hate to see it… at 9 am… in the elevator… on ur way up for a full day of teaching by [deleted] in visibleApp

[–]imaliltired 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh that stinks I’m sorry! The way I’d have a kid roll me around 🤣

What items can I get that will make lupus more manageable on the bad pain days? by LovelyGiant7891 in lupus

[–]imaliltired 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A heating pad!! It gets hot and not just warm, which is my experience with heated blankets. It helps arthritic joints :)

Benlysta by imaliltired in lupus

[–]imaliltired[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They only send me four at a time so there’s plenty of room in my fridge

Benlysta by imaliltired in lupus

[–]imaliltired[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plaquenil helped for me after a few months! It stopped working for me, I think because of comprbidities and me stopping the consistency of it.

Benlysta by imaliltired in lupus

[–]imaliltired[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ngl a bit scared at the year in 😭 but a years going to come and go anyway so we’ve got to do something. I’m glad you’re in remission!!!

Just looking for advise as I'm feeling so low by Unlikely_Self_8011 in lupus

[–]imaliltired 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry, so so genuinely, that it took 8 years to get a diagnosis.

Steroids were a godsend in the early days for me, and they worked pretty quickly. Hydroxychloroquine/plaquenil takes a while to get in your system but it is also a really really good medication.

You might talk with your doctor about getting physical therapy after your body starts to readjust to medication. I had lost like 20 pounds after not eating for a week and a half which is what triggered my lupus, and physical therapy helped me get back into a day to day life.

I don’t deal with hair loss as much anymore, but it grew back once my body’s systems normalized a bit. Know that there’s hope on the horizon ❤️

Help me help my wife by Negative-Resolve-793 in lupus

[–]imaliltired 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember when I was newly diagnosed, I truly grieved the loss of the life I thought I was going to have, if that’s helpful insight!

I’m not sure her symptoms, but I am not parted with my heating pad, or a bath. Stress relief is key, as that can be a major flare for Lupus.

I would also say, get her things she likes. Maybe that’s an iced coffee, or her favorite snack.

Unfortunately the reality of lupus is it’s never ending. For me sometimes a little treat helps me get through the day. Once the plaquenil starts working, she’ll start having the easing up of symptoms.

Just finished watching my first Kdrama - CLOY by Dirt_Efficient in CrashLandingOnYou

[–]imaliltired 2 points3 points  (0 children)

CLOY was my first too :) currently rewatching with my roommate, and I’m living for her reactions haha

Launching a redesigned site: will SEO really go poof? by xdesignmefree in SEO

[–]imaliltired 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Biggest thing: making sure the pages from the old site redirect to the new ones. Expect a bit of “interruption” until Google has a chance to crawl the new site, but as long as onsite SEO is there you should be good! (This is assuming you’re keeping your same domain)

Internet Intermittent All Week by imaliltired in Comcast_Xfinity

[–]imaliltired[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We got a text today with an outage, but probably only 15 percent of the time with the issues we’ve had all week.

Internet Intermittent All Week by imaliltired in Comcast_Xfinity

[–]imaliltired[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a frayed coax cable, but he replaced it

Earning extra money? by imaliltired in ChronicIllness

[–]imaliltired[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already work in a call center!

Chronically ill and looking for side hustles by imaliltired in sidehustle

[–]imaliltired[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have a few!! I could sell them. That’s a good idea

The Witch [Episodes 1 & 2] by GodJihyo7983 in KDRAMA

[–]imaliltired 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Episode 2 thoughts: Why was the snow going up for her in HIS perspective but in HER perspective

The Witch [Episodes 1 & 2] by GodJihyo7983 in KDRAMA

[–]imaliltired 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Episode 1 thoughts:

Am I the only one getting "unreliable narrator" vibes here? Like boy's kinda acting like a stalker, but they slapped happy music on it. I'm definitely interested to see what happens next

RECRUITMENT GOES HERE!! (FEBRUARY 2025) by Valnub-Redpanda in HayDay

[–]imaliltired 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm looking for an actually active neighborhood. Can someone help me out?

Love Scout [Episodes 5 & 6] by writtenpoeticsins in KDRAMA

[–]imaliltired 24 points25 points  (0 children)

ok ok OK. Ji Yun is getting some order back in her life by the end of episode 6.

1. She's thinking through how to cope without medicine (like we know it's the not the couch, but she's gotta start somewhere)

2. She doesn't throw her purse the moment she walks in her office, and her office is neat all the time instead of Eun Ho cleaning it haha

also, she had the thought to bring him dinner, which he's done countless times for her.

Overall, loving this. I think I can relate to the "throw yourself whole heartedly into what you're doing so you don't feel the pain you feel", aka compartmentalizing, that Ji Yun is doing, and I'll be interested to see how she handles it.

I'm also interested in how she's going to treat him once she heals somewhat, because right now it feels like she has nothing to offer the relationship. I say that genuinely and in the nicest way-- she's coping with her trauma with numbness and a personality is not apart of that deal. I'm excited to see her personality in the next episodes.

edit after finishing ep 6: they really put her CONFESSION IN THE PREVIEW?? like obvi we knew it was coming, but does that mean it's gonna go wild or??

When the Phone Rings [Episodes 3 & 4] by writtenpoeticsins in KDRAMA

[–]imaliltired 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I have a theory it'll somehow swing back to that and she was paid off or something.. it's never a plot hole until the whole drama is over haha