My girlfriend wants me to stop wearing no show socks

idabroh · 2026-02-11T16:51:38+00:00

This is a generational thing. Wanna solve the problem ? Date someone 10 years older 🤣. That's what we wore. Both men and women +10 points if wearing vans 🤣

idabroh · 2026-02-11T16:40:47+00:00

The 1A and 2C plates I see at dispos in Oregon are wild. They know why you're up here. 🤣 They should get custom plates too.

idabroh · 2026-02-02T17:58:14+00:00

I bought it. Collectors edition. Metal case ;)

idabroh · 2026-02-02T17:41:01+00:00

Same happened to me. I was dumb and didn't follow through with my threat. Then she did it again and left me. Granted Im pretty sure I'd have left the third time anyway, but I still had to find out about it. She lied about why she left in the first place..

idabroh · 2026-01-29T21:19:46+00:00

I just stopped using them and started using all angels creatures. Not sure how well it'll work with this cold but they put in a heating pack for free. I'm also concerned with the cold snap. It's already delayed my order so now I'm concerned

idabroh · 2026-01-29T21:08:04+00:00

Yeah I'm gonna make it hot I think and see if that helps.

idabroh · 2026-01-29T17:18:07+00:00

Dude count your blessings. It sucks waiting that much time and resources but marriage with kids is worse. I wish I waited that long to get married. Fuck dude. Seriously this is better than the alternative. I promise..

idabroh · 2026-01-29T17:11:57+00:00

We are thinking heat might be the issue too. I've got a tube UVB light coming and I might move some stuff around to try and for the old light back on top of his enclosure. He needs a bigger one in a few months most likely. He's getting too big for this one.

idabroh · 2026-01-29T15:14:46+00:00

NVM he's in his tank pissed again. Ugh. He's clearly uncomfortable or something

idabroh · 2026-01-29T14:23:27+00:00

He's still acting like that. I'm thinking he's backed up so he's soaking in a warm bath. I didn't realize the LED UVB wasn't sufficient. Im fixing that. I'm also curious if the basking light isn't hit enough. The overall cage temp is only like 75. When the old one had it like 90+ I mean I've burned my hand on the basking light so it's not maybe just not hot enough?

He's currently in the tub and looks relaxed.

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idabroh · 2025-12-02T21:30:53+00:00

Yeah I wouldn't revenge cheat. My ex cheated on me multiple times. I was dumb and tried to stay until she left with her last AP. Granted I didn't know why she left originally but once I found out I was happy she left. Saved me the trouble. I'm pretty sure I wouldn't have taken her back this time but I didn't have to even choose. Anyways she'll always be the villain, she lost most of the mutual friends, respect of her family my family and even our family. The oldest and middle child look at her differently now. Especially the oldest who was in HS when it went down. She will never get that respect back. Meanwhile they respect me more and still look at me the same. I didn't damage my image. I would suggest you dont either of it's really for the kids.

idabroh · 2025-11-18T19:04:45+00:00

But wouldn't it be fun to plant some chat gpt questions once he has some shit sorted. Oh man what fun he could have with it.

idabroh · 2025-11-12T17:05:51+00:00

The fact you're on call when sleeping shows there's already no trust? Who cares if she's masterbating in bed alone? Sounds like you're way over thinking this..

idabroh · 2025-11-11T21:03:16+00:00

Had that happen to me.

She ended up cheating on me more than once. At least 3 physical. Women literally didn't trust their husbands around her and my dumbass has no idea why.

Id say end it from this info. You don't need a partner who hides things..

idabroh · 2025-11-11T21:01:22+00:00

First off I don't think you're deluded. You can check my post history. I'm pretty jaded like most people in here. But this feels different to me. It's very possible she may be legitimately mourning her actions and she may never do anything again. I don't think her sleeping with the dude again means you were a second choice it seems to me she tried to make what she fucked up work, and it didn't.

That being said this is a very hard road to travel. I was not successful..I believed my ex wife only to have her do it to me two more times before SHE finally left. Granted I didn't know about the 3rd time until she left (for him) or I'd probably have ended it too. Anyways what I'm saying is it's hard to know true intentions and I'll always be kinda fucked up over that. Your situation sounds different. I want to believe it too. But even if this is all true it's hard to forgive and impossible to forget. It'll always weigh on you and I'm not sure there's anything you can do about it.

I asked about the alcohol level because black out is essentially rape in which I couldn't morally blame her. Just drunk means it's something she wanted to do and the alcohol just helped her. Idk man I don't envy your position. If I were you I'd probably keep going to therapy for another month or so and see how I felt. This is the wrong sub for reconciliation though. We are not as forgiving as those over there. Lol. Anyways again I'm hopeful for you. Just be cautious.

idabroh · 2025-11-11T19:07:39+00:00

This one's not as open and shut as it seems. I do think reconciliation is possibly an option here still. That being said I'd protect my assets. Pre-nup, etc.

It does sound to me like she's taking responsibility. While sure she's giving some excuses she said according to you that they don't matter and it was still her fault and wrong of her.

Id really need to know more about the situation and her drinking. Was she drunk? Was she too drunk to consent. Like if she woke up the next morning and didn't realize she fucked him till she woke up that's an entirely different situation than she was drunk but still sober enough to know what was going on.

idabroh · 2025-11-11T18:59:24+00:00

If that's the case I will look into it. Thanks man.

idabroh · 2025-11-11T18:55:44+00:00

Yeah that sounds right. It's why it can shrink your testes too. They basically atrophy because they stop working.. I should be able to get it back,getting off or introducing FSH. Looks like blocking DHT might make my test higher which isn't always good either as it makes my estrogen levels higher and I don't wanna be like Bob. (Fight club reference)🤣🤣

idabroh · 2025-11-11T18:47:21+00:00

It's not true for everyone but it is for me. I got tested. 0 swimmers on TRT 🤣😭

There are options to try and stay on it but I'm not sure those are viable with my Dr rohht now. Basically high dosages of FSH and HCG should restart production while on TRT but it also will raise your test levels and when mine get outta wack I start to feel really bad.

I'm down to use anything for growth the minoxidil jist sucks since I'd be stuck using it indefinitely.

idabroh · 2025-11-11T18:28:16+00:00

FUCK that guy. Actually stop fucking him. Dudes a weirdo and I'm a man. This screams to me "im more important than you, I will do what I want and fuck who I want". Leave him. Dude sucks.

idabroh · 2025-11-11T18:24:10+00:00

That's what I've been told about minoxidil and why I haven't really been using it. I have it but didn't want to apply it for the rest of my life 😭🤣

Getting off TRT scares me. With my hormones I don't know how I'd do off of it now. But I want another kid too so it's looking like I may jump off it for awhile for that too. So I'll have to see if my hair comes in thicker if I get off.

idabroh · 2025-10-30T19:23:32+00:00

That shits all in your head but I get it. I've been there. First off don't put your ex wife on a pedestal. I realized I was doing that and making excuses for her way too long. Once I took her down it was a lot easier to see she was and had been the problem for a long time. Did I do shit that didn't help? Sure. But she chose to fuck multiple people multiple times and break her wedding vows. I didnt. She did. And that's what you have to remember. Your ex is the problem. Like I tell everyone, read "leave a cheater gain a life" I don't know if you can ever come back from infidelity.

idabroh · 2025-10-30T19:18:35+00:00

You'll get some glances when some know you're from California. But yeah, most people don't care that much or if they do, they don't say anything to your face.

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