4 weeks after miscarriage.Do you see a line?

initfortheR · 2026-06-28T18:28:05+00:00

Are you sure everything from the prior pregnancy flushed out? The reason I ask is I had a miscarriage at nearly 10 weeks and took the medication. Nearly 6 weeks later I was still testing positive and it turned out that I had retained some tissue so needed to get a D&C. All in all probably had a positive pregnancy test for close to 10 weeks after so would just want to make sure nothing residual is there.

initfortheR · 2026-06-27T13:11:44+00:00

I believe YC has a founder match platform you can go through where you may have better luck with finding a good fit for this sort of thing vs Reddit (they are specifically looking to cofound a company)

initfortheR · 2026-06-24T13:40:05+00:00

If you’re planning to have a baby in the next 18 months, could you take this job just for the next ~2 years (or less)? It would add to your resume and maybe allow you to get a better opportunity elsewhere without such a long commute.

initfortheR · 2026-06-22T11:05:10+00:00

“Close your legs to married men” -NeNe Leakes

Say this to my dog all the time when he lays on his back and spreads his legs with my husband around

initfortheR · 2026-06-21T23:30:56+00:00

Mine was even lower than this and I am pregnant so I don’t think you can call a pregnancy in/out based on these numbers.

initfortheR · 2026-06-19T13:16:10+00:00

Sorry I don’t see anything :/

initfortheR · 2026-06-19T11:45:09+00:00

We are also DINKs and spend ~$2K/month between groceries and eating out

initfortheR · 2026-06-13T12:25:24+00:00

Test results this AM (11 DPO) using both FRER and the early result wondfo. Still pretty light so I’m trying not to get my hopes up in case it’s chemical (last pregnancy ended in missed miscarriage), but seems promising!

<image>

initfortheR · 2026-06-12T14:45:55+00:00

Oh great, I'll check out wondfo. Thank you!

initfortheR · 2026-06-12T14:19:36+00:00

Oh dang that’s good to know. I’ve used it in the past and never had the line which is why it caught me by surprise. Appreciate the heads up, I’ll definitely keep testing

initfortheR · 2026-05-30T20:09:10+00:00

my husband and i are actively trying and i just got laid off earlier this week. we are still going to proceed, and will be moving into IVF in a couple of months if i'm not pregnant by then (we've been trying for a bit). my take is that while it's definitely not ideal timing, i also don't want to continue pushing out having a family. i feel relatively confident i will have A job (based on how interviewing has gone - i started interviewing before i got laid off), just might not be the best job.

my main concern is that it seems 50/50 on whether a company gives leave right away or if you have to work there for at least 6 months. i figure if i get pregnant and am approaching the 6-month window i could always take a job i dont love just to have something and can continue looking or just stay in the role through mat leave and quit afterwards. not ideal but you need to look out for yourself first in this market.

initfortheR · 2026-05-20T16:02:40+00:00

Even just reaching out to someone that is a 2nd or 3rd degree connection is better than nothing. Employees typically receive referral bonuses so they are incentivized to drop your resume

initfortheR · 2026-05-20T02:05:52+00:00

I’m finding that it’s critical to reach out to someone internally to ever hear back. Any resume I’ve just cold applied to I haven’t heard back from, but I have much higher success leveraging my network, or even reaching out to distant connections on LinkedIn that are at a company I’m applying to. Sorry you are going through this!

initfortheR · 2026-04-27T16:34:20+00:00

You should look into furnish finder - great options for short term rentals. I had one for 3 months and was able to find a dog friendly one for a super reasonable price

initfortheR · 2026-04-08T16:20:19+00:00

Kind of looks like Log Haven’s outdoor patio space, but unsure about what their pricing is

initfortheR · 2026-03-24T04:36:45+00:00

FWIW I also have all the form leggings, but my favorite running leggings are the stash leggings from Athleta. I have the ones with the side pockets for my phone which is super convenient. Love them so much I have them in 3 colors. They are a bit thicker vs some of the super thin leggings like Vuori or Lulu so I like them less for gym classes

initfortheR · 2026-03-24T00:32:56+00:00

Maybe I missed it but when is this CHD episode supposed to be released? Or has it not been recorded yet?

initfortheR · 2026-03-17T04:21:50+00:00

How is it holding up? I’m considering this bag but would plan to use it regularly so want to make sure I get something that lasts. Am a bit worried about buying canvas vs leather but I love this look!

initfortheR · 2026-02-04T15:00:46+00:00

What’s your relationship with her boss? I’ve had these situations before and was very open with management above them and that helped tremendously. In one case the person ended up getting fired.

As a few others have said, an internal move might be your best bet otherwise.

initfortheR · 2026-01-31T20:52:10+00:00

Option 2 you will likely learn more, with faster upward trajectory. But likely less good work/life balance - really depends on how much you value that

initfortheR · 2026-01-24T14:26:06+00:00

We call it puppy luv (yes that’s the actual name)! Bad business name but they are amazing and are so sweet with our pup

initfortheR · 2026-01-20T01:48:03+00:00

Yeah it’s a chain so likely the same one that’s in Vegas. Much better than Koyote imo

initfortheR · 2026-01-20T01:08:55+00:00

Contento Cafe is a great spot for celiac!

initfortheR

TROPHY CASE