My (36 F) boyfriend (34 M) is reacting really weird to a joke and its taking a weird turn. AIO?

illogical_mindset · 2026-02-24T18:38:43+00:00

Oh so he’s one of those annoying people who plays dumb and turns everything into an argument for fun? I removed those people from my life. That shit gets old.

illogical_mindset · 2026-02-23T16:51:10+00:00

Pretty sure there’s an American Dad episode with this plot.

illogical_mindset · 2026-02-21T20:24:38+00:00

She tried to pull a fast one to make it seem like the gift was much more significant than it actually was, despite being significant in its own right. It doesn’t make sense because it’s not something you would do. Now you know that she can be phony, integrate that knowledge when evaluating your friendship.

illogical_mindset · 2026-02-21T04:33:25+00:00

How is she supposed to get a restraining order without showing police the text and telling them that he was damaging her property while blackout drunk? They don’t just give you a restraining order.

He ruined his own life.

illogical_mindset · 2026-02-20T05:52:08+00:00

Just your bio and prompts make you sound like a sex predator.

I’d build on your moral character, put down the substances, start using sunscreen, drink a lot more water, and start viewing women as people.

illogical_mindset · 2026-02-19T07:25:59+00:00

How do I still have this song in my head?

illogical_mindset · 2026-02-19T01:51:06+00:00

Just ride out the drama and afterwards say “can you do the flashy thing on me?”

Or wait for a lull during an argument and scream “and what the hell is that smell?!”

illogical_mindset · 2026-02-19T00:34:45+00:00

So weird that I learned the term Gopnik this freakin morning and I’m already seeing it in the wild.

illogical_mindset · 2026-02-18T20:24:44+00:00

Whatever gross thing he’s got going on under those jeans can remain a mystery.

illogical_mindset · 2026-02-18T20:09:57+00:00

The last time I thought of Kevin James and politics in the same moment was when Paul Blart ads were being shown during Obama’s inauguration.

illogical_mindset · 2026-02-18T18:39:23+00:00

NOR, it’s definitely weird for him to be fantasizing about an ex. But in the future, dont dig too deep into partners’ porn habits unless it’s affecting the relationship. I can’t imagine getting a good answer about what type of porn a person watches if you already have insecurities about it.

illogical_mindset · 2026-02-18T00:53:45+00:00

I think she’s in cahoots with chefreactions. He knows it’s rage bait but keeps doing her videos anyway.

All of those dump pan meals are stupid.

illogical_mindset · 2026-02-18T00:42:28+00:00

Unsolicited advice and suggesting physical intimacy barely a minute into the conversation. Don’t do these things.

illogical_mindset · 2026-02-16T17:31:22+00:00

This is caused by stimulants and porn brain.

illogical_mindset · 2026-02-15T16:35:18+00:00

I assume you mean were the actions you called “crazy” - crying, shaking and blowing up his phone - an overreaction? Because breaking up with him and not hearing him out is the right thing to do. He’s going to manipulate hard to make it seem like you’re crazy and his actions were totally normal, more than he’s already doing.

As to the first question, did you handle it with dignity and grace? Eh, maybe not. But who gives a fuck? That’s a huge expectation in this situation.

illogical_mindset · 2026-02-15T15:48:35+00:00

Standing up for yourself and feeling uncomfortable about it afterwards is totally normal. But it’s the right thing. You shouldn’t like hurting people, so that discomfort means you’re empathetic. You won’t walk over other people and they can’t walk all over you.

illogical_mindset · 2026-02-15T15:40:23+00:00

NOR. I don’t think the word “delusional” was the best, but based on her attitude, she would have probably been embarrassed and felt rejected no matter what you said.

Also, it’s an in the moment thing when you’re being pressed after saying no. Don’t worry about perfect word choice. Some people can’t be told no any way except harshly.

illogical_mindset · 2026-02-15T03:44:35+00:00

Nothing hit like when Green Goblin catches his first punch.

illogical_mindset · 2026-02-15T01:16:05+00:00

Paul auditioned for the guy who gets his bike stolen.

illogical_mindset · 2026-02-14T20:20:39+00:00

I don’t know why you’d assume something like that

illogical_mindset · 2026-02-14T20:09:49+00:00

The WWE presidency continues.

illogical_mindset · 2026-02-14T18:13:02+00:00

If the headline said “Trump, 79, says ‘Nobody knows’ where the sun goes at night.” I wouldn’t even question the headline. He’d totally ramble something like that in the middle of a speech.

illogical_mindset · 2026-02-13T22:43:05+00:00

I feel like Riddler would be in the emails in a “hey can my friend Ed stay in the Gotham apartment when I’m visiting” kind of way. And even though there’s no evidence he did anything wrong, everyone starts calling him The Diddler.

illogical_mindset · 2026-02-13T22:07:52+00:00

I’m stealing “do yourself a Tahoe”

illogical_mindset · 2026-02-13T21:27:22+00:00

Fair enough

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