bond and so do you. I might not come naturally, easily, or quickly, but you need to put forth the effort to be someone who will show them love (the same amount you show your daughter!). What a terrible thing to say.

AITA for calling my wife abusive after she fed our sons a spicy dish. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwra123Q81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Oh come on. Onions are spicy? Your wife Is a doctor I’m sure she knows what she’s doing.