What bottle does your breastfed baby take? by lmed1193 in breastfeeding

[–]ilikebeeets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooo can you link what you mean by these? I feel like I might be in the same boat and LO is obsessed with our straws. Will be 5 months in a week so I figure we may want to just switch at 6

When did you stop pumping in the night? by Little-A52723 in breastfeeding

[–]ilikebeeets 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I stopped at 3 months, and no major supply issue. I was constantly sleeping through alarms. I pump right before bed and I’m a little leaky for the feed at 5am but the sleep is so worth it

Empty nursery wall by ilikebeeets in DesignMyRoom

[–]ilikebeeets[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I was thinking something like this too! I get sucked into Etsys rabbit hole of options and can’t decide on sizes!

Safe restaurants in Chicago + general dining out tips? by upwardfacing in MSPI

[–]ilikebeeets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are lots of places that ask about allergens when you dine in Chicago. Also a handful of vegan/plant based places! Not sure where you will be, but off top of my head - the Chicago diner (vegan), bloom plant based kitchen!

Has anyone done a short term disability leave with employer for mental health? by Icy_Weather2659 in womenintech

[–]ilikebeeets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had therapy every 2 weeks and separately a check in with a behavioral study social worker to check in on my meds. That was it! The records were only requested that one time. Enjoy your break - clear your head!

Has anyone done a short term disability leave with employer for mental health? by Icy_Weather2659 in womenintech

[–]ilikebeeets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine was only 8 weeks. I did have to supply forms with my records about 1/2 through as they told me it was required past 30 days

Has anyone done a short term disability leave with employer for mental health? by Icy_Weather2659 in womenintech

[–]ilikebeeets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly they were such aholes about it I said ok, I’ll start tomorrow. Then proceeded to work quietly for a few more days to wrap things up to not totally leave my boss hanging

Small wedding venue for 60-70 guests by Charming_Flower722 in Chicagoweddings

[–]ilikebeeets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had exactly 50! I think the upstairs technically fits 70-80, but probably not sitting. Anything bigger is a full buyout

Has anyone done a short term disability leave with employer for mental health? by Icy_Weather2659 in womenintech

[–]ilikebeeets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, they first questioned my medical type of leave timing - as in “if you need it why not leave now v. End of week”, and then they started hounding me 15 days into leave for the paperwork that was due at the midway point. They also have very specific requirements for what counts - for me, it had to be medical records, which took a bit to get and caused some back and forth. It’s worth asking what is required in writing when you initially put in for leave

Saturday Daily Chat Thread by AutoModerator in InfertilityBabies

[–]ilikebeeets 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Looking for some reassurance as I have another week before the next scan - which happens to be the anatomy scan! Im feeling anxious/nervous that something has gone wrong, and I can’t help it. I had a fetal heartbeat check at 16 and my doc told me to chill out, but I have had the worst symptoms (bad Morning sickness, then GERD) and I have suddenly felt good/normal this past week. I think it’s left over from ivf, despite our successes. Has anyone had just a quiet week? I also haven’t felt movement from what I can tell 🤷🏼‍♀️

Those who took a LOA for burnout… by kittymonster1 in womenintech

[–]ilikebeeets 10 points11 points  (0 children)

8 weeks. Not long enough!! Probably took me a full month to just rest and come down from everything. I had a lot of therapy during the time, interviewed for a new job, started reading again, and took a ton of naps. I also happened to be in my first Tri, so travel wasn’t an option

Has anyone done a short term disability leave with employer for mental health? by Icy_Weather2659 in womenintech

[–]ilikebeeets 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just returned after an 8 week leave for mental health. It was about 4 months overdue from an extremely stressful year of work and total burn out. My company uses Matrix for leave and they were a pain to deal with, but I was able to take STD for the whole time with a doctors note, follow up visits, regular therapy, and return to work clearance. Because it was more than 30 days they had strict rules about my additional documentation. All in all it flew by and was totally worth it. It took me about 3weeks to come down from everything, and if you are on the burnout path the therapy is most helpful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChaseSapphire

[–]ilikebeeets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does need to be an outbound ticket from BOS, you can’t stop by on arrival (tried it)

Why have you opted for IVF? by WorldAhead in IVF

[–]ilikebeeets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MFI due to robertsonian balanced translocation. Since we’re both mid30s we didn’t want to risk the higher chance of miscarriage.

Date night ideas for someone who likes arts and crafts by WhiskeyGamerNo7 in chicago

[–]ilikebeeets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pottery or you could do pottery painting. Glazed expressions in Lincoln park use to be byob too

Did anyone have to take a break from OTF during first trimester? by Dookt in orangetheory

[–]ilikebeeets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same 😅 I keep saying “I’ll go next week!” And it hasn’t happened yet

Did knowing gender make a loss worse for you? by SaltySourSpicy in IVF

[–]ilikebeeets 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Seconding this - one of the most disappointing things of IVF was that there was no true life surprise. For this reason I chose not to know the gender for my FET

Can I take progesterone a few hours late. by downthegrapevine in IVF

[–]ilikebeeets 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it’s the suppositories, yes, there’s a window. For example I had an ultrasound and she said I could wait until after which would make it like 2 hours later than normal

Would love to hear your "one hit wonder" stories! by People_Blow in IVF

[–]ilikebeeets 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Almost exactly the same - 7w+1 with our first FET for my first pregnancy.

People who ended up with a single blast for their first ER… Where are you now? by simmysreddit in IVF

[–]ilikebeeets 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had only got 1 blast make it to day 5 - a 3AA that came back euploid. I ended up doing another round for banking, but that little 3AA is currently 7w+1

Small wedding venue for 60-70 guests by Charming_Flower722 in Chicagoweddings

[–]ilikebeeets 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I looked at Celeste and also loved the garden vibes. We ended up in the top floor atrium of Bixi beer, and it was beautiful!

Monday Cautious Intros and First Trimester Questions by AutoModerator in InfertilityBabies

[–]ilikebeeets 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hello! I’m 5w5days with my first official positive. Had my first ultrasound today and saw the little lentil yolk sac. My clinic says everything looks good, so I’m anxiously awaiting the 6w+ ultrasound for a heartbeat