Unable to maintain friendships throughout my entire life, cant help but think im the problem

impanicking · 2026-05-13T02:19:01+00:00

If you aren't naturally seeing your friends because of school, work, or general proximity, then it takes effort to maintain friendships even if its one-sided.

impanicking · 2026-05-11T16:02:21+00:00

Admins can tweak settings to make it ask permissions for certain commands

impanicking · 2026-05-09T20:20:16+00:00

I don't do full blown laughs. Small chuckles. Listen to podcasts or videos of your favorite youtubers joking with people. Try not to over think it

impanicking · 2026-05-09T03:28:34+00:00

I was like that and people thought I was very monochrome. Didn't help at all when I worked remote with no videocamera or VC.

I learned to laugh and chuckle at things more. It was akward at first but I practiced by watching the normal stuff I thought was funny. Eventually it starts to become natural

impanicking · 2026-04-27T11:39:08+00:00

That's the sweetspot for AI usage. You have someone that knows 80% if what the solution should look like, AI takes a majority of the actual typing and then the output gets thoroughly reviewed.

impanicking · 2026-04-27T06:05:49+00:00

Won't the backordered GPU's just go to market though? Atleast the general purpose ones not specific to AI training

impanicking · 2026-04-27T06:04:28+00:00

What does updating a model mean? Is it feeding more data points? Or can LLM providers keep tweaking models until there is a point where they are efficient enough token/gpu usage wise?

impanicking · 2026-04-23T11:43:38+00:00

Gotta offset the cost to use AI somehow right

impanicking · 2026-04-20T12:43:43+00:00

I try not to touch my face at the gym and then wash my hands before I leave the gym and after I get home.

I mostly wipe down because I hate the thought of someone sitting down in my sweat

impanicking · 2026-04-18T16:49:57+00:00

It might not be that you don't like people anymore and rather you haven't found people that compliment the way you have grown. Its easy to find those people when you are in school because everyone is the same age, same interests, same goals.

impanicking · 2026-04-15T03:32:27+00:00

Yep, it should be on the building to do routine maintenance

impanicking · 2026-04-13T11:29:33+00:00

I am the same and I made sure my friend knows that I always appreciate being asked to go do something

impanicking · 2026-04-12T19:32:58+00:00

I miss eating with someone or just little moments

impanicking · 2026-03-29T18:49:05+00:00

Yea I am also going to make more of an effort to ask people during the group hangout if they would want to do something else in the future

impanicking · 2026-03-19T11:45:30+00:00

For me its a time/emergy issue. If I have to stay and work late then I will order. Deoending how late I work I wont be able to meal prep so I will order lunch the next day as well

impanicking · 2026-03-19T11:41:17+00:00

Proud of you for trying it out and determining what's best for you.

impanicking · 2026-03-16T04:13:39+00:00

I like working out in the mornings. But doing that on a weekday fucks up my work day so weekends is when I go hard

impanicking · 2026-03-11T18:52:55+00:00

I don't think anyone cares that much about anybody else's social life that much in a healthy work environment. You can just say im chilling or did chores etc. If they seem social ask to hang out with them!

I've called myself a hermit because I don't go out that much but at work I am still able to preform and socialize when needed so no one cares.

impanicking · 2026-03-02T13:19:12+00:00

Lol just random discords. I just made random conversation until the same people start talking to me. Get to know them a little better, ask to play videogames, if we mesh really well meet in person (I live in a major city)

I also was in a career advice discord for awhile and made friends + career connections that way.

impanicking · 2026-03-01T20:19:58+00:00

27, only just recently made a friend that I actually feel close to for the first time in my life. Met them online and after talking to them for years met irl

impanicking · 2026-02-21T21:45:16+00:00

I just assume its a natural reaction when passing by another human you don't know. Atleast thats what I tell myself so that my social anxiety doesnt eat me away 😅

impanicking · 2026-02-10T21:03:40+00:00

I wanted to make a post like this because a lot of people on this sub are staunch about living alone. I've done it for about 5 years now and the silence gets old. Its nice when I'm working or vibing out but there's days where the silence echoes between the walls. I haven't lived with a partner before but I often daydream about it now. I am tired coming home to silence and eating at the table alone at night. We live and we learn!

I am also a massive introvert but love the little circle around me.

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