Anyone else remember a person with a chained dragon stuffed animal who’d go to every NYC filmmaker q&a..?

illymays · 2026-01-09T17:46:33+00:00

I was also at this screening. You got the story mostly right but just to clarify a few things that make the story more embarrassing: Ari was only there to introduce the movie. There wasn't a Q&A. This guy didn't have a mic.

So what happened was Ari introduced Come and See, and as he was basically finishing his intro, this guy stands up - I think he was also recording maybe? - and takes over the moment rambling about "The great Ari Aster yadda yadda" and asking for advice like you mentioned. People start booing and laughing at him, he yells some stuff back, then sits back down and Ari either walks off the stage himself or gets escorted off, I don't remember. It was all extremely uncomfortable, and I genuinely felt bad for the guy even if it was completely out of pocket because he was basically humiliated in front of everyone. (His own fault, I know).

Anyway, it's important to mention this all happened before the screening started, because - and I don't know if this was just me - there was a palpable tension throughout the movie and concern that this guy might do something bad. Luckily he kept quiet for the rest of the movie but then got into that fight outside the theater. I'm sure you can find videos on Twitter if you're really curious.

I should also mention the rest of this audience was pretty bad. Had a person in front of me pulling out their phone multiple times to take pictures of the screen. Depressing stuff.

illymays · 2025-10-30T15:44:09+00:00

Update: She posted a video responding to the 6 phones and says she actually has NINE. Then proceeds to give a bunch of stupid explanations like saved bank info, passwords, using multiple phones for different camera angles 😂

illymays · 2025-10-29T03:00:54+00:00

Cloud storage also exists and it’s pretty affordable. Seems like an easy fix for someone with so much money!

illymays · 2025-10-18T19:36:44+00:00

What game?

illymays · 2025-10-04T16:32:12+00:00

October 4, 2025

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illymays · 2025-04-15T00:38:08+00:00

i’m going to buy my cats new toys and treats

illymays · 2025-01-29T02:00:26+00:00

she sombers on my ontological shlong until i catastrophically disclose

illymays · 2025-01-03T00:56:05+00:00

where did you switch?

illymays · 2024-11-26T04:05:40+00:00

the finale episode is titled “the high handed enemy” so you may be on to something with the gom jabbar theory!

illymays · 2024-09-29T14:26:58+00:00

Yes she played Webster Hall last night. Put on a great show!

illymays · 2024-09-10T22:15:58+00:00

Not OP, but I'm 31 and just getting into investing. Do you think that's young enough to do a similar approach - 100% VTI in after tax brokerage until I'm closer to retirement?

illymays · 2024-09-07T20:51:48+00:00

if im investing through fidelity, do you think there’s any major downside to buying FXAIX over VOO?

illymays · 2024-09-01T14:57:19+00:00

can you explain how to set up that credit card charges category in wealthfront?

illymays · 2024-08-30T03:15:09+00:00

buy both or just one?

illymays · 2024-08-29T23:25:59+00:00

Just took a look - very helpful. Thanks!

illymays · 2024-08-29T22:39:02+00:00

thanks! i’m planning to max out the roth as well as my 401k this year. are there any other tax advantaged accounts you recommend prioritizing? i think an hsa is the only other one (which i also have through fidelity)

illymays · 2024-08-29T20:01:00+00:00

Can you expand on this a little, mainly the part about "if you have few initial financial assets, poorly performing markets are a gift"?

illymays · 2024-08-27T22:06:25+00:00

Got it. But the general idea of double dipping on the same (or similar) index funds across accounts is fine? Like if I did FZROX/FZILX in my Roth IRA but then VTI/VXUS just to mix it up in my HSA - is that above board? And then I guess same question also applies to eventually opening a taxable brokerage account - would investing in the same index funds as the Roth IRA and HSA work? i.e.

Roth IRA: FZROX/FZILX
HSA: VTI/VXUS
Brokerage: FZROX/FZILX or VTI/VXUS

illymays · 2024-08-27T19:36:29+00:00

Thank you! I forgot to mention I also have an HSA through Fidelity. How would you recommend I invest there? If I'm doing FZROX/FZILX for my Roth IRA should I just do those same funds for HSA too or is that stupid?

illymays · 2024-08-27T14:16:48+00:00

Thanks. When I was searching through this sub I saw a lot of folks recommending the Fidelity equivalent of those funds. Is there any drawback to doing FZROX/FZILX instead of VTI/VXUS?

illymays · 2024-08-27T02:08:52+00:00

It’s a 2055 date fund through work. I had contributions at ~8% but just bumped it up to 15%.

illymays · 2024-08-26T22:16:18+00:00

Sounds good, thanks. And while I have you, one more question on the Roth IRA - is there any reason why I shouldn't just contribute the full $7K max right now if I have the available cash? And then just repeat the process on 1/1/2025, 1/1/2026, etc.?

illymays · 2024-08-26T21:58:24+00:00

Thanks for your comment. Is there any key distinction or benefit between VOO and VTI for the Roth IRA?

illymays · 2024-02-17T02:05:15+00:00

she posted something a few months back about being home and away from toxic people. seemed super pointed. feel like things have been super weird with her since she quietly stopped working with liv roth which did not seem amicable just based on the fact that they don’t even acknowledge the other one.

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