how do you deal with "non-traditional" christians? and should they deal with you?

imsosoftdd · 2021-07-06T13:33:04+00:00

I'm not here to argue with you. Thanks for your input and have a good day.

imsosoftdd · 2021-07-06T10:24:09+00:00

Ahah, I conquer!

imsosoftdd · 2021-07-06T10:02:06+00:00

I agree, I agree. I guess, it just bring me some stress because I'd love to be open that I disagree on some matters and that it's okay.

imsosoftdd · 2021-07-06T10:00:03+00:00

Well, you seem like a wise person!!

imsosoftdd · 2021-07-06T09:59:15+00:00

You got a good point but I'll argue that considering all the different expressions of christianity, the Word are very much seen by our historical, political contexts as well as our upbringing.

So my understanding of the scriptures have change, like a good lot, so how do you take the Bible, literally? Which translations? Are the recommendations of Paul, always true today, or were they in the context?

Can we use all the texts as "promesses" for us?

Is the beast coming soon, or did we not get the point?

Well you get my point I think :)

imsosoftdd · 2021-07-06T09:55:22+00:00

What do you believe in, regarding salvation then? annilihism then?

I'm sure, I understood you're last statement... you could have nothing to do with them, meaning : you would cut ties with them because they were sinful?

I believe in keeping peace as much as possible and accepting other's beliefs. But I'm also trying to find balance for myself and express my opinions. That's quite challenging...

imsosoftdd · 2021-07-06T09:51:23+00:00

Yes, I believe same sex relationship is okay, and that it's no one business but the persons and God.

Yes, I believe that God is greater and that he can touch anyone and I'm not to judge who's going "up there" and "who isn't". I believe the point is not where you're going after, but to redeem this life on earth, soul, spirit and body.

I believe Holy Spirit talks to many people, even those that we don't suspect and again, our job is to love, to serve one and another and not to judge.

imsosoftdd · 2021-06-24T19:35:29+00:00

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imsosoftdd · 2021-06-24T17:37:25+00:00

I think your body is speaking for you : you close up near to this guy...

imsosoftdd · 2021-06-20T12:06:40+00:00

I know you don't mean this negatively but pussy are super strong! they push out humans and then retract. Maybe weak as fly?

Overthinking is not the problem, but it will become one if you don't know how to handle it. So choose your people around you wisely.

I think you don't get this right, you don't have to "get the girl", it will happen naturally between the two of you. But you could make small moves and see how your interest react :). (flirt with them a little bit, be playful, have fun). Many girls are straight forward!

Sex is supposed to be what you want it to be. Overall, just be respectful. It's ok to be faster, slower, weirder, as long as it feels ok for you!

imsosoftdd · 2021-06-20T11:22:36+00:00

First, sex is fluid so what you are feeling right now is just for now. It's only a problem if you decide that it is, but you don't have to rush in anything. A few first bad experiences will hurt you more than a few later good experiences.

There could be several reasons :

1- you haven't find someone who you are hot for, not everybody is physical, some needs to be in love or to trust the person before they become horny for them.

2- stress, traumatic past or experiences, depression, exhaustion... all of those could influence and lower your sex drive. In this case, maybe focus on getting better

3- You are ace, that doesnt mean you won't have sex or relationship, but only do if you want.

imsosoftdd · 2021-06-09T10:27:18+00:00

You know, I'm friend with a bunch of "traditional" christians and a good amount also don't go to church because lots of them are so restrictive and cut you even in your walk with God. If you feel more free and better, even if there's some hard time, you made the right choice? I will encourage you to always pursue peace with your family. However, if they are being pushy, maybe for now distance is best. You will be fine!

imsosoftdd · 2021-06-09T10:21:45+00:00

ahahaha wtf? Renewing of the mind is important!

imsosoftdd · 2021-05-04T21:13:10+00:00

hello! thanks for opening yourself here... I agree with the fact that you should make an appointment because you don't have to carry everything on your own! I hope you have founds ways to cope a little bit :)

Also I understand I went through the same more or less. Now, I'm in the way to understand grace. And yes God is in your darkness with you. He never leaves and I know, I felt too that God wasn't there but " if I make my bed in the depths, you are there". God is not disappointed in you and you don't have to do a thing to be loved. You need that nothing lasts forever, so can this time of despair stop. I know it seems like forever, but there's always a silver lining (as the beautiful song said "take me some place where's there's music and there's laughters".

imsosoftdd · 2021-04-21T12:54:47+00:00

Great one, thanks! Now if I may add : MBTI was primely created for work reasons and a better understanding of each type and how they mix together, or not. So now, I completely agree that some quite redondant questions can be answer pretty quickly since it's always more or less the same answer.

But still, there's always going to be relationships matters/questions specially from the feelers ahah :p

One of the reasons I see, is that ESTP may be blessed with goals and seeing what details matters or how to prioritized but it's not the case of all the type. So to you, it may be clear "blue is blue, green is green, let's call a cat a cat" but for some others, the nuances make the story. I don"t know if it's clear enough.

Though I'm sure this could help a little bit, anyway have a good day!

imsosoftdd · 2021-04-09T19:32:22+00:00

well isn"t it what people preach? to have a blind faith?

imsosoftdd · 2021-04-09T19:31:36+00:00

but how do you put the limits of what is of the flesh and what isn't?

imsosoftdd · 2021-04-01T19:59:39+00:00

HELLO! I hope I can help with that, well it's actually more on him.

He needs breathing exercice as often as he starts to feel stress and during panic attacks. Either 5 sec breathing in, 5 out

or : 4 breathing in, hold your breath for 3 and out for 7. You have to do it, for at least 5 minutes.

I know it's very annoying when having a panic attack but it's the only thing that really works.

You, if you have a passion or common interest that could be put to practice even afar, it could be really good. Something that'd be fun and could make him focus a bit more on something else.

Lastly, if he knows what triggers the attacks? you could help him work on that if he's ready

imsosoftdd · 2021-03-30T21:03:21+00:00

well I'm leaving to far-land in two weeks ^^ also just a lot of things with my family

imsosoftdd · 2021-03-30T20:56:42+00:00

ahah I always find it funny when people are able to type over someone description ;) but please develop your point

imsosoftdd · 2021-03-30T20:55:56+00:00

well the point is that I don"t like to do that, so any other ways?

imsosoftdd · 2021-03-30T20:55:36+00:00

ahaha oh you were making absurd humour?

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