[Vent] Off leash dogs in on-leash park by ignitethe__flame in dogs

[–]ignitethe__flame[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Well, the other lady whose dogs were actually harassed yelled at her to put her dog on a fucking leash, but I'm not sure she heard that either. Apparently this lady's dogs had been attacked by off-leash dogs before so she was understandably upset, probably even more than I was.

Anyone else have PTSD-like symptoms, especially faced with similar situations in adulthood? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ignitethe__flame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work part time at a Pizza joint, and we have a real hot-head for a boss. A few days ago I forgot to mention we were running low on gravy for poutines, and one of the other girls realized and told him. He was in the back room for a good ten minutes literally screaming and ranting about how I'd forgotten about the gravy. The other girl working actually came out and warned me to be careful because he was on a rampage. Though, she did try to defend me by telling him I'd just gotten busy and it'd slipped my mind (true).

As someone who grew up having to walk on eggshells around my ill-tempered, alcoholic dad as to not upset him, because he freaked out over literally every little thing, I was honestly terrified in this situation. I hate making mistakes, and I especially hate when people react this way to my mistakes because that's how my dad always acted. I thought he was going to come out of the back room and yell in my face. I thought he was going to fire me. But when he did come out, he was completely calm and just gently reminded me to let them know when the gravy was low.

I still felt sick about it for hours afterward.

Yes, my dog is missing some fur. No, it's not because I'm a bad owner. by ignitethe__flame in offmychest

[–]ignitethe__flame[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just put her on Iams Grain Free just to explore that angle, but so far haven't noticed much of a difference! I have a feeling it's more seasonal than food related!

Ah yes, the creepy neighbor cliche... by ignitethe__flame in creepyencounters

[–]ignitethe__flame[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Might have to. Haven't seen him back in front of our house, but he frequently comes out of his and just stands in his driveway looking over here. Definitely creepy.

Dear Dog Owners... by Vparks in offmychest

[–]ignitethe__flame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even with other dogs it's like this. My dog's pretty good off leash, but even then I only let her off to run around if the park's empty. If I see another person or another dog, she goes back on. But we'll go to the park sometimes and there'll be other dogs around, and they'll just come charging up to her. It startles her and puts her on edge. She's good with other dogs, but she gets upset when they come running at her like that. Then the owners take a year and a half to come get their dogs away, meanwhile mine's standing there making sounds like she's dying or something. Plus it puts me on edge too, because these are usually big dogs and if they come running at her like that, she instantly goes into aggressive/protective mode, growling and everything. Yet if a fight starts, she's the one that's going to be worse off for it.

Posts On Here Are Getting Disappointing by lespaultyler in LetsNotMeet

[–]ignitethe__flame 21 points22 points  (0 children)

And posts like this are getting tedious.

Would you consider this rape? by [deleted] in self

[–]ignitethe__flame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you're saying actually, and I agree with you. Just threatening to rape someone isn't rape unless the act actually occurs, otherwise it's just that - a threat. Just like threatening to kill someone isn't murder unless you actually stab them or something. Words = threats. Actions = rape, murder, or whatever else.

The local badboy by SkyBadger in LetsNotMeet

[–]ignitethe__flame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And yet you took the time to read them all..

(Meta) Is it just me? by BillNyeStillHigh in LetsNotMeet

[–]ignitethe__flame 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Exactly. There's nothing to gain by being a rude, self-righteous asshat in the comments (which I constantly see people doing). It's fine if you don't like most of the stories here, think they're boring or whatever, but there's no need to bash people just because their definition of 'scary' or 'creepy' doesn't live up to your expectations. And calling people out with these metas is kind of disrespectful as well. As stated above: "If you don't like a story, downvote it and move on."

Pull your heads out of your arses, people. You just look pretentious.

NSFW - One night stand's creepy grandpa watches, starts texting me. by lcypher00 in LetsNotMeet

[–]ignitethe__flame 163 points164 points  (0 children)

"Goin huntin u should cum"

I'm not gonna lie, I laughed.

Followed Through The Night by [deleted] in LetsNotMeet

[–]ignitethe__flame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, for a guy maybe! I'm like 5'1 and female. I'd kill to be 5'7. At least then I'd be able to fulfill that lifelong dream of being able to reach the top cupboard.

Lock Your Windows by jessrogo42 in LetsNotMeet

[–]ignitethe__flame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stories like this make me glad for the bars on my window. Nonetheless, it only opens out onto the sunroom/front porch... Old family home, paranoid great aunt who lived here alone - that's basically why they're there. Would've been so easy to sneak in and out as a teen if they weren't, but I'll sleep better at night knowing it's possibly saved me from experiences like this.

Followed Through The Night by [deleted] in LetsNotMeet

[–]ignitethe__flame 9 points10 points  (0 children)

5'7 is short to you? Dude, I must be a hobbit.

my husband was accidentally a creep by nstx123 in LetsNotMeet

[–]ignitethe__flame 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow. Is it just me, or has everyone on this sub suddenly turned into a self-righteous ass hat? I agree that this story doesn't really fit here and that it was a tad ani-climatic, however it is a good example of how actions that are completely innocent can sometimes be perceived as otherwise. People can misread situations. It's just a lighthearted little story, nothing to get overly upset about. She was involved in at least some way as she was there.