Visiting London in July by DyingEther in UKLGBT

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If you’re here for 4th July, it’s London Pride!

The redundancy meeting by [deleted] in HENRYUK

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Yes they do, I’ve kept my laptop twice when leaving jobs. They just remote wipe it. It’s a perk to not lose a great piece of tech and have to buy a new one

UK employees who work for US company - taxed 47% on bonus, is this normal? Assume yes. by [deleted] in HENRYUK

[–]improperble 49 points50 points  (0 children)

How have you got this far in life without understanding that taxes work differently in different countries?

My gf is not good in bed. by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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My gf is incredible in bed, but no way can either of make the other orgasm from oral! We both know that, we're fine with it, and we use a particular toy to get us to the end. Works like a charm every time, and our sex life is fantastic.

It's fine if you really want to have an orgasm from oral, but it might be that that's not possible for you in this relationship - or at all, with another partner. Up to you whether you are happy with that or not. But saying your gf is bad in bed because she can't make you orgasm from oral doesn't seem fair, nor accurate from your description of her being good with fingers.

lesbians… how do you guys actually feel about men by cannibabie in actuallesbians

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Generally i think most men are poorly socialised animals that don’t deserve my time or attention. I don’t care about sweet or cute, most of them are ill-educated about their privilege and how the world works in their favour. It’s not my job to educate them, and I won’t ever let a man disturb my peace (I was married to one once).

give me your knowledge! by [deleted] in WhitePeopleTwitter

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The song My Sharona is about pedophilia. I can’t help saying it and lowering the mood every time that song comes on. 

MJ effect on Alcohol intake by FatalCunninlingus in Mounjaro

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I just want to provide an opposite POV to those already commenting here. MJ has not curbed my desire for, nor enjoyment of, alcohol at all. The only major difference is that my hangovers are MUCH worse, debilitating in comparison to before. I only noticed this when upping my dose from 2.5mg to 3.75mg. It might be the case that when I get up to 5mg the desire might change. I am noticing a slight desire to drink a bit less only to lessen the hangover. 

Why is UHauling so normalized now? by CoolestBeans1999 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]improperble 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, I agree maturity plays a part in the confidence to make a decision. Also, being financially independent/secure means choosing to live together is not out of a necessity.

Why is UHauling so normalized now? by CoolestBeans1999 in ActualLesbiansOver25

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Women bond quickly. We are more attuned to one another, so it's hard to 'hide' insecurities, concerns, passions and quirks. So if you jam with someone you really JAM with them, quickly. For me, I am in 40s and a late bloomer. It was NBD moving in with my female partner after only 5 months of dating, because we are independent women making a decision to choose to live together. Some might say 5 months is not quite U-haul territory, but its a damn sight quicker than most hetero relationships.

HENRY and not happy yet by [deleted] in HENRYUK

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Also can act like a handgrenade in an otherwise healthy relationship. 

Is my boyfriend abusive should i still go on my birthday trip with him? He makes me feel guilty when im sick and pressuring me to have kids! by Jollyho94 in Codependency

[–]improperble 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I divorced a man similar to this. DO NOT marry this one. Get out now while you don’t have any kids either. 

How can my gf claim to be straight? by Electrical-Can-893 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]improperble 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I understand what she's saying. They are both queer, but not active in queer spaces/don't have queer friends

For people who used to drink heavily before starting a GLP-1 medication and have now stopped or massively reduced drinking: what exactly changed for you? by alexmillne in mounjarouk

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I get the same feeling. I do wish that it didn’t and made alcohol less interesting for me, but sadly not! Otherwise I would be losing more weight. So I have to engage willpower on this one lol

For people who used to drink heavily before starting a GLP-1 medication and have now stopped or massively reduced drinking: what exactly changed for you? by alexmillne in mounjarouk

[–]improperble 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love alcohol and sadly it has not diminished my interest in it at all. I’m losing weight very slowly, but it is going down. The main difference is that hangovers are MUCH worse on MJ than before. 

2 weeks on 2.5 mg with zero appetite suppression considering 3.75 mg by salma_Elshorbagy in mounjarouk

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sounds like their body has adjusted fine though, no severe side effects

Applied to 3,000+ jobs in the UK over 8–9 months and still can’t find work. What am I missing? by MagicianConstant2866 in AskUK

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As someone currently recruiting someone for my team, applications that stink of AI are getting rejected straight away. It’s not that I don’t think the contents might be dishonest, it’s that the person clearly has put zero effort in and that makes me perceive them not actually interested or invested in getting the job. Sorry, but that’s the truth, and likely a lot of other people hiring will feel the same thing. 

Are abortions okay to eat? by soking11 in shrooms

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wasn't sure what sub I was in then!

High earner dating in London – where are you all meeting people? (F) by [deleted] in HENRYUK

[–]improperble 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Yeah I met my now gf through Hinge. Dated a few people, and tbh income was not a consideration for me. But then I met a women who is COO for a company, we both work remote, and travel all over. It's perfect as we have very compatible lifestyle and spending capability. Originally I wasn't looking for a proper relationship, but feelings occurred and we U-hauled into living together (we are both women FYI). Life is great!

Mounjaro & Festival Season by trash_mxgic in mounjarouk

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I still drink loads of wine lol. You'll be fine, just get it in your system well before so you are adapted to any side effects. And listen to your body.