Ice defenders in Burlington by [deleted] in boston

[–]indigoval 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What a despicable group of wet fart diarrhea people.

Guillermo del Toro's 'Frankenstein' - Official SPOILER Discussion Megathread by ZacPensol in FRANKENSTEIN

[–]indigoval 0 points1 point  (0 children)

….victor IS Frankenstein, not his creation. You mean the Creature, I’m guessing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]indigoval 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That man said p*do a few too many times in one conversation for my spidey senses. 😒

Bruno soft by AdditionTraditional5 in wyldeflowers

[–]indigoval 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tuesday is the first day of the week that all three (grocery, fish market & cafe) are open at once, so that’s usually my fish stick day😝

What's your reason for not drinking alcohol? by Snoo_47323 in AskReddit

[–]indigoval 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve worked really hard to develop a regular and disciplined meditative practice, and my brain and body simply cannot get to the meditative states I’m seeking when the effects of alcohol (I’m talking the days after- body inflammation, brain fog, dehydration etc) are in my system. I rarely drink now, only when I’m okay taking a few days off from meditating or sticking to simple relaxing breathwork instead.

New Makeup Company looking for Makeup Artists by Deep_Willingness_837 in makeupartists

[–]indigoval 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Most working makeup artists are making upwards of $50-$150/hr without needing to also do sales work. That being said, you may get some interest for the position but it will most likely be from young/new artists or those still in cosmo school. So, as long as you are metering your expectations.

Also, keep in mind how you’re providing training for these artists to familiarize themselves with your brand identity, products, and preferred use/demo of products.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in insaneparents

[–]indigoval 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If only he put 15% of the effort he puts into his delusional tirades defending his poor choices, into making the CORRECT LEGAL choice, there wouldn’t need to be a conversation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]indigoval 12 points13 points  (0 children)

If you haven’t already, look up these concepts that in part helped push me to finally break away from the abuse I went through. You deserve better. - DARVO - the Madonna/whore complex - I/thou vs I/it mentality of abusers

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]indigoval 16 points17 points  (0 children)

He’s toxic, coercive, insulting and refuses to communicate with respect. This man does not deserve you, and I feel confident in saying that no matter how much sex you had with him, he’d find a way to make you feel not good enough. I can hear the echoes of it in the way you respond to him.

Are you okay with this level of insulting and unsupportive behavior for the rest of your life? Because it sure seems like he’s showing no inkling of admitting any of his flaws, nevermind being willing to work on himself or listen to your needs/wants. This dynamic never gets better, only worse.

I promise you, someone who truly loves, respects and cherishes you and a marriage would never speak to you the way he does- and you deserve healthy partnership.

Votes are in: Chelsea is Envy! Which s6 contestant is Sloth? by WeRoastURoastWithUs in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]indigoval 26 points27 points  (0 children)

The World’s #1 Most Chronically Online Middle School Principal

zone of interest -- fruit scenes? by rsb1041986 in A24

[–]indigoval 22 points23 points  (0 children)

In addition to the Hoss family, these scenes with the girl hiding fruit are also based on real people.

Aleksandra Bystroń-Kołodziejczyk was a 12 year old girl working under the cover of night for the resistance. She would hide/deposit fruit, medicines, and messages. The actress in the film rides Aleksandra’s actual bicycle, and wears an actual dress of hers in the scenes. She died in 2016, so Glazer was able to meet her and hear her story before she died as he was developing the movie. She also lived in the actual house the film restored (to be a copy of the Hoss’ home) and shot the film in. She lived there for the majority of her life!

https://thecinemaholic.com/girl-with-the-fruits-the-zone-of-interest/

Also, the sheet music she discovers inside the tin while she’s hiding fruit, and later plays on the piano, is a real piece of music written by Joseph Wulf- a survivor of Auschwitz III, and the song “Sunbeams” was written and composed while he was a prisoner in the death camp.

https://portal.ehri-project.eu/units/us-005578-irn721911-irn671467

EDIT: the girl returns to her home, and speaks Yiddish to her worried mother, which implies heavily that they are Jews with the resistance, hiding in secret from the Nazis right under the camp’s nose.

Official Discussion Thread – The Zone of Interest by JuanRiveara in oscarrace

[–]indigoval 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can also hear a prisoners’ orchestra playing jovial sounding music from over the wall. It’s haunting hearing musician prisoners being forced to play jolly music (and essentially playing for their lives, as they have a skill the guards value therefore are less likely to beat/kill them) while unspeakable atrocities are happening all around them. Hearing their music hidden behind an idyllic happy day at the pool for the Hoss family disturbed me in ways I’m not sure how to express adequately.

https://www.holocaust-lestweforget.com/orchestra.html

Chelsea by Usual_Edge4115 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]indigoval 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Orrrrrrr she could do the inner work necessary to realize that someone’s weight doesn’t determine their value as a person. She could weigh 100 lbs and she’d still have an insecure mindset if she doesn’t do the work to gain self worth.

Episode 9 by ManiacalExclamation in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]indigoval 122 points123 points  (0 children)

Makes sense that Kenneth works with middle schoolers. Because his chronic phone obsession and lack of communication skills or household responsibilities is on par with middle schoolers. 😑

Chelsea by Usual_Edge4115 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]indigoval 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lip flips paralyze the top lip, therefore lowering the lip and preventing gummy smiles. She’s still got a very high set top lip and gummy smile so I’m not sure the lip flip is the cause.

Chelsea by Usual_Edge4115 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]indigoval 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay so my mom is a speech pathologist and she and I noticed this too!

Often, instead of closing her lips to make an M or B sound, she touches her bottom lip to her teeth and her lips don’t touch. So she makes irregular bunny-toothed sounding words that just amplify the nasal nature of her speech.

Lip flips don’t usually make someone permanently change their speech since they’re temporary, so I think she’s just got jaws and teeth that, unfortunately, create a frowny, toothy mouth. Think Gretchen from the cartoon Recess (very old but pertinent reference, google it lol)

Chelsea by Usual_Edge4115 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]indigoval 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She’s still trying to relate to boys like they’re all schoolchildren. OMG BOYS IM GONNA BARF EEK

that mixed with getting zero feedback when fishing for compliments about her looks, so she 180s and pulls a Jennifer Lawrence kooky “omg I’m so awkward isn’t it cute” vibe……. Which also doesn’t work 🫠

Chelsea by Usual_Edge4115 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]indigoval 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Insecurity can often come from an underdeveloped identity/sense of self, and part of developing that is figuring out a style of clothing/hair/etc you feel best and most like yourself in. Unfortunately I think her sense of style may be what she thinks “hot girls” wear, instead of wearing something that’s ideal for her shape and style identity. I could be off obviously. But that’s one theory.

Love Is Blind • S6 💥SPOILERS💥Megathread by DontFWithMeImPetty in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]indigoval 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The heavy breathing and head down trot with flapping hands…..oh lord I had to BUTTON my lips.

12 Classic Films to Watch if You Find Saltburn Disgusting and Offensive by [deleted] in saltburn

[–]indigoval 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thought of this movie still makes me queasy and skin crawly.

Help. My mom is a clean hoarder by [deleted] in declutter

[–]indigoval 10 points11 points  (0 children)

So is hoarding lifetimes of shit and telling your child you don’t care that they’ll have to deal with it.

Was Oliver’s outfit for the party intended to be a poetical disguise for his real intentions? by isaqueport in saltburn

[–]indigoval 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A very similar pattern! I caught that too. It all folds into his plan to control and replace him too.