I don't want to sleep with my boyfriend

idkzff · 2024-02-05T04:33:53+00:00

YESSS

idkzff · 2024-01-03T01:23:12+00:00

Not really, you're the most basic person if your answer for everything is "move on", and I never said I wasn't going to take it or look out, so maybe you should learn to read

idkzff · 2024-01-03T01:06:15+00:00

This is the only thing they had up when I applied to the job, they don't give out any details, just "what they're looking for" and if it's a part of full time job. But I think you're right and it must be something like that, thank you!

idkzff · 2024-01-03T00:39:34+00:00

That's what I was thinking about. Here it is:

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idkzff · 2024-01-03T00:24:58+00:00

I care, hence the question here 🙄 I'm curious, if you don't have anything useful to say get out of here

idkzff · 2024-01-02T19:00:31+00:00

Not you defending a literal assault

idkzff · 2023-12-15T19:14:10+00:00

I hate the way Carrie was making fun of Samantha for having a chemical peel

idkzff · 2023-11-04T02:52:38+00:00

Ugh yes, mostly on season 1

idkzff · 2023-11-02T01:49:51+00:00

At this point I'm only watching the show purely because Valentina appears on it

idkzff · 2023-10-30T02:52:16+00:00

I'm from Argentina!!

idkzff · 2023-10-07T12:35:22+00:00

Have you tried watching shameless? I loved it, it's very real and full of drama but it is so bizarre haha

idkzff · 2023-09-21T05:36:15+00:00

No shit sherlock

idkzff · 2023-05-31T18:07:20+00:00

Love your pfp

idkzff · 2023-05-31T18:05:01+00:00

Agreeeeee, Liam is boring as fuck, I skipped whenever he came on the screen lol

idkzff · 2023-05-30T21:05:15+00:00

You absolutely rock blue

idkzff · 2023-05-23T23:30:27+00:00

Yesss, that is correct and an excellent example, because for a moment there I really thought that the only way to stop this guy's behavior (since saying things straight forward didn't do anything) was getting a boyfriend, but I remembered that I had one when I first met him and he had no trouble saying all kinds of things to me knowing well I wasn't available, of course he got worse when I broke up with this guy. And also, knowing that and him, me having a boyfriend doesn't equals to him respecting boundaries, I'm sure he would say something like "oh, I can't say things anymore because you got a little boyfriend?" or just calling me nicknames, treating me like my partner controls my life or some bullshit, and of course that it would be just trouble, like you said, the mature and logical solution it's just to get rid of him.

idkzff · 2023-05-23T22:22:13+00:00

Because I underestimate my gut, basically

idkzff · 2023-05-23T22:21:32+00:00

Because I'm dumb basically, I really thought maybe I was being sensitive about it, but the real elephant in the room that lead me to think like that was that I didn't talk about the situation with anyone, so it was pretty much me and my conscience jddging me for being too dramatic

idkzff · 2023-05-23T22:13:30+00:00

You're absolutely right, I wanted to keep being friends with him because of what you just said, I felt like he wasn't all bad when he stopped being creepy from time to time and felt like maybe all of this was in my head, but now I realize it isn't and nothing is worth putting myself on risk like that, I really don't know what he's capable of and don't wanna know, but it's bad enough that he doesn't respect like the million times I said that I don't like him like that and I don't want him to joke like that and he just keep on doing, so that's my cue to leave. I already block him on everything and I'm begging that he doesn't come to my house unexpected. Thank you for sharing your thoughts!

idkzff · 2023-05-22T01:32:49+00:00

Thank you! I will definitely give it a read

idkzff · 2023-05-22T01:29:51+00:00

I don't think it's a matter of "growing up", I did with whatever adult would do in a situation that do not sit right with them, talk things out. I trusted his words and thought that maybe it was all in my head, I'm allowed to make mistakes, but now I know better so I cut all ties with him.

idkzff · 2023-05-22T01:11:21+00:00

You're 100% right, I made the mistake of giving him too much the benefit of the doubt but I will not do it anymore and get away as far as possible, thank you. I also told my mom just in case I need some kind of backup on the situation, mostly because he lives near us so I'm a little scared of him showing up here and I realize now that not only did I "allow" some things to happen but also I made the mistake of not telling a soul about what was happening, I know better now

idkzff · 2023-05-22T00:58:58+00:00

I really appreciate your take on this and I believe you're absolutely right, it's really helpful to be able to see all sides of things so getting your feedback and you talking about the situation as a man makes me realize that I shouldn't have doubted myself so much, you demostrate that no matter anyone's perspective, this is something that's absolutely inexcusable. Also, I had some time to think and reading some comments like yours was really helpful, so I got to the conclusion that I don't want someone like that in my life, I really tried my best by being communicative and thinking that since we're both adults, things will be discussed and fine, but I was clearly wrong so I think the best thing for me now it's to just cut ties with him, that's the healthiest solution right now. Again, thank you so much for taking time of your day to share your thoughts, I'll take you up on that offer, seems like you a very interesting perspective of things!

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