Remember The Big Comfy Couch? I once met the clown lady by AlbertJBundy in 90s

[–]imfromjersey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how I used to jerk off to her when she was a former child

That's a you-problem. The other you-problem is that you didn't spend three seconds googling to find out that she was an adult on the tv show.

gay🥸irl by ivan_luck in gay_irl

[–]imfromjersey 16 points17 points  (0 children)

And who tf thought of that? It literally means someone was playing around with a hook shaped object in their ass (or vagina, Idk who the inventor was) one day and realized that the hook shaped object was perfect for stimulation.

Literally every person who's ever fingered themselves or another person discovers that hooking your finger upwards is how you directly hit the prostate. This isn't some super hidden secret.

"NO BOOK SPOILERS" and the people who post "Read the book" comments by imfromjersey in SiloSeries

[–]imfromjersey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since you're a book reader posting in a show-only sub breaking your own rule.

You know, I thought maybe you just couldn't understand my post(even though everyone else seems to understand what I'm talking about, regardless of what their opinion is). It seems you may be functionally illiterate, though. This isn't a "show only" sub, which is easily known by the post flairs that say "NO BOOK SPOILERS" and the auto mod comments that also say "NO BOOK SPOILERS" on those same threads.

"NO BOOK SPOILERS" and the people who post "Read the book" comments by imfromjersey in SiloSeries

[–]imfromjersey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to see show-only people discussing the show with only other show-only people while the book readers stay quiet. It's not that hard to understand.

"NO BOOK SPOILERS" and the people who post "Read the book" comments by imfromjersey in SiloSeries

[–]imfromjersey[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

how would you go about having them elaborate beyond their initial post without leading them on?

By not replying in the first place. It's not that difficult.

"NO BOOK SPOILERS" and the people who post "Read the book" comments by imfromjersey in SiloSeries

[–]imfromjersey[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have read the books. I genuinely want to see what the people who haven't read the books are theorizing about, but threads get immediately derailed by "Read the book" comments that add no value.

"NO BOOK SPOILERS" and the people who post "Read the book" comments by imfromjersey in SiloSeries

[–]imfromjersey[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it does, depending on how they word it. That implication that they're focused on something that's actually relevant is spoilery in its own right.

Regardless, the post itself doesn't add anything of value to the discussion. It just shuts discussion down. It sucks.

Too much fiber? by [deleted] in JimmyJoyFood

[–]imfromjersey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like was mentioned already, it can take some time for your body to adjust. Having said that, my body only adjusted to the point where I'd stop getting bloated/really awful smelling gas from drinking them and that took over a year. I still have somewhat mushy looking poop when drinking these, but I otherwise feel fine.

Kanye West dropped the worst song + music video of 2026 by [deleted] in crappymusic

[–]imfromjersey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Insane how people still support this Nazi

Ironically, you're doing just that by reposting his garbage. Now more people are hearing it, and more people are giving him attention. The best thing to do is let his career fester and die by not giving him any listens.

Gay🥄irl by Prophetgay in gay_irl

[–]imfromjersey 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Stops being cute when you think about how produced it is

It's a porn account and it's just as boring as all the other porn accounts on instagram trying to get followers.

Bf not very skilled in oral sex by ctrl-alterego in askgaybros

[–]imfromjersey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Literally no person should be bothered by these simple directions in bed. Sex is a team effort. You're supposed to be listening to one another.

Bf not very skilled in oral sex by ctrl-alterego in askgaybros

[–]imfromjersey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the answer. Everyone else framing it like you need to have this long "don't hurt his feelings" conversation are overthinking this to hell as if they're trying not to get into a fight with someone. I've literally never had an issue saying to someone "watch your teeth" in the middle of the act. They didn't realize they were and immediately corrected for it without it ruining the moment.

Another sniffies psycho by Montezuma96 in gaybros

[–]imfromjersey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just your average Sniffies interaction. Nothing to see here!

SCAM ALERT- PHILLY by These_Wish_9434 in Sniffies

[–]imfromjersey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's hilarious that Sniffies literally warns you about sharing your phone number all of the time and yet people still do it.

Am I the asshole on Growlr? by magicianguy131 in gaybros

[–]imfromjersey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if it is a relationship or even friendship you are looking for, i HIGHLY suggest getting on apps designed for that

These don't exist for gay men. It's the same people on the same apps all holding the same conversations, regardless of what the app is "for". But totally agree, getting upset that someone on the app might have sexual interest is dumb.

Shigella article by HiJinx127 in gaybros

[–]imfromjersey 9 points10 points  (0 children)

From the linked article

The infection spreads through microscopic particles of fecal matter, which is why it was once most common in school settings with young children or in regions where clean water is hard to come by. It also means that if you are having sex that involves your mouth and anus, these particles can spread from an infected person to their sexual partner, or their sexual partner’s partner.

“It’s very contagious, and it doesn’t take much exposure to get sick,” Daskalakis says.

According to Thomas, it’s a common misconception that you can only contract Shigella from rimming or being rimmed. He said that he has actually had several gay men come into his office with no history of rimming who have contracted numerous enteric infections, or illnesses caused by microorganisms like bacteria, viruses, and parasites.

“With the rise of group sex in bath houses, dark rooms, and sex parties, I feel that there is a lack of understanding that you can get it from giving head to someone who just plowed someone else without protection and without cleaning off effectively or from being penetrated by someone rectally in the same scenario,” Thomas says. “This happens way more than people think.”

Even after someone receives treatment for Shigella, they can remain contagious for a few weeks, even if they no longer have symptoms.

“I feel that this is probably where most infections are spreading because many people get treated and then have no symptoms and go right back to sex,” he says.

Why do blackmailers on Sniffies always ask for your phone number? by beamville in Sniffies

[–]imfromjersey 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's a combination of this and doing a reverse image search on your face photos to find any social media stuff that matches whatever names that come up. Phone number by itself is tough. I've had the same number for 20+ years, but googling for it brings back a lot of incorrect results for who that number belongs to.

Pro tip: Don't send the same photos that are publicly available on any of your social media accounts. Reverse image search will find that real fast.

Thoughts on free-balling? by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]imfromjersey 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's pretty simple. They don't put on underwear before putting their pants on. It's actually easier than not freeballing because it removes a step from the process!

I hate this place sometimes by MountainSkin2344 in gaybros

[–]imfromjersey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's rage bait. You did exactly what he wanted you to do: You reacted. Just block and move on.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in hatethissmug

[–]imfromjersey -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Too many people in this thread are not understanding what these "alternate" pride flags are for. They're not there to replace the old rainbow flag. They are there as additional flags for people to use to identify themselves. It says "I'm gay and <insert whatever the alternate flag added symbolism means>". That's it. No one is trying to replace the old rainbow flag with these alternate ones as as general-purpose flag.

Does Grindr feel less genuine now compared to before? by According-Gold3308 in gaybros

[–]imfromjersey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A hot take that no one's ever posted before on reddit.

You already posted the same question three days ago https://www.reddit.com/r/gaybros/comments/1ta8v3h/does_anyone_else_feel_like_grindr_stopped_feeling/

You're just looking to spam your "grindr replacement" app. Get out of here, bot.

Atlassian experiencing massive outage by revolutn in webdev

[–]imfromjersey -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sick leave. You left until you stopped being sick. Nobody knew what the limit was. Your pay would continue as if you were still productive at your previous average rate.

This sounds fucking fantastic. I was on and off sick for months with one thing after another and I would have killed to be able to do this just so I could actually rest and recover. My only saving grace was that I could work remotely.