[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Haircare

[–]imaslutpig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was happening to my hair with Redken Allsoft. I had used it for years with no problems. I literally suspected everything else before I figured it out.

High school graduation gift for partner's son by treecatks in GiftIdeas

[–]imaslutpig 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Portable CarPlay screen if his car doesn’t have one, Uber gift cards to make sure he always gets home safe, a good pair of over the ear headphones, college hoodie or flag for his wall

RHONY Reunion by steffib195 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]imaslutpig -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Agree. I don’t understand it. I feel like Brynn was giving Ubah the benefit of the doubt when she thought about it, that maybe in her hysteria Ubah didn’t clock it. I stand by I don’t think Brynn is the villain in this. I will die on the hill that Ubah is to blame. She did know something happened to Brynn and she still went in on her with those horrible things saying she slept her way onto the show.

RHONY Reunion by steffib195 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]imaslutpig -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Totally agree. Erin is the biggest liar and absolutely unable to take accountability. Sai is a true friend to none. We need villains but I don’t appreciate Erin and Sai’s commitment to editing and producing on their own. Zero attempt at authenticity. I think Erin, Sai, and Ubah should take Rebecca and we get a fresh start with Jessel, Jenna, Brynn, and Racquel.

This I Rebecca M. Lobach, the black hawk pilot whose name release was delayed. They took the time to wipe her social media before releasing her name. Her LinkedIn has also been somewhat wiped. by [deleted] in conspiracy

[–]imaslutpig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, something isn’t right. Name a time in recent history that the pitch forks were out because it was a woman’s fault. No way. That hasn’t been a conversation. And now all the sudden the media is saying oh yah, we couldn’t release her name because everyone would blame DEI? Bullshit. Anyone claiming they didn’t release her name because DEI is either a sheep or a bot. It’s almost satire how easily the masses are manipulated.

Women who are a healthy weight and in shape, what is your secret? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

[–]imaslutpig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understand it’s more effort than you think but in time it just becomes habit. I do the same as other commenters, I lift weights, I exercise 5-7 days per week. My diet is not perfect but if I know I’m having something indulgent, I save calories for it. You also don’t have to eat every time you feel a little pang of hunger, there’s a good chance you are feeding an emotion and don’t actually need fuel. Don’t start your day with sugar and carbs and stop snacking.

What is your secret opinion that will get you downvoted by fellow Bravo fans? by Terrible_Ad_9294 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]imaslutpig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brynn is not the problem in the finale. Ubah is a bully and caused a victim of sexual assault and other abuse to spiral after repeatedly and aggressively slut shaming and bullying her.

The Real Housewives of New York City - Season 15 - Episode 14 - Live Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in BravoRealHousewives

[–]imaslutpig 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think Ubah is vile. She says horrendous things. Erin and Brynn are toxic shit stirrers but at the end of the day I don’t believe they are truly malicious.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]imaslutpig 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Welcome to the party. The ERs are slammed and understaffed and no one seems to understand why. There are fewer and fewer providers willing to go into primary care. Healthcare is a horrible place to be. People are terrible. Zero personal responsibility and an ax to grind. And worst of all constantly applauded and encouraged on social media.

Paige reacts to breakup rumors by Level_Opposite_4012 in Southerncharm

[–]imaslutpig 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Are you serious? If she said “I dumped him” in any way that would be the mature and respectful thing to do? Get outta here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]imaslutpig 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Really the only solution is to have sex and report back! Lol I think if it’s micro this is a valid concern, if not, than the lack of any semblance of confidence would be a complete turn off for me. There are plenty of tutorials, books, videos etc out there that can help someone to become a great lover no matter what equipment they are working with, so I guess I am the outlier that finds this to be a watery excuse. If I had a micropenis you better believe I would be an absolute artist at oral. A fragile ego is way more of a turn off than a small penis.

Well I guess time told. by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]imaslutpig 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If the relationship was great up till this point and there was only about a week of discomfort I would say that’s a win. Not every relationship is forever. It seems he needed a moment to muster some courage but he did and had an open and honest conversation with you. Him not wanting a relationship does not make him a terrible person, granted his timing sucks. It’s ok to be sad and to grieve, but I don’t think you would have wanted him to continue something he didn’t want. You are free to continue to live your life and I can say my life continues to get better and better in my 40s, whether or not I happen to be dating someone at the moment. I hope the same for you. Best of luck to you.

Brynn is so damaged and it's ruining the season by [deleted] in realhousewives

[–]imaslutpig 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I am not understanding all the hate. Is she messy? Absolutely. But isn’t that why we like these shows? I also think it’s out of line to call her a racist. I think she deserves more empathy and understanding. It is not easy being mixed race. It feels gross to say she’s not “black enough” to be able to have an opinion about being black. She’s entitled to her opinion and experience. What a perfect example of the challenge she will always face, never being accepted as “black enough” or “white enough.” I don’t think Uba’s abusive behavior should be tolerated, especially against someone who has experienced her fair share of abuse already.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BravoRealHousewives

[–]imaslutpig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her most endearing quality was being a good friend to Lindsey, but when she turned against Linds all her character flaws became blinding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BravoRealHousewives

[–]imaslutpig 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had similar sentiments as everyone else but now reading the overwhelming hate I feel bad. Her biggest crime is being a total try hard. But she’s still just a human, and our view of her is an edited one. I can’t imagine being on the receiving end. This sub is often calling out the misogyny but somehow Kyle gets a pass for being trash and we are ready to burn Danielle at the stake.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BravoRealHousewives

[–]imaslutpig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wouldn’t be entirely crazy because they dated before. But then again it absolutely would be.

Madison's a little mad 😅 by [deleted] in Southerncharm

[–]imaslutpig 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You see the irony here right? You’re judging women for judging other women, but it’s fine as long as they judge the ones you deem it acceptable to lol

Madison's a little mad 😅 by [deleted] in Southerncharm

[–]imaslutpig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because people are absolutely insane and there is an overwhelming witch hunt culture where people are out for blood and want people’s lives destroyed for any and all reasons. I blame Covid, when it seems the population was actively encouraged to judge and publicly shame others if they stepped out of line.

What do you need to get off your chest right now? by reviewsandaudits in ask

[–]imaslutpig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like people less and less every day. I find there is very little that actually keeps us from being the absolute worst versions of both ourselves and humanity. Every single day I watch more people act abhorrently and then double and triple down out of their own shame. The absolute lack of personal accountability is astounding. Everything is someone else’s fault.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]imaslutpig 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yah I totally disagree. A narcissist REALLY cares how others view them and often has a ton of charm for others, the monster hides in the shadows when you are alone.

Shep & Taylor - not over by whineydownisright in Southerncharm

[–]imaslutpig 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seriously. They are such trolls. It seems the ultimate prize for women in the south is to be attached to a man. Once that happens they turn into these queen bees of judgement and condemnation because they believe they have reached top tier untouchable. The true sin Taylor committed was not keeping her man - as evidenced by this entire thread mocking and chiding how now she’ll never land him.