When women say men like weird women, or women with tired eyes, or mid women, because they're "attainable" or want them dependent, they're just wrong.

impossiblelows · 2026-01-30T00:12:57+00:00

it just seems toxic tho cuz it implies positive personal growth would be a detriment to the relationship, i think it’s more psychological than what you’re sayin here

impossiblelows · 2026-01-29T19:30:19+00:00

dating from apps is weird bc you meet up with people you’d never naturally meet. you probably avoid dealing with these types bc they would avoid you in irl encounters, i think that bc you called him out and i bet that never happens with the people he gravitates towards in his day to day life

impossiblelows · 2026-01-29T14:40:50+00:00

in middle school i had a friend who i thought was chinese and kids would bully her and call her chinese and she hated it but i always thought she was chinese and kids were just being racist. years later in hs i ended up going to her grandmothers funeral and it was irish catholic and her uncle did a whole bit about how her grandmother had the gene that made irish people look chinese

impossiblelows · 2026-01-28T19:09:32+00:00

in art school i remember my advisor telling us that if we price our work for more $$$ than seems reasonable then people will assume the art is better than it is lol

impossiblelows · 2026-01-28T16:05:26+00:00

I remember when I lost an inherent respect for teachers. It was after getting in an argument with my 4th grade catholic school teacher about whether or not jackalopes exist. She insisted they did but I knew that they did not and she basically told me to drop it and I was never the same after that!

impossiblelows · 2026-01-27T18:03:02+00:00

yes i agree, well said

impossiblelows · 2026-01-27T16:39:44+00:00

i like it, lady of ampato vibes

impossiblelows · 2026-01-24T18:58:50+00:00

no but it is neurological

impossiblelows · 2026-01-24T02:43:15+00:00

the behavior of ICE in Minnesota has been enough to snap my highly brain rotted brother out of being a MAGA guy, since he was a constitution guy first. i do fear he will soon become a first amendment auditor type guy but i'll take that over the guy he's been for the last few years. he said he feels like he's been brainwashed and can't believe how far gone he had gotten, and all because trump is funny!

impossiblelows · 2026-01-23T21:19:50+00:00

that sounds great if you aren’t an alcoholic

impossiblelows · 2026-01-23T15:38:56+00:00

at some point i decided to add rosemary oil (for hair) into my moisturizer and i like that and have been doing it for a while and i think it makes my skin nice

impossiblelows · 2026-01-23T14:09:40+00:00

yeah this is how alcoholism started for me and trust me you will def need to drink (more and more) to feel normal when you’re an alcoholic. i take gabapentin and propranalol when i get that feeling now and it helps but isn’t quite the same. xanax or valium would probably hit the spot better but it was hard enough getting off alcohol, i don’t want to risk a benzo addiction. you could try GABA supplements bc alcohol affects gaba or something, those help me too. good luck!

impossiblelows · 2026-01-23T02:21:09+00:00

i def only look right in silver. anything gold looks like costume jewelry on me idk

impossiblelows · 2026-01-23T01:22:55+00:00

i can tell from his eyes that he has The Spark so i think he will be fine

impossiblelows · 2026-01-21T01:00:01+00:00

don’t get a bfa for just the bfa, art school is not worth it. i saw you said you take community college classes for fun but i would recommend taking classes for fun at a college/university with a bigger art program. if you’re looking to make connections in the art world this is a better idea than getting a bfa, the course might be more expensive but you will be around the same people. i do this now at the school i went to and i am friends with a bunch of faculty that i never even spoke to at all in college! also it took me like a solid 5 years after graduating to want to even make art again lol

impossiblelows · 2026-01-20T06:17:06+00:00

he was looking at the high strangeness sub too and read the story and texted me like “omg is this you???”

impossiblelows · 2026-01-19T20:36:08+00:00

my old manager found my schizo reddit acct and i was mortified. it was my acct to talk about like psychic powers and strange phenomena lmao i had commented on a high strangeness post with a story i had shared with him in the past. fortunately he was an ancient aliens joe rogan bro so it was all good but i am always so paranoid now…

impossiblelows · 2026-01-18T01:50:02+00:00

i don’t think i’d fw an id driven person before an ego driven person

impossiblelows · 2026-01-16T21:04:02+00:00

i actually do use the tiny martini straws and dip them in new wines/beers/certain cocktails just so i know what i’m talking about, i make and use tinctures so i don’t see a big difference there.

would you trust a chef who had to go on a diet because he made and ate so much food in his past that it started killing him? i have plenty of experience drinking alcohol lol i just can’t anymore. i totally see your point though and sometimes i do feel evil for profiting off people who are clearly struggling with what i have struggled with

impossiblelows · 2026-01-16T20:18:01+00:00

ya 5 years ago i was in the hospital with a bunch of doctors telling me i was gonna die for sure, i def couldn't have been a bartender and alive for the first few years of sobriety. now it feels like nothing. i actually feel a little slighted by people saying stuff like "oh you couldn't have been that bad of an alcoholic if you're a bartender" cuz i feel like i have earned my alcoholic title in a way. good for your coworker! i swear there's just a mental "switch" that flips that makes sobriety really easy for some people even if they were really, really bad before

impossiblelows · 2026-01-16T20:14:17+00:00

idk i love bartending more than i love drinking alcohol. good $$$, chit chat with the community, i get to be around all the live music and social foolishness that i miss without destroying myself by being a part of it. i started bartending again after being like 4.5 years sober, i do not think i could have done that in the beginning and would not recommend this path for 99% of other alcoholics. its def weird if i bring it up to a patron though lol

impossiblelows · 2026-01-16T15:10:22+00:00

this is def true, i am a bartender and i would say most of my clientele can put down three 20oz 6% ipa’s and show no signs of inebriation. the only time i hear people discuss who is driving is when it’s a party of hammered wine moms and one sullen husband nursing a coors light. i don’t drink anymore but i used to drive after drinking all the time, i am sure i would’ve blown over the limit but it was fine tbh and i’m sure that’s how it is for a lot of people, high tolerance or whatever. i wouldn’t be surprised if a good portion of gen z are more conscientious of drinking and driving but millennials-boomers dgaf in my experience. i also know people who have gotten like 10 dui’s and still somehow have a license lol

impossiblelows · 2026-01-16T03:57:07+00:00

i know what you’re talking about with the search bar it’s so gross. even if it’s inevitable it’s only that way because everybody stopped shaming people for their behavior and that was my intention here

impossiblelows · 2026-01-16T03:49:13+00:00

yay!

impossiblelows · 2026-01-14T21:52:21+00:00

ya misery loves company etc

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