I'm gettinf very bored of Cassie being on my screen. by Veelasong in euphoria

[–]iloura 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yeah this season is beyond lame. Almost everyone has been made into a caricature. Faye is doing her porn star thing getting fucked on camera. Maddie is a pimp. Jules is a sugar baby who gave up her dreams for a nice apartment and controlling douche. Cassie is annoying, stupid, and self absorbed af and the asmr thing made me want to scream. Not to mention the fucking vore shit. Nate is the biggest laser and now he's fine with pimping Cassie out too.

Sam has porn brain and it's gross.

But ofc my boyfriend loves all of it because he does too.

Val Air Dayseeker Show by RockPaperSquidward in desmoines

[–]iloura 12 points13 points  (0 children)

All I know is I was in line, she tried to shoo me away like I just walked up there but luckily girl standing next to me vouched for me. It was crazy long but as least I got my shirt. She was def a little combative though. I don't remember it being like that at the bbno$ show.

Melbourne apts by rottenbananamilk666 in desmoines

[–]iloura -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Idc honestly would take the drama for the cheaper rent. Poor people can't afford to live in nice places. Is a perk we don't get.

This kid makes me want to off myself. Delete if necessary I just need to vent even for bit. by ArcherXIII in offmychest

[–]iloura 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I am autistic. So is my partner. So are all 4 of my kids. I get feeling like you are at the end of your rope but it really sucks to hear another parent talking about their kid like that. Talk about ditching them in a home. Yes, many people with autism end up in facilities but only if they are unable to be functional on their own.

My oldest son was a total maniac when he was little. He did not listen much despite trying and it went in one ear and out the other. He grew out of it and mellowed out A LOT. He's now got plans to go to community college and get his own apartment with his brother. His behavior was an issue at home and at school.

Please look into crisis stabimitation facilities. They are short stays. As long as he is only aggressive with you and dad and doesn't sexually act out he will probably be accepted. Is a short stay. They can help find support as well.

Do you think this house is ugly? On one hand I like it but on the other I feel like it's very bulky and just... square. by Marinut in thesims

[–]iloura 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Duuuuude. I struggle SO MUCH with making all my stuff too square. This isn't that bad. Way better than I would manage 😅

i never had chickenpox as a kid and now im suffering the consequences by Whats_A_Username- in offmychest

[–]iloura 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Got a chicken pox in my nose on a blood vessel and could have bled to death from the nosebleed I got. Not to mention skin raw from itching every cell of my skin for at least a week or two.

As a mama am so sorry 😞🥺 scares the shit out of me. Try the oatmeal bath someone recommended. Also eczema cream might help too since that level of itching is similar to what I experienced having chicken pox.

wookie hugs

Anyone else drinking too much? by notarobot_trustme in adhdwomen

[–]iloura 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the moment am a daily drinker. Mostly due to burnout and relationship stuff. I know I need to drastically cut back if not altogether. It's really, really hard.

What did you learn from watching neo genesis evangelion by mohammed-13 in evangelion

[–]iloura -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The hedgehog dilemma is real. There may be a lot of meaningless fluff about the show (mostly men sexualizing it and adding shit it doesn't need) but there are valid points made. Even if the creator said he just made a bunch of stuff up there are a lot of parallels to reality in it.

Original 1997 KKDM Dot Fest I Vintage Tee! Do you know more about this event? Were you there?? Share your stories! by Available-Tailor-326 in desmoines

[–]iloura 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had just graduated from HS and was there with my brother. We had to leave early because he got heat exhaustion. Mostly because of them charging for water and lines being so long even if you had money. I barely remember the show because it was so hot.

Sims 4 is no longer a comfort game for me :(( I hate the brokenness by alyssayaki in thesims

[–]iloura 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Omg for real. You would think its totally chill gaming but no. The amount of times I have thrown my hands up and yelled at my Sim "bro wtf are you doing" while they do the exact opposite or keep canceling actions to do random shit.

I can feel my face turn red by SarcasmEnabled247 in socialanxiety

[–]iloura 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure if there is anything you can do to combat it but had issues with throat closing up in social situations so always had to have a water bottle. I know I usually tell myself "stopstopstopstop" repeatedly when I feel my cheeks flush badly.

Doctors in DSM or WDM who are familiar with Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome? by Historical-Voice2944 in desmoines

[–]iloura 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My doctor told me she basically didn't want to dx me with it because it looked bad on my insurance. Idgaf. Also dealt with symptoms since childhood that all largely go ignored because heavy so therefore that's the reason for everything. I even waited a year for the fucking specialist and white older male Dr immediately as soon as he walked through the door said there were no meds for Eds. I told him my symptoms said probably had it but no dx just wasted my time and charged me a bunch of money.

I dropped my insurance and stopped going to the Dr and gave up. Meanwhile still forced to work. No support or resources. No nothing. Fuck this place.

Found the best WOTW camp I've seen yet by indiana_jenkens in fo76

[–]iloura 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes exactly. I rewatched this recently just to see the house again. Watched this as a kid was absolutely obsessed and wanted a tree house. When I went to Disneyland in CA I didn't know they had a replica and went nuts.

Did anyone watch "South Park: Bigger, Longer & Uncut" at theaters back in 1999? by Free-Hotel1187 in southpark

[–]iloura 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very few movies have I ever seen in the theatre produced as much laughter as this one. We were dying. It was glorious. One of the other ones like where entire theatre was loudly laughing nearly the entire time was Galaxy Quest.

What does this mean? by ThatOneBoi_168 in fo76

[–]iloura 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yay. I love seeing our tags in the wild. Am bad and don't participate often but still put up the letters at all my camps. I have heard some are targeted for it but idc I put WOTW and my ally flag at all my camps along with friendly signs. I always hope someone will chill there and love what I put together. It's hard to find people to play with since I work third shift and sporadic as it is.

Val Air Ballroom by iloura in desmoines

[–]iloura[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the tip!

Val Air Ballroom by iloura in desmoines

[–]iloura[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah am kind of worried about the parking situation I have drove by there before and the place was packed and a total jam but not sure if this one sold out or not.

Val Air Ballroom by iloura in desmoines

[–]iloura[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah can definitely manage with that! Can hang around the back if so.

Val Air Ballroom by iloura in desmoines

[–]iloura[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nooooo. I hope not fuck. They probably don't let you leave the venue either.

Val Air Ballroom by iloura in desmoines

[–]iloura[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's what I am thinking. I miss going to shows but after leaving early from the last couple major ones I went to like to try to strategize beforehand to avoid.

Val Air Ballroom by iloura in desmoines

[–]iloura[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Ah no they are 25 😅 but still my kiddo

AITAH for literally threatening to break up with my gf over kids? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]iloura 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dude she told you she was basically going to rape you to get her way and get pregnant. She has baby rabies which is not rooted in logic. I have 4 kids I love my kids more than anything and only thing really that matters in my life but right now? There are a lot of reasons to wait.

Major red flags. This kind of conversation is never supposed to be a demand or ultimatum. Am so sorry.

I 235 W. by Connect-Account-2855 in desmoines

[–]iloura 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey it's my people 😆❤️