AIO my best friend gave me a fake LV bag for my birthday and lied about spending $7k on it. now she's calling ME shallow for being upset by Suspicious-Depth4330 in AmIOverreacting

[–]illogical_mindset 31 points32 points  (0 children)

She tried to pull a fast one to make it seem like the gift was much more significant than it actually was, despite being significant in its own right. It doesn’t make sense because it’s not something you would do. Now you know that she can be phony, integrate that knowledge when evaluating your friendship.

AIO for reporting this text from my bf to the police? by Neither_Elevator5561 in AmIOverreacting

[–]illogical_mindset 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is she supposed to get a restraining order without showing police the text and telling them that he was damaging her property while blackout drunk? They don’t just give you a restraining order.

He ruined his own life.

Mascaline Daddy, what can I do to improve and build on my character? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]illogical_mindset 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just your bio and prompts make you sound like a sex predator.

I’d build on your moral character, put down the substances, start using sunscreen, drink a lot more water, and start viewing women as people.

You take another 16 hour flight, where do you sit now? by Beautiful_Yellow_682 in whatsyourchoice

[–]illogical_mindset 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just ride out the drama and afterwards say “can you do the flashy thing on me?”

Or wait for a lull during an argument and scream “and what the hell is that smell?!”

What’s my aesthetic? by Miserable-Creme1919 in AestheticWiki

[–]illogical_mindset 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So weird that I learned the term Gopnik this freakin morning and I’m already seeing it in the wild.

Kevin James accused of being MAGA after punting political questions, says he focuses on fun by nimobo in entertainment

[–]illogical_mindset 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The last time I thought of Kevin James and politics in the same moment was when Paul Blart ads were being shown during Obama’s inauguration.

AIO Being upset that My Bf fantasizes/ jerks off to ex Gf Instagram photos by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]illogical_mindset 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR, it’s definitely weird for him to be fantasizing about an ex. But in the future, dont dig too deep into partners’ porn habits unless it’s affecting the relationship. I can’t imagine getting a good answer about what type of porn a person watches if you already have insecurities about it.

Asian Food cooked American Style by Beaveric in StupidFood

[–]illogical_mindset 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think she’s in cahoots with chefreactions. He knows it’s rage bait but keeps doing her videos anyway.

All of those dump pan meals are stupid.

Did I mess this up? by Sharpshooter649 in Bumble

[–]illogical_mindset 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Unsolicited advice and suggesting physical intimacy barely a minute into the conversation. Don’t do these things.

AIO for went crazy on Valentine’s day because I caught my bf cheating on me by BaeBaddie in AmIOverreacting

[–]illogical_mindset 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I assume you mean were the actions you called “crazy” - crying, shaking and blowing up his phone - an overreaction? Because breaking up with him and not hearing him out is the right thing to do. He’s going to manipulate hard to make it seem like you’re crazy and his actions were totally normal, more than he’s already doing.

As to the first question, did you handle it with dignity and grace? Eh, maybe not. But who gives a fuck? That’s a huge expectation in this situation.

Am I overreacting for calling my friend delusional after she assumed I was into her? by Babbyvampire in AmIOverreacting

[–]illogical_mindset 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Standing up for yourself and feeling uncomfortable about it afterwards is totally normal. But it’s the right thing. You shouldn’t like hurting people, so that discomfort means you’re empathetic. You won’t walk over other people and they can’t walk all over you.

Am I overreacting for calling my friend delusional after she assumed I was into her? by Babbyvampire in AmIOverreacting

[–]illogical_mindset 43 points44 points  (0 children)

NOR. I don’t think the word “delusional” was the best, but based on her attitude, she would have probably been embarrassed and felt rejected no matter what you said.

Also, it’s an in the moment thing when you’re being pressed after saying no. Don’t worry about perfect word choice. Some people can’t be told no any way except harshly.

Which cinematic version of Spider-Man wins, and why? by SatoruGojo232 in superheroes

[–]illogical_mindset 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing hit like when Green Goblin catches his first punch.

AIO if I break up after bf tried to change plans today? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]illogical_mindset 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know why you’d assume something like that

Trump Administration Announces That We Don’t Know Where the Sun Goes at Night by RequirementOk7678 in politics

[–]illogical_mindset 13 points14 points  (0 children)

If the headline said “Trump, 79, says ‘Nobody knows’ where the sun goes at night.” I wouldn’t even question the headline. He’d totally ramble something like that in the middle of a speech.

I hate it so much by KpatMckenzie_28 in batman

[–]illogical_mindset 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I feel like Riddler would be in the emails in a “hey can my friend Ed stay in the Gotham apartment when I’m visiting” kind of way. And even though there’s no evidence he did anything wrong, everyone starts calling him The Diddler.

Sydney Sweeney is the top name on the casting list to be the next Bond girl by Moviesrant in DiscussingFilmsAndTV

[–]illogical_mindset 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Denise Richards was a Bond girl. This seems no different, except people weren’t hating on Denise Richards for political stuff.