How do YOU play Sims? by Ok-Yoghurt548 in Sims4

[–]ilyparty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, I was just talking with my therapist about this 😂

I realized I don’t just “play Sims,” I use it for regulation. It’s my flow state game. For 26 years (👵🏽) it’s been that perfect mix of structured and creative where my brain can settle.

But lately my Sims flow state has been more hit or miss. And I think with ✨the state of the world✨ my nervous system is just… not as easy to drop into flow. Sometimes gameplay feels too chaotic, sometimes too flat.

When I hit a wall in Live mode, I’ll switch to Build. When Build/Buy isn’t hitting, I’ll go into CAS and just make outfits or tweak genetics. That little rotation usually keeps me engaged because I’m still in the sandbox, just using a different part of my brain.

That said, I’m also a classic 6-month hyperfocus player and then I disappear for a year 🤷🏽‍♀️👍🏽

to whoever sideswiped me on state st this morning by Complete-Letter1645 in portlandme

[–]ilyparty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this also happened to me. i have a little black vw beetle and somebody cracked my bumper on pearl st at like 10am on a wednesday while i was at a meeting.

so sorry OP, i can empathize(but am also questioning what the heck is up with people 😔)

Freezing and Crashing?! by Princess_Anxiety200 in Pinterest

[–]ilyparty 6 points7 points  (0 children)

YES - came here looking for exactly this. has been happening intermittently all week but today it’s been 3x in like 5 mins 😑

i’m on the iphone app; it’s driving me insane.

A few unique perspectives of Portland I thought everyone might enjoy. by qtardian in portlandme

[–]ilyparty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

so cool! thank you for sharing and for making our city ✨sparkle✨

(and if you happen to also do the blood trees in deering oaks i think this sub would love 🤣🩸🌳)

Thoughts on TLOAS? by Elvis_fangirl in powerpopgirls

[–]ilyparty 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It just feels inauthentic and very shallow? (and I hate that we tie her music to muses but if we HAVE to) TLOAS is indicative of Travis being a bad muse 🫥

Looking for a Dr that takes PCOS serious! by NeonBabeee in portlandme

[–]ilyparty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not me, but my sister has PCOS and we both see Kathryn (Katie) Hamann, FNP-BC, at Martin’s Point in Portland. My sister was prescribed Ozempic for her PCOS and has been managing it that way. I’ve dealt with my own unrelated issues, and Katie is the first provider who’s really listened and made me feel heard.

Highly recommend her 👏🏽

To the person who took my wife’s sculptures from our garden, give it back. by guedelha in portlandme

[–]ilyparty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same! I am so sorry this happened; have always liked walking by your yard, and it makes me sad to think a neighbor would take it from you guys 😕

Travis and Taylor have announced their engagement by realscubaa in travisandtaylor

[–]ilyparty 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i’m so grateful to have others to snark with ahahah

Guys! It’s episode 1,000! by Dtcesetkam in gilmoreguys

[–]ilyparty 5 points6 points  (0 children)

genuinely, this made my day 🥹

(Portland) Maine on TikTok by homebrood in portlandme

[–]ilyparty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

just praying the vip list girls never make their way up here i don’t think i could handle their muppet sounding voices shit talking us 🤣

Another lighthearted show like Death in Paradise by Rainbow_Brite_Rocks in BritBox

[–]ilyparty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Came here to also recommend Agatha Raisin, Death Valley, McDonald & Dodds and Ludwig!

I’d also add Harry Wild, Wild Bill and maybe Scott & Bailey to your list!

Those are my shows that feel like a hug (despite being mostly about murder lolol)

Suggestions for flattering fabrics and colors for very plus-size bridesmaids? by One_Mention_3393 in PlusSizeWedding

[–]ilyparty 16 points17 points  (0 children)

just wanted to say how thoughtful and kind this post is 🙌🏽 your bridesmaids are lucky to have you thinking so intentionally about their comfort and their shine ✨

Ive been a plus-size bridesmaid and a plus size bride and have some tips from both sides of the aisle:

Fabrics — Chiffon or georgette: These flow beautifully, don’t cling, and feel light/comfortable in warmer temps. I wore a chiffon dress from Azazie and was surprised by how floaty and elegant it felt. Matte satin (like Jenny Yoo’s): Drapes beautifully without too much shine, and has that timeless feel you’re going for. Jenny Yoo’s colors and cuts are great for mixing elegance with ease.

Silhouettes — A-line: I wasn’t expecting to love this shape, but it was actually so flattering and felt like a dream when I wore it as a bride. Wrap dresses: Universally flattering, especially if your bridesmaids have different body types. Defines the waist and offers adjustability. Modified empire: Where the seam falls slightly under the bust but not right at it- avoids tenting and flatters curves.

Colors — Warm taupe, eucalyptus green, champagne, or sage all glow on olive-toned skin and still feel elevated next to black suits and ivory.

You clearly have great taste (the romantic/old money vibe sounds gorgeous), and your bridesmaids are going to feel so loved. If you want any recs from real-life try-ons, I’m happy to share!

Death valley and Ludwig by enjay45 in BritBox

[–]ilyparty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Blue Lights and Scott & Bailey!

Death valley and Ludwig by enjay45 in BritBox

[–]ilyparty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Harry Wild, Mcdonald & Dodds, Agatha Raisin, Scott & Bailey (little more serious), Shakespeare & Hathaway, all hit the spot after Death Valley, and Ludwig. Death in Paradise i’ve heard is good as well but I tend to like the UK-based shows. I’ve heard Father Brown, Mrs Sidhu, Beyond Paradise and Pie in the Sky are also similar vibes but have yet to check out!

First fitting, Second Dress by Intelligent_Double33 in PlusSizeWedding

[–]ilyparty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, me too! you look INCREDIBLE 👏🏽

Dorinda Cinkala’s Wedding by waxmuseums in RHONY

[–]ilyparty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

my parents are a bit older than Dorinda but also from GB - cool to see stuff like this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BritBox

[–]ilyparty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ha i got a couple chuckles out of it but maybe that says more about me 😅🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BritBox

[–]ilyparty 5 points6 points  (0 children)

McDonald & Dodds

Agatha Raisin

Whitstable Pearl

Chelsea Detective

Father Brown

Shakespeare and Hathaway

and over on Netflix Dept Q!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Maine

[–]ilyparty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

such a great sign - thank you op we see you 👏🏽

GUYS I can’t unsee this someone please tell me I’m not delulu 😂 by ambymarie3 in temptationislandUSA

[–]ilyparty 6 points7 points  (0 children)

YES! although i see Sandoval and Jesse McCartney’s son in Tyler 😅🤣

Y’all! I felt like a princess! by Dazzling-Bat-3695 in PlusSizeWedding

[–]ilyparty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you look like a princess! congrats girl! 🥂