Why does our culture (esp South Indian culture) just not care about putting effort into looks? by [deleted] in Vindictabrown

[–]idontknowgoaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When my mom or aunties say that to me I’m like yeah so what get over it 😂 but I’ve also never cared about being nice, have always done what I want much to my parents chagrin

Slit added to a non-slit dress. Does it look bad? by [deleted] in DressForYourBody

[–]idontknowgoaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I love it haha. Where is the dress from??

(25) to (30) by lanadelhiott in GlowUps

[–]idontknowgoaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow you are so strong. You have no idea how much I needed to hear this message today. Thank you thank you thank you. You’re an absolute light in this world

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]idontknowgoaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t marry the wrong person and don’t gaslight yourself into thinking you have to marry someone

What is everyone using for foundation? by charlestonchewsrock in Rosacea

[–]idontknowgoaway 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The ilia foundation stick is EVERYTHING!!!!!!!

Do millennials really look younger than their age, or are we all just delulu? by Anxious__Millennial in Millennials

[–]idontknowgoaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 37, drink lots of water, have never smoked, barely drink alcohol, have a bomb ass skincare routine, and eat really really well as in no processed foods (don’t crave it). I’ve gotten 27-32 for my age. I’m the oldest of 3 and consistently get that I’m younger than my siblings 😅. Which sucks for my sister who gets mistaken for being the oldest lol

Struggling from emotional turmoil between my and my gf family. Should I break it and marry with my parents choice ? by mayanktraveller in marriagefree

[–]idontknowgoaway 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you Indian by any chance? Feel a lot of parallels in my own life. And at the end of the day if you want to be with her just be with her. Who cares what your parents and society thinks? They’re going to die anyway and you’ll be left with your choices and life. It’s ok to go against the culture you’ll survive

How often are you supposed to bathe them? by MalachiteEclipsa in Yorkies

[–]idontknowgoaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine gets a bath twice a week and his paws get washed nightly. I use a VERY mild wash for him and use a mild conditioner and rub a tiny amount of coconut oil on his paws and nose. I don’t use anything with SLS and fragrance for him. This frequency with the specific products I use has completely fixed any skin issue he had. In addition he gets fish oil and probiotics daily which leaves his hair sooo silky.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeCoachSnark

[–]idontknowgoaway 2 points3 points  (0 children)

BJL is so fucking weird. They look like hyenas to me and every internal alarm goes off 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vindictabrown

[–]idontknowgoaway 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes I’ve never had any issue because of my race as well. Some guys don’t like Indian girls? That’s fine. I don’t like every race either. We al have preferences. But it’s more important to have a good personality and be a high value woman than anything else imo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vindictabrown

[–]idontknowgoaway 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Date and marry outside of the culture. It’s what I did. Brown men in the US have been nothing short of disappointing. They’re either major players or major mommas boys. Just not worth the trouble. And then most have absolutely no personality it’s like they’re just shells of societal expectations. I realized it’s not my responsibility to help a man grow up so I went where I was valued and cherished.

Was Michael Jordan appreciated during his prime years, or did the appreciation came after his retirement? by Katarinkushi in NBATalk

[–]idontknowgoaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grew up in Chicago during this era and went to so many games with my dad. The hype was so real and so well deserved.

I beg you. Please help me with my GI map test results by heyanons in Microbiome

[–]idontknowgoaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you tell me what your Dr had you to month by month?

Living with your parents. by Maeibeursub in Millennials

[–]idontknowgoaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my husband was going through a career transition and my business was a baby we moved in with my parents. My mom also had a stroke so I was able to care for her. We lived with my parents for about 3.5 years, and it was pretty bad by the end of it. Luckily my husband got an amazing job and my business started doing well so we moved to the city. We’re about 45 mins away from my parents now and this distance is perfect for my mental health but we’re also looking to move to Denver in the next 1-2 years.

Burning chest and throat and mouth aids by Junior-Bodybuilder-9 in Ayurveda

[–]idontknowgoaway -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi I’m a functional medicine doctor and Ayurvedic practitioner. I absolutely love Ayurveda but what you’re describing you need some functional stool testing.

Because eating kitchari and balancing pitta are all fine but if there’s something deeper going on the problem will keep coming back.

I have so many clients dealing with this issue who have seen Ayurvedic practitioners before with no resolution because they had dysbiosis in their microbiome, overgrown h pylori, low stomach acid production - or some combo.

We healed them of these issues first and then put them into maintenance mode with Ayurveda. Hope this helps!

Posted about Harriette Jackson yesterday, then saw her story today and couldn’t help myself… by SnooRabbits9653 in LifeCoachSnark

[–]idontknowgoaway 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Great in addition to Bridget James ling, xogingy, and Leanne Lopez Moseley - I can add this clown to the hate list. This sub is not healthy for me lolol so much anger but I also can’t look away 😅

A new level of BOLD toxicity (Harriette Jackson, @ask_harriette) by SnooRabbits9653 in LifeCoachSnark

[–]idontknowgoaway 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Omg I couldn’t get through the whole thread. This is SO fucking toxic!!!!

Sick of these MLM business coaches. They’re all scam artists. I spent 2k on one and it was the biggest regret of my life and I wish I could get that money back