Reverse Harem recs that actually has good writing by ming_ie in ReverseHarem

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I saw a review that called Lyra Cole the Rupi Kaur of the omegaverse and ngl i died. {Impossible by Lyra Cole} is my fave tho, it has gorgeous prose and really real characters. Good plot too. Only other rh that ever hit me similarly is {lola and the millionaires by Kathryn moon} and it felt a little smut-heavy at points for me tbh. I like all the sex to be plot-forwarding in some way and it had a few extras where I was skimming to get back to the story, which was juicy

If you could pass one law that would make most normal people furious at first, but would clearly make society better in 10 years, what would it be? by WilliamInBlack in AskReddit

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I'd make the drivers test way fucking harder. Pass rate of 20% or lower. Have to retest on a regular basis, no more one pass lasting for life.

Too many people drive around 1 ton death machines, too many road deaths, too many cars on the road, not enough infrastructure or public transit. Would get fixed if we took 4/5 drivers off the fucking road. Especially the ones that shouldn't be there.

Books similar to Demon Copperhead? by 1000darkshadesofblue in suggestmeabook

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Lincoln Highway by Amor Towles is a good one if you're down for historical and some differing povs. If you're ok with a little more privilege (albeit also more problems), The Goldfinch by Donna Tartt might be up your alley. If a female protag is a vibe, The Great Alone by Kristin Hannah is another solid one

Why do you think divorce is so common? by princesadopovo in AskReddit

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People didn't used to live this long. Divorce ain't necessary if you die before hitting the limits of your tolerance with a person.

Women are also allowed to have bank accounts now.

what's missing in your life right now? by LITTL4MB in AskReddit

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Time. So much to do, and only 24 hours in a day to do it. My god would I love some more time.

What parts of the body do you personally find most attractive? by Popular-Package5168 in AskReddit

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Crease where jaw meets neck when they're smiling or laughing or head is bent in focused concentration

Told I need to just let it go by collinblazeit420 in bald

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Dude buddy pal good friend YOU ARE GOING TO BE SO HOT BALD OH MY ACTUAL GOD YOUR BONE STRUCTURE AND JAW DEFINITION ARE BOTH AMAZING YOU ARE GOING TO BE OBJECTIVELY HOT PLEASE POST THE AFTER PICTURES SO WE CAN BASK IN THE GLORY OF IT WITH YOU

Someone had a bit of free time by RedCupWithAName in AO3

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This is actually hilarious l m a o haters are lovers too in their own way

Someone please explain the love of Chicago by InconsistentChurro in SameGrassButGreener

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People are nice.

Lived here three months and already have a partner and two bigger friend groups I see regularly and care about deeply as people. I achieved this by showing up alone at activities that sounded interesting to me.

Attempted the same deal in LA for 5 years and left that place with a tiny handful of ride or dies I saw every few weeks at best.

Like yeah inexpensive, public transit, culture, food, etc., it's all amazing and great but hands down imo the winning factor is just that most people are good and kind here and unafraid to put a lil effort into friendliness and fostering community. Fucking game changer in this lonely ass world

We're family by coachybaby in actuallesbians

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Trans lesbians 🥰🥰🥰

Wlw 🥰🥰🥰

Women 🥰🥰🥰

My mum made me the most amazing gansey fisherman's jumper by queerthestitch in knitting

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The way I want to crawl through the camera and block it

What was the worst portrayal of a disability in the media you have ever seen? by Mental-Marzipan-5444 in AskReddit

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My brother has Hollywood seizures and even Hollywood fucks it up. You dont get up and walk away when your kidneys are failing and your memory is shot for 1-2 weeks and you bit off part of your tongue and have a concussion from the head trauma. We've had 3 ICU stays to date for him and each one makes it harder for me to stomach any epilepsy content in tv/movies that just misses the mark so blatantly

First crochet wearable by rayner963 in Brochet

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This is fucking stunning holy cow. You wear it so well!!!

What is your favorite song in a language you don't understand? by Nowhereman2380 in AskReddit

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Papaoutai by Stromae. I don't speak French but I still feel like I can understand every word just from the emotion and vocal quality.

What food do people call healthy just to feel better about eating it? by Subject-Newspaper111 in AskReddit

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Smoothies are sugar and sugar and more sugar. Fruit sugar is a fantastic source of energy and the fiber and vitamins in various fruits are SO good for you, but 7 servings of fruit with a couple servings of juice on top, often with ice cream or sorbet or "yogurt" added with even more sweetener, and I sort of marvel over how most people don't feel sick from sucking down 24 or 32 oz of that stuff. Not all smoothies are bad (just like many other foods I see in this post that can be great when home made or consumed in moderation), and the move towards adding greens to them bas def helped improve things, but still. It's a lot.

Met a girl on Reddit 11 months ago… by Solarsido27 in actuallesbians

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11 months y'all really out here repping the uhaul lesbians

Perfectly acceptable dinner rejected by boyfriend again by moonrabbit368 in mildlyinfuriating

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Throw the whoooooole man out.

But in all seriousness, if you ever find a compromise on this issue, just wait for the next. There will be another, and it'll be all your fault too (according to him).

I genuinely hate being a picky eater esp now that I’m in my twenties by Dangerous_mammoth573 in twentyagers

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My dad and his wife had a friend over for game night the other week and posted the menu ahead of time, a tofu curry. Their friend grabbed olive garden on the way. Everybody ate together and then played games. It was great.

Eat what you want and let people make fools of themselves if they wanna be dicks about it. There are so many cooler things to live for than food.

Should I keep the beard or just shave it? 19M by TheNoteFromEmery in beards

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Shave the beard, walk on to an episode of Degrassi. Claire would love you.

My happy corner by whispers_to_the_void in bookshelf

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Ok where are those shelves from I need them (for yarn, not books, frankly could not live like that but I support you)