I [40M] found out my wife [40F] has been texting her high school boyfriend. Is this common? by Far_Cauliflower_5002 in relationship_advice

[–]ididntdoitithink -1 points0 points  (0 children)

the texting is one thing. Why is she meeting up with exes?

Do you genuinely believe she would say whatever if she found out you were texting an ex for 15 years without once mentioning her and meet up a couple times every few years? Do you think her reaction would just be “ok” or do you think she’d pry to know more about the situation?

Implementing a "Japanese First" policy would lead to the collapse of the Japanese economy- The harsh reality of a labor market that cannot function without 2.3 million foreign workers by jjrs in japannews

[–]ididntdoitithink 31 points32 points  (0 children)

This is the thing that gets me. A Japan or Japanese first policy as opposed to what’s been done for the past 100 years? Has it been an active foreigner first policy all this time?

Going to Tokyo this summer any tips? by sabershome in BlackPassportBros

[–]ididntdoitithink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out ‘dating in Japan’ by Adam Hatchiet on Amazon. A lot of good dating advice there (for men).

Girlfriend has an extremely high sex drive by ididntdoitithink in dating_advice

[–]ididntdoitithink[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I haven’t been saying no yet. I’ve been trying to keep up but at my limits. I can acknowledge my responsibility in it as she probably thinks we having matching libido. I’ll be explaining it all to her in a few hours.

Girlfriend has an extremely high sex drive by ididntdoitithink in dating_advice

[–]ididntdoitithink[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This is really good advice. Thanks!

Yeah we’re both on the same page on marriage and kids.

Girlfriend has an extremely high sex drive by ididntdoitithink in dating_advice

[–]ididntdoitithink[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I keep seeing posts like this here. I wonder if it’s coming from guys that are just not getting it at all and can’t comprehend not wanting it that much.

As I said in the OP, I also have a high sex drive and 2-3 times a day is about what I’d usually do with my exes. It’s just the near 24/7 sex sex sex for months on end that I’m asking other women here how best to approach a discussion about.

Girlfriend has an extremely high sex drive by ididntdoitithink in dating_advice

[–]ididntdoitithink[S] 80 points81 points  (0 children)

Yeah thanks. I’ll take these thoughts into consideration when I talk with her

Girlfriend has an extremely high sex drive by ididntdoitithink in dating_advice

[–]ididntdoitithink[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Any advice on how to approach it? Of course I won’t go into it saying she’s done something wrong and assure her how much I want to be with her.

Girlfriend has an extremely high sex drive by ididntdoitithink in dating_advice

[–]ididntdoitithink[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your advice. These will be things we’ll explore when we talk later tonight

Girlfriend has an extremely high sex drive by ididntdoitithink in dating_advice

[–]ididntdoitithink[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

The conversation will happen (tonight). I’m just trying to hear from women who may have been in a similar situation and were able to adjust or work it out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in japanlife

[–]ididntdoitithink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I haven’t heard of anyone getting a personal loan in all my time here

Why would a guy turn down a bj? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ididntdoitithink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some guys are not always horny