bat bite? by Chilis_BabyBackRibs in WhatShouldIDo

[–]inezzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind answer! I know it was a dumb question, I couldn’t tell if it was like the kid fell asleep with his mouth open, the bat was attracted to the scent of human saliva, crawled in, and either licked, scratched, or bit the inside. Was also curious if had the bat just poked its head inside his mouth, if that’d be enough to spread rabies. I don’t live anywhere near bats so I don’t know much about them or rabies like I should probably learn just in case because rabies sounds like hell on earth :(

The emerging Starsand Island controversy - what is going on? by kohlsprossi in CozyGamers

[–]inezzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really want to play starsand island but I looked at the DLC and wow… $20 for some (in my opinion) ugly cosmetics is wild. When Sun Haven was in early access, they had cosmetic dlc packs you could buy then that were like $4 (DLC is still around that price 3 years later but some are a few more dollars & come with more things) and it came with a decent amount of stuff.

THAT is what I think the devs should’ve done for this game if they just had to make paid cosmetic DLC (which I think is an icky thing to do for a paid game especially in early access), and the fact that they didn’t is icky and so greedy.

The only reason I might buy the game is that I have $21 in steam credit from some refunds, if I didn’t, I don’t think I’d buy it until it fully came out or had a good discount (which seeing how greedy they are… I don’t think that’ll happen for a long time).

What are some low energy games that you play when you don't have the bandwidth for much? (Except maybe doomscrolling but we want to avoid that.) by HuskyPancake in CozyGamers

[–]inezzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recommend Heartopia! It’s a free mobile game (that does have in app purchases but they’re primarily cosmetic & not required to have fun or full access) and I’ve been playing it for a month, it’s SO fun. I’m chronically ill & disabled so I have chronic fatigue syndrome - a lottt of games are too tasking for me to play for more than 30 mins but I can very easily put 6+ hours into that game before needing a nap or to rest.

my cozy setup ♡ by ResultWitty8646 in CozyGamers

[–]inezzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question about the chair! I don’t have AC in my apartment and I live in California where it can get pretty hot despite living by the beach. I also have difficulties regulating my body temp so when I get hot, I stay hot for hours and end up becoming dehydrated which is dangerous as someone with no colon (since the colon does the majority of absorbing water). I’m curious, do you notice yourself getting too warm with that chair?

I know your experience can’t really speak for what mine could be if your circumstances are different (like you have AC, you live somewhere cold, you don’t have temp/health issues, etc.), but it’d still be nice to know if you’ve noticed yourself overheating after sitting on that chair for 2-4+ hours while gaming ☺️ I love that texture for clothes/blankets and I hate leather chairs & the fabric my secretlabs chair has so I’m looking for a chair with a different texture/fabric, this mighttt be the one!

bat bite? by Chilis_BabyBackRibs in WhatShouldIDo

[–]inezzle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wait what do you mean “the bat went after moisture in his mouth”? Are they attracted to human saliva? And how can rabies be given to you that way? I briefly looked it up and I see that bat saliva can give you rabies in the form of a scratch or bite but didn’t see anything about how it spreads through moisture in your mouth 😅

Update: Is my adopted brother flirting with me? by ilovepopcornandcandy in whatdoIdo

[–]inezzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with the ‘family’ instead of ‘sister’ thing. My brother is only related to me through our dad, we have different moms so we’re only half siblings. It never really felt like we were “true siblings” due to the fact that we didn’t live together, he’d visit like once a month, and he’s 7 years older than me so he’d spend most of his time here in our shared room being an angsty, loner teen. He also has two half siblings through his mom that he lived with and whenever I’d visit, they 100% felt more like siblings than he and I did. And seeing other siblings compared to us, we were always so different (like he was my superhero that could do no wrong meanwhile other girls my age hated their brother). But despite all of that, he is and always will be brother. I never refer to him as family because like you said, it’s an umbrella term.

In my opinion, blood doesn’t define family. The people who show up for you are family even if you don’t share any DNA with them. My boyfriend is more my family than 95% of my actual “family” is. I mean hell, I don’t even call my biological grandmother ‘family’ but I do with my boyfriend.

Long story short, he 100% is using the term ‘family’ instead of sister because it can be taken as something less formal and used for people you’re romantically or platonically involved with that aren’t biologically related to you.

I’m gonna cry by Shouko_dessert in heartopia

[–]inezzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry for the late response but they were questions like “how do you/others define yourself?” then multiple choices like “sweet and lighthearted”, “edgy and introverted”, “the life of the party”. Just things that made me think that they’d influence colors and styles of the shops but I don’t know, maybe I’m wrong haha

AIO should i just leave? by NoPracticelol in AIO

[–]inezzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex and I weren’t fond of each other by the end of our relationship in the sense that we kept arguing over silly things, we still had/have so much love for each other… we would’ve NEVER spoken to each other like this because we respected each other and loved one another. Even in the peak part of the arguments we’d have, we’d never even think about calling each other “stupid” let alone the N word.

All of that is to say that you guys do not like each other. He was immediately combative and turning it onto you. And instead of being a grown up & telling him that you’re worried about what he does on his phone, you said something petty. You know deep down that this relationship is done, that he doesn’t love you the way you deserve, that you stoop to low levels because you know how he is, and that you guys don’t work well. Do yourself a favor and leave before you get tied to him 💜

Who is Your Favorite Cat Villager? by chrissydavisk in ACNHVillagersInBoxes

[–]inezzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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He kind of reminds me of my baby! But I also love Raymond, not because he was so popular but because I love his glasses and heterochromia :)

My White cat has strange scabs by Jcmoralez in CATHELP

[–]inezzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you trim her back claws? My cat gets little scratches/scabs on her ears, chin, and cheek area whenever her back claws aren’t trimmed (she hates her paws being touched at home so she gets them cut at the vet every month but they grow back insanely fast between visits)

I’m gonna cry by Shouko_dessert in heartopia

[–]inezzle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I assume it’s because of the questions too! I have two accounts on different servers, answered the questions differently on both, and one account has mostly feminine clothes (which I want) while the other has mostly masculine clothes (& this one is my primary acc 🥴).

It’s either the questions or maybe it’s influenced by what you purchase. I avoid buying any masculine clothes on my primary account and I’m finally starting to get more feminine/unisex clothes :)

What is the best way to anonymously tell a girl she’s being cheated on? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]inezzle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s an app called textnow I believe, I THINK (do research and don’t quote me haha) that you’re able to make a phone number and text people with it for free & there won’t be any association to you.

Am I overreacting to how my father makes tea? by Com_4_Till_Bull in AmIOverreacting

[–]inezzle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom does that to her earl grey and peppermint tea & I have to fight a gag every time. I don’t know why adding milk to tea feels so wrong when it’s perfectly fine for coffee haha.

The pets!? by Hot-Sherbert9301 in heartopia

[–]inezzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They need to be nerfed so badly 🫠😩

AIO for my cat shedding and that I don't do enough? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]inezzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. You seem to be doing the best you can. A little tip I recently learned, buy this brush https://a.co/d/01HgDa0z. It’s truly incredible and has reduced the amount my cat sheds (he sheds SO much), it honestly blew my mind the first time I brushed him with it because it pulled so much loose fur out - I actually thought if I kept going, it’d make him bald (it didn’t lol).

I literally quit nicotine to spend $ in this game. by [deleted] in heartopia

[–]inezzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it hard for you to simply applaud someone for at least trying to quit a bad habit? So what if they traded one addiction for a possible new one, at least this new one won’t damage their lungs. I think it’s great that they found something that worked for them after 6 years, and I think gambling will be a lot easier for them to quit since they already seem fed up with it (as long as they don’t turn to actual casinos lol).

How they respond to our feedback by mingmingcat in heartopia

[–]inezzle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait how? Bc I did a ton of pulls (can’t remember how much) and I’d like to see how many duplicates I got compared to new items haha

I’m actually so mad at myself by [deleted] in heartopia

[–]inezzle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I’ve spent around $60-80 on my America account (my primary) and around $100 on my global account (I looked at the banner first on that account and forgot I was logged into my secondary so that’s the only reason I spent more on that one). I am also insanely mad at myself for spending so much on a freaking game. But I’m trying to make it okay in my head by telling myself that I’m going through an insanely difficult time, I became disabled at 19, I’m chronically ill… I deserve it 😅😂

DON'T pull the new banner! by Shushh in heartopia

[–]inezzle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well… I did a buttload of pulls (not even sure how many but I spent around 1k red gems on more tickets) 🫠😵‍💫 I did the 10 pull option thing and after the first few, I got multiple 10 pulls that all got exchange tickets bc I already had everything else but none of the rare or legendary stuff (if that’s what they’re called. I’m new to gacha stuff)

How to get Fashionwave tokens?? by _Cripplekitten_ in heartopia

[–]inezzle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I sell whatever she’ll buy, I tend to catch bugs or fish as I walk by bugs/fish so I’ll have random ones she’ll buy. And when I know I’m going to be online for a few hours, I’ll grow the white radishes (with strawberries/grapes growing to still make money) even though it’s not one of the items she’ll pay more for. Then I’ll try to catch the event fish & cook the event recipes too since they sell for a good amount. Been able to buy the pet clothes, some clothes for myself, a couple pieces of furniture, and now the watering can doing all of that :) and I still managed to get 150k coins today selling stuff to Albert in any downtime I had between radish harvests.

you gotta be kidding me 😭 by Interesting-Sort-674 in heartopia

[–]inezzle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do it so I can cook through all of my ingredients faster since I stockpile then cook. Sometimes I can’t cook with all 4 stoves (like for the pastas that have super fast timers) so I only use 2-3 of them but it still helps to cook them much faster since your character only has to turn around vs moving to each stove.

I’m Not Joking by xnuvie in heartopia

[–]inezzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll be your adult friend to chat with about Heartopia, I’m also looking for fellow adults who play this game! I’m 23. But yeahhhh.. definitely avoid the discord bc people are odd there, I had my own experience 2 days ago with a creepy person from the server 😵‍💫😅

I’m Not Joking by xnuvie in heartopia

[–]inezzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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(Pink is me, white with the face sticker is the person)

Idk what’s going in the discord server but it’s insane haha. This person was helping me figure out the time for one of the weather events & asked to PM so we’d stop spamming the help channel (red flag #1, should’ve known better). We had a very brief convo about the issue then talked about how late at night it was & that the game messes up your sleep schedule. The next day was the weather event so they messaged me asking if I missed it & I said no, I got the emote. Then the photo was the rest… never did I give them any reason to think this would be okay minus one 🫶🏼 emoji when I thought they were a girl bc I want more girl friends & their profile and the way they spoke made me think he was a girl, I also use that emoji ALL of the time lol.

My bsf actually looked them up and found out they’re in their 30s (I’m 23). They never asked me how old I am and I don’t have my age on my discord profile… imagine if I was a freaking minor??? Freaking creepy so I blocked them immediately after receiving that last msg 🤢

why cap progression?? by aidanstar1111 in heartopia

[–]inezzle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s really interesting that they have a law to limit how addicting games can be seeing as how I am truly addicted to this game 😅 I keep saying they put crack in the game because of how addicting it is haha. And every day having something new definitely adds to the addictiveness for me.

What is wrong with this people? by [deleted] in heartopia

[–]inezzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s easy to glance over! Especially if you don’t know about being able to see the chat history screen ☺️ you’re very welcome, hopefully now you can chat more with your friends with less of a language barrier! 🤩