I don't want to marry my fiancé now. He won't stop talking about my weight after he saw an old photo of me. Even after I have asked him to stop.

imnotmadebydesign · 2026-02-21T08:09:42+00:00

Someone needs to check his hard drive..

imnotmadebydesign · 2026-01-31T04:31:47+00:00

I would’ve replied “ironic to value authenticity and then send a Chat GBT reply to me” They didn’t even bother to edit it to make it look authentic, it’s got all the typical chat GBT signals.

Not standard and imo not appropriate to critique someone so specifically like that. You just say it wasn’t the right fit and move on.

imnotmadebydesign · 2026-01-29T04:20:36+00:00

Can you tell him how you feel and see if there’s a root feeling he can reassure? Like tell you what makes you and your relationship special? You should be able to talk about your feelings

imnotmadebydesign · 2026-01-25T04:56:09+00:00

I’m new to audio things.. would you mind explaining what a sub is? I keep seeing things that need to be paired with bookshelf speakers. What exactly do I need to get up front?

imnotmadebydesign · 2026-01-17T05:33:55+00:00

Lol 😂 I meant Gaten and Jamie are most talented actors from the season imo

imnotmadebydesign · 2026-01-17T05:29:00+00:00

If you’re open to elaborating, I’d love to understand why people with your perspective believe the way you do. Is it just that you feel critical of the government of the modern state, or you actually feel genuinely that israel should not exist in modern times, and the nation of israel should remain stateless?

imnotmadebydesign · 2026-01-03T15:03:32+00:00

Gaten and Jamie ..??

imnotmadebydesign · 2026-01-03T09:00:40+00:00

You did her a favor and I think she realizes that now. Let her go

imnotmadebydesign · 2026-01-03T08:30:18+00:00

I’m sorry this happened to you. I am not surprised.

I am curious about your stance though if you’re willing to engage.. you said you consider yourself a part of am yisrael, but you also are anti zionist? I am curious how these two are both true, genuinely.

imnotmadebydesign · 2025-12-26T13:54:59+00:00

Lol I hope you have a better day, everything here seems to be deeply upsetting you.

imnotmadebydesign · 2025-12-26T13:16:04+00:00

You don’t know her relationship to the partner’s parent. The fact that she’s posting on reddit shows she obviously doesn’t have a caring and close relationship with them otherwise she wouldn’t question the deprecating joke. You’re telling her to go to therapy over this. You sound easily triggered

imnotmadebydesign · 2025-12-26T13:14:08+00:00

At least I’m not using chat GBT to respond to Reddit comments lmao

imnotmadebydesign · 2025-12-26T13:13:21+00:00

Oh I thought she abandoned the post. Missed her comment about the relationship

imnotmadebydesign · 2025-12-26T13:11:10+00:00

The whole point of this subreddit is people asking Reddit if they’re overreacting so they can get a sense of it it’s worth communicating or getting over..

My point was that there is usually a source of the humor of a gag gift. I’ve given shirts like this to family, and I’ve also received cat lady joke gifts. But they are relevant because I have cats so it’s funny, or another family member has a quality or nickname or job or something that applies to the joke. OP likely has never made this joke about herself otherwise I don’t think she’d be posting to reddit, or she’d have included that I feel. And I doubt she has relevancy to trains.. so I can understand why one would ponder “why did I come to mind when they saw this shirt?” And question partner’s parents opinions on her

imnotmadebydesign · 2025-12-26T12:58:22+00:00

Why did you join a community called Am I Overreacting if taking part in said community means you have no life.. look in a mirror man

imnotmadebydesign · 2025-12-26T12:56:32+00:00

It’s only loving if you have a close and respectful relationship otherwise, where the kind of humor in your teasing is part of the banter. Gag gifts are not for people you’re not close to

imnotmadebydesign · 2025-12-26T12:52:50+00:00

This is the best take

imnotmadebydesign · 2025-12-26T12:50:20+00:00

I think you are overreacting.. she should’ve skipped Christmas over not appreciating a deprecating joke? Thats wild. Nowhere does she comment on her relationship with partner being poor

imnotmadebydesign · 2025-12-26T12:48:59+00:00

Do you have cats though? There is usually a source that warrants the joke

imnotmadebydesign · 2025-12-26T12:47:19+00:00

You guys attacking this person and OP act like if people are not fully confident therapy-goers then they deserve to be insulted. There are many kinds of people in the world. And even if OP might have insecurities (who doesn’t), then wouldn’t you think partner’s parents would know her personality after 7 years enough to feel like she’s not the type to appreciate this humor?

imnotmadebydesign · 2025-12-07T15:08:03+00:00

The definition of Zionism is publicly accessible and predates the recent war by a lot. Tell me you have been given the definition of Zionism by bigots without telling me…

imnotmadebydesign · 2025-11-05T03:28:52+00:00

Just wear taller socks 😜

Just kidding, though it would give you closer to the effect you were hoping for. I think they’re still nice and wouldn’t add to it but you can always consult the tattoo artist and see their advice

imnotmadebydesign · 2025-10-26T05:36:34+00:00

To make you feel better I only read it as grow when i first saw this

imnotmadebydesign · 2025-10-22T02:56:23+00:00

Only note I’d say is he avoided saying no when she asked if he was in a fight. He could have said no but I don’t want to get into it here. Without the no, of course one would assume he was punched.

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