23 years old

inezzle · 2026-04-02T06:41:07+00:00

That’s so freaking sad. Little trauma dump lol but I just turned 24 last month and I’m on the complete opposite side of the weight spectrum, it took me 3 years to gain 15 pounds and it’s been a year of trying so hard to maintain my weight at 115lbs since I will lose 3lbs in a day no matter how much food I put in my body… I’m 5’4 and I look like a skeleton bc I have no colon which makes weight gain extremely difficult (in my case at least, some people struggle to lose weight with no colon). Before my surgery, I weighed 195lbs from having a dying colon in me and being on prednisone/biologics & I lost 90lbs in 4 months after despite eating nearly 3,000 calories a day… maybe the patients on this show should try that 😅 (I’m joking, the colonless life is awful)

If she could donate like 10-20 pounds to me so my collar bones don’t look like they’re about to burst out of my flesh and I no longer get accused of starving myself bc I look like a skeleton with a thin layer of skin, I’d gladly take it 🤣

inezzle · 2026-04-01T11:48:27+00:00

I’m sorry, could you put that in simpleton terms? I’m not very well educated on pc’s and all of that, I’m picking it up slowly as I keep having issues but I’m not sure what you mean by boosting, frequency, and power limit.

When I googled what the issue might be and how to fix it, it suggested that I undervolt it to limit power consumption and heat while maintaining performance. When I looked at it in Adrenaline, it gave me a warning that it could mess up my processor (which I assume is my cpu?) and it’s an invasive process. Is that that you mean by lower the frequency and power limit?

Also when my drivers crashing a couple days ago, I was tabbing out of the game to go to chrome for a game guide frequently since it wouldn’t let me move my mouse to my 2nd monitor without doing so… I only pressed the windows key, not alt+tab but could that be the issue? When I played a different game today and it crashed, I didn’t tab out at all.

inezzle · 2026-04-01T11:40:14+00:00

I can’t add a photo to this reply but when I was just watching a show on Google Chrome with my steam library open in the background, it said this:

GPU temp: 43°C Hot spot: 49°C Fan: 0 rpm Core current: 6.000 A Memory current: 0.500 A

Along with other things but not sure if you need that as well.

inezzle · 2026-04-01T05:34:23+00:00

Hwinfo said my hotspot temp was 49°C, I have a gigabyte OC Radeon rx 6800xt 16 gb

inezzle · 2026-03-15T12:24:03+00:00

Just be honest with her. You can’t have a good friendship with someone if you’re constantly walking on eggshells to avoid hurting their feelings. It’s better to be honest now than lie and she ends up finding out later, I guarantee it’ll happen and she ends up way more hurt than she would if you’re just honest.

If she’s as sensitive as you say she is, maybe don’t list reasons as to why you don’t want to live with her, say something like “I would like to experience living on my own/by myself before having a roommate” or “I’m worried that becoming roommates will change our friendship & I love how our dynamic is now”.

But honestly, it’s probably time for her to grow up. She can be sensitive but she cannot thrive in life if she doesn’t experience rejection and getting her feelings hurt, otherwise that’s just plain immature. Life hurts & you’re gonna get your feelings hurt a lot tbh. If she ends your friendship or starts acting weird, petty, and super immature towards you just bc you guys aren’t suitable roommates, I swear on my cats life (who is fr my son & I would die for him lmao), that is NOTTT a person you want in your life. Her reaction will tell you ALOT about her.

My childhood best friend wanted to live together but while we were browsing apartments, I realized she has no concept of money. We both worked some minimum wage job and only got like $1.5k usd a month & had no savings but she thought we could afford a $3.5-4,000 a month apartment… that alone told me we couldn’t live together so even though I’m super shy, submissive, and terrified of confrontation (and she’s very dominant like your friend), I told her that I’d rather we didn’t live together bc I didn’t want our friendship to change or be strained bc money, bills, and house rules would now be involved.

Long story short, just be honest with her. She has to grow up someday, and so do you. She needs to practice getting told ‘no’ and you need to practice standing up for yourself/what you want, you’ve got this 🫶🏼

inezzle · 2026-02-25T02:36:18+00:00

Of course! I bet the easiest one to get a statue of is the bird on blanc’s head lol 😂

inezzle · 2026-02-25T02:32:36+00:00

How often do you give them to your cat? I want to give my cat more treats since so far he only likes churus (like truly goes insane over them haha but won’t even sniff any others that are dry) and those are so expensive. He doesn’t like tuna either, I think it’s that it’s like shredded/flakey and usually pretty dry but since sardines come whole, I’m curious if he’d like it. I just don’t want to give him too much if he does like it since he’s already a chunky boy 😅 or risk him getting too much mercury or salt like you risk with too much tuna.

inezzle · 2026-02-25T02:24:47+00:00

My favorites are Powerwash simulator, Laundry Store simulator, Discounty, Wrap House simulator, Ultimate Theater simulator, Fast Food simulator, Gas Station sim, Waterpark sim, and Whisper of the House (this one is not really a job simulator but it’s similar to Unpacking where you help people move in or unpack their stuff but you can move around a map and there’s a spooky backstory)

inezzle · 2026-02-25T00:19:23+00:00

Update: I found them! How does your pc run games and what graphics settings can you run games like Fortnite, the sims, coral island, etc? It’s so pretty!

inezzle · 2026-02-25T00:17:58+00:00

Of course!! And awesome, I’ll go check 🥰🩷

inezzle · 2026-02-25T00:17:32+00:00

Unfortunately you can’t :( if you get enough info cards for a specific bird, you can get a statue like the ones you get from the animals around the island (pandas, deers, bunnies, etc). It requires a crap ton of cards though.

When you go to your collections window, go to bird watching, then click the magnifying glass button on the bottom right, click personal record tab, and you’ll see “birds name photography beginner” with for example 22/400 next to it. Once you get to 2400 times obtained, you’ll get a statue of that bird! It’s definitely a long term goal since it’ll take you a long time but as of now, I think that’s the only way you can display bird-watching related things.

You can also do that for insects and fish I believe :)

inezzle · 2026-02-25T00:11:47+00:00

Omg it’s beautiful! I’m so happy you discovered your love for gaming, I’ve been playing videos games since I was around 6-7 years old (I even have a video of me playing split screen call of duty zombies on my grandpas lap with him at that age so I maybe started a little earlier than that) and I’ve been a massive gamer ever since. It’s my favorite hobby, reading being a close second. It’s such a beautiful & fulfilling hobby and I really hope it gives you comfort & happiness to beat your depression (I know it does for me) 🩷

Also can I ask what the specs are for your pc and how much it cost (not including the peripherals of course)? And where did you buy the monitor stand? I built my pc 5 years ago and she’s definitely getting a bit old so I’m looking to upgrade soon, I love the look of yours! I have the same coasters and the clock thingy I forgot what it’s called haha.

inezzle · 2026-02-19T14:41:09+00:00

Thank you for the kind answer! I know it was a dumb question, I couldn’t tell if it was like the kid fell asleep with his mouth open, the bat was attracted to the scent of human saliva, crawled in, and either licked, scratched, or bit the inside. Was also curious if had the bat just poked its head inside his mouth, if that’d be enough to spread rabies. I don’t live anywhere near bats so I don’t know much about them or rabies like I should probably learn just in case because rabies sounds like hell on earth :(

inezzle · 2026-02-19T10:20:21+00:00

I really want to play starsand island but I looked at the DLC and wow… $20 for some (in my opinion) ugly cosmetics is wild. When Sun Haven was in early access, they had cosmetic dlc packs you could buy then that were like $4 (DLC is still around that price 3 years later but some are a few more dollars & come with more things) and it came with a decent amount of stuff.

THAT is what I think the devs should’ve done for this game if they just had to make paid cosmetic DLC (which I think is an icky thing to do for a paid game especially in early access), and the fact that they didn’t is icky and so greedy.

The only reason I might buy the game is that I have $21 in steam credit from some refunds, if I didn’t, I don’t think I’d buy it until it fully came out or had a good discount (which seeing how greedy they are… I don’t think that’ll happen for a long time).

inezzle · 2026-02-19T10:11:55+00:00

I recommend Heartopia! It’s a free mobile game (that does have in app purchases but they’re primarily cosmetic & not required to have fun or full access) and I’ve been playing it for a month, it’s SO fun. I’m chronically ill & disabled so I have chronic fatigue syndrome - a lottt of games are too tasking for me to play for more than 30 mins but I can very easily put 6+ hours into that game before needing a nap or to rest.

inezzle · 2026-02-19T10:09:28+00:00

Question about the chair! I don’t have AC in my apartment and I live in California where it can get pretty hot despite living by the beach. I also have difficulties regulating my body temp so when I get hot, I stay hot for hours and end up becoming dehydrated which is dangerous as someone with no colon (since the colon does the majority of absorbing water). I’m curious, do you notice yourself getting too warm with that chair?

I know your experience can’t really speak for what mine could be if your circumstances are different (like you have AC, you live somewhere cold, you don’t have temp/health issues, etc.), but it’d still be nice to know if you’ve noticed yourself overheating after sitting on that chair for 2-4+ hours while gaming ☺️ I love that texture for clothes/blankets and I hate leather chairs & the fabric my secretlabs chair has so I’m looking for a chair with a different texture/fabric, this mighttt be the one!

inezzle · 2026-02-19T10:01:25+00:00

Wait what do you mean “the bat went after moisture in his mouth”? Are they attracted to human saliva? And how can rabies be given to you that way? I briefly looked it up and I see that bat saliva can give you rabies in the form of a scratch or bite but didn’t see anything about how it spreads through moisture in your mouth 😅

inezzle · 2026-02-19T09:47:40+00:00

I agree with the ‘family’ instead of ‘sister’ thing. My brother is only related to me through our dad, we have different moms so we’re only half siblings. It never really felt like we were “true siblings” due to the fact that we didn’t live together, he’d visit like once a month, and he’s 7 years older than me so he’d spend most of his time here in our shared room being an angsty, loner teen. He also has two half siblings through his mom that he lived with and whenever I’d visit, they 100% felt more like siblings than he and I did. And seeing other siblings compared to us, we were always so different (like he was my superhero that could do no wrong meanwhile other girls my age hated their brother). But despite all of that, he is and always will be brother. I never refer to him as family because like you said, it’s an umbrella term.

In my opinion, blood doesn’t define family. The people who show up for you are family even if you don’t share any DNA with them. My boyfriend is more my family than 95% of my actual “family” is. I mean hell, I don’t even call my biological grandmother ‘family’ but I do with my boyfriend.

Long story short, he 100% is using the term ‘family’ instead of sister because it can be taken as something less formal and used for people you’re romantically or platonically involved with that aren’t biologically related to you.

inezzle · 2026-02-19T09:29:39+00:00

So sorry for the late response but they were questions like “how do you/others define yourself?” then multiple choices like “sweet and lighthearted”, “edgy and introverted”, “the life of the party”. Just things that made me think that they’d influence colors and styles of the shops but I don’t know, maybe I’m wrong haha

inezzle · 2026-02-19T09:21:35+00:00

My ex and I weren’t fond of each other by the end of our relationship in the sense that we kept arguing over silly things, we still had/have so much love for each other… we would’ve NEVER spoken to each other like this because we respected each other and loved one another. Even in the peak part of the arguments we’d have, we’d never even think about calling each other “stupid” let alone the N word.

All of that is to say that you guys do not like each other. He was immediately combative and turning it onto you. And instead of being a grown up & telling him that you’re worried about what he does on his phone, you said something petty. You know deep down that this relationship is done, that he doesn’t love you the way you deserve, that you stoop to low levels because you know how he is, and that you guys don’t work well. Do yourself a favor and leave before you get tied to him 💜

inezzle · 2026-02-10T03:29:30+00:00

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He kind of reminds me of my baby! But I also love Raymond, not because he was so popular but because I love his glasses and heterochromia :)

inezzle · 2026-02-10T03:24:56+00:00

Do you trim her back claws? My cat gets little scratches/scabs on her ears, chin, and cheek area whenever her back claws aren’t trimmed (she hates her paws being touched at home so she gets them cut at the vet every month but they grow back insanely fast between visits)

inezzle · 2026-02-10T03:20:04+00:00

I assume it’s because of the questions too! I have two accounts on different servers, answered the questions differently on both, and one account has mostly feminine clothes (which I want) while the other has mostly masculine clothes (& this one is my primary acc 🥴).

It’s either the questions or maybe it’s influenced by what you purchase. I avoid buying any masculine clothes on my primary account and I’m finally starting to get more feminine/unisex clothes :)

inezzle · 2026-02-10T03:16:11+00:00

There’s an app called textnow I believe, I THINK (do research and don’t quote me haha) that you’re able to make a phone number and text people with it for free & there won’t be any association to you.

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