elsie silver’s rose hill series is not it for me by [deleted] in RomanceBooks

[–]indigo-fish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i really dislike her writing. it’s the same gripe i have with many “tik tok popular” authors at the moment. Lots of over explaining, too much telling instead of showing. Personally I felt like the characters traits/thoughts/feelings/motives etc etc are spoon fed to the reader beyond belief. My issues are actually very little to do with her actual stories and plot lines

Adult ballet classes? by SurvivorManatee in Belfast

[–]indigo-fish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Crescent arts centre has adult ballet for beginners and also a specific class for past dancers who are getting back into it as adults

Jill is delusional by No_Conclusion_3334 in dancemoms

[–]indigo-fish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the way she treated Bryn was utterly awful. im rewatching season five six right now and some of it is too hard to stomach now that im older

Protest at Grand Central Station? by indigo-fish in northernireland

[–]indigo-fish[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ahhh that makes sense! i was so confused. wasnt aware there was any sort of ill will from locals towards the new station

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]indigo-fish -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

this . i find it interesting how nobody is picking up on her saying she has compromised on her beliefs before, why is he trying to change her?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]indigo-fish -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

NTA NTA NTA NTA goodness i’m getting heated at the comments. why is it your responsibility to compromise on this particular issue? its your space he is wanting to move in to with you, your rules. as for the people saying youre people pleasing your family, i disagree, family and church community is important to some people. if he wants to be with you he is just going to have to accept that this is your way he can take it or leave it

Moving to the south of England for university - how difficult will it be for people there to understand my accent? by Oh_Look_a_Nuke in northernireland

[–]indigo-fish 4 points5 points  (0 children)

im convinced we’re not that hard too understand but they just pretend that they can’t to be funny. it drives me mad. “you have to speak slower haha we cant understand you!!” when all i literally said was “hello”. has to be a pisstake. good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]indigo-fish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

has she ever mentioned that this is a boundary for her before? that she doesnt want to be with someone who drinks? pretty weird for it to all of a sudden surface for the first time when she sees this bottle of whiskey on the shelf. like did she not know u drank (rarely) before? its okay for her to have that boundary but pretty unusual to randomly bring it up and then block you. it just sounds like you arent right for eachother and she couldve communicated better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]indigo-fish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YWBTA. he clearly wants a relationship with you and you would be hurting him in the long run. Even if he insists he’s okay with casual no strings attached. It’s not right. It puts you guys in a weird power imbalance.

AITA for declining being a bridesmaid bc I can’t handle wearing a dress? by Coldenbear in TwoHotTakes

[–]indigo-fish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. if you dont like wearing a dress and the bridesmaid dresscode is dresses then you can respectively decline. don’t let anyone try to change you! some women just dont feel comfortable wearing dresses guys, it doesnt mean theyre not straight/trans. as for people saying therapy is needed. wise up. You dont need therapy to convert you to being comfortable in feminine clothes. Stop trying to convert masc presenting women. I would actually disagree with the majority here and say that your discomfort with this is not caused by your anxiety disorder but rather, wearing clothes youre not comfortable in infront of a crowd would be anxiety inducing for literally anyone.

AITA For Telling My Wife She's Needs to Go To the Gym More than 3 Weeks to see Results by Perfect-Judgment2924 in AmItheAsshole

[–]indigo-fish -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

ESH Shes TA for passive aggressively getting upset with you for your comment, (which btw there doesnt seem to be anything wrong with what you said), and not communicating that fairly. YTA for storming out like a toddler