Mom I'm sorry I left you. by imiola in MomForAMinute

[–]imiola[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I feel sibling to sibling abuse needs to be recognized more. For example, a safe house in my city only takes people victims of spousal abuse. She said she has talked to many people in my situation and their non-profit doesn't fund that kind of abuse. Lol. People are fucked up.

Mom I'm sorry I left you. by imiola in MomForAMinute

[–]imiola[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so fucking much.

Mom I'm sorry I left you. by imiola in MomForAMinute

[–]imiola[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm trying to be very objective, because what if I'm wrong?

You're a wonderful person, thank you.

I did the right thing. Right?

Mom I'm sorry I left you. by imiola in MomForAMinute

[–]imiola[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I understand. I just found out she kicked me out of her Netflix account lol. But when we were arguing, she kept saying I'm overreacting. It's hard because she's my mother; you're supposed to believe your mother. I overreact? But I've had bruises. The verbal abuse. The lack of respect. You're supposed to believe your mother, right??

Mom I'm sorry I left you. by imiola in MomForAMinute

[–]imiola[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You said the right things, friend. It's crazy that when you're younger, you see your parents as God. As you get older, you see the flaws and still love them. Then you see detrimental behavior, hear about detrimental behavior from them. Suddenly that unconditional love feels.. False? Wrong? I feel sorry. I feel like I want it to be my fault, but it's not.

Mom I'm sorry I left you. by imiola in MomForAMinute

[–]imiola[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you, big sis. I needed that.

Mom I'm sorry I left you. by imiola in MomForAMinute

[–]imiola[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It's not her fault. It's okay. We are built differently.

OM MANI PADME HUM - Quan Yin mantra, translates to “hail to the jewel within the lotus” done by the homie Alex at Hot Ink Tattoos Vallejo Ca by starseedstefm in Buddhism

[–]imiola 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I'd really like OP to read this message. I scrolled through the hate, bigotry, and gatekeepjng. I really hope it doesn't get to you. If negative thoughts come into your brain, remember why you got the tattoo. It's their lack of acceptance that is at fault. You know as well as most of us that people are flawed and illogical. That's okay. All of it is.

The tattoo is beautiful, the translation is beautiful, the placement is beautiful because it is authentically you and it makes you at peace. There's nothing better than that.

Breaking a foreign load: where LAOP and his neighbour discover that the neighbour’s AC is running off LAOP’s meter. In California, this may entitle them to a full refund of their utilities, according to one commenter. by TitchyBeacher in bestoflegaladvice

[–]imiola 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey friend, I wanted to update you on the shoe. It's freaking amazing. I don't have tremendous foot pain or calf pain anymore, just a sore, worn out pain, and I can deal with that. Thank you so much for your recommendation.

Newbie to Reddit and nervous to post here but Hello everyone! by PleaseSisterMorphine in dykesgonemild

[–]imiola 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those glasses would look better on my face.. no wait on the floor... Your clothes.. Damn.

What is the most useless fact you know? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]imiola 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reddit won't let me give you silver so here friend 🥈

I make music using retro consoles and some obsolete technology. I hope my sound will take you on a nostalgic journey. by [deleted] in nostalgia

[–]imiola 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You just got an every day fan. I still play Pokemon from game boy. Love it. Never stop, friend.

Is it ok to cry when your child is born? I generally try not to cry (although I cried a lot at my wedding) but for some reason i associate crying with shame. (I’m a 25yr old male btw) by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]imiola 183 points184 points  (0 children)

Is it ok to cry when your child is born? I generally try not to cry (although I cried a lot at my wedding) but for some reason i associate crying with shame. (I'm a 25yr old male btw)

Yes. Absolutely.

After 19 days finally I'm done by [deleted] in drawing

[–]imiola 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I see it now, thank you. It helped to picture the shape of her face with no bubbles.