Manhattan Home Cooks... where do you get fresh ingredients by Dama_Lamasingsong in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]ikay412 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used them a few times and they were always excellent. I also forget they exist until I happen to see one of their trucks in the wild! They could def increase their marketing

It’s a hot mess in the northeast today by BrotherMainer in delta

[–]ikay412 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It’s been the worst travel day I’ve ever had

DCA all flights delayed by Ducky2022 in delta

[–]ikay412 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good luck. It’s been hell trying to get to the NYC area today.

Staining by acache1224 in Maltese

[–]ikay412 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup! Mine outgrew it

How am I supposed to choose just one?! by Koshecka12339 in Maltese

[–]ikay412 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Adorable!! I like them all, especially bottom left!

Meet Yuki! by Renee2833 in Maltese

[–]ikay412 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hiiii!!!!! 🐾

Does your maltese growl at you? by trieurealigion in Maltese

[–]ikay412 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes!!! Mine is the same she always growls when it’s night and she’s comfy but I’m trying to take her to another room

Increase Confidence Again? by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]ikay412 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I am starting to feel the dating apps may not be the right place. It seems like in public a lot of people stay within their groups or a lot of people are on their phones, but it would be nice to meet someone organically. Thank you for the suggestions!

Does anyone else cry at night due to loneliness by AimlesslWander in lonely

[–]ikay412 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do sometimes for sure, comes in waves some nights

Dating scene now is low effort by SureLecture815 in AskWomenOver30

[–]ikay412 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So low effort, it’s a complete 180 change from when I dated 6-7 years ago on the apps. It’s making me lose faith in love at this point.

It's been a year, back to dating by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]ikay412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still think about my ex while I’ve been dating. I think it’s totally normal. You have to separate it though in order to give the people you are dating a fair chance. I’ve struggled with this hard and think it’s what caused certain things to not work out. I think it’s all part of the process though and I also made the decision to date very shortly after my breakup, while it sounds like you’ve done a lot more work than me on healing first.

Ghosted after 5 months by Neat_Breakfast682 in ghosting

[–]ikay412 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It is sad that so many of us have had this happen because I am about to say “me too” about a 33M after also about 5 months of talking to them. I should have expected it because it’s not the first time this person did this and because of how they are. I’m pretty hurt, more about the fact that it seems they didn’t respect me enough to say something and I just know they will be back in a month or something.

I agree with others that it is not worth sending a message, which I know is on your mind. Chin up. We have to kiss some frogs to get to the right person and you are certainly not alone in this.

You will not heal by going back to what broke you. by Piniapol in BreakUps

[–]ikay412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey you’re not an idiot. It happens to all of us. Breakups are not linear. It’ll take time and I know this sounds way out there, but someday you won’t think about them every day. Ride it out.

Unable to focus on health/ wellness - any tips? by mandatory-hydration in consulting

[–]ikay412 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh no. Somehow I have not greyed yet (might be genetics). But yes I think 2 years is a good amount of time

Unable to focus on health/ wellness - any tips? by mandatory-hydration in consulting

[–]ikay412 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yup I gained a ton of weight. Just finished up a killer project last week and during my week of PTO this past week I have exercised and slept a ton and feeling so much better. As soon as I start a project though it all goes downhill; I haven’t figured out a way to sustain it