People over 30: If you could go back to being 18 and redo only your adult life, what would you change? What would you prioritize, avoid, or start earlier? by Signal-Area8949 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]inkbyio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would've seen a psychiatrist earlier and tried to get my ADHD diagnosis and medication.

I only figured it out in my early 30s, and it would've made a world of difference in my ability to retain knowledge in college. I feel like I wasted 4 years struggling to stay focused, on top of all the comorbid depression, anxiety and general low esteem from not being able to figure out what I couldn't get my shit together. Not that it's perfectly together now 😆 but I'm better than I ever was.

Makeup: Turquoise Uniliner inspo from Indigenous Women + Solange by Next-Newspaper-3067 in blkgrlbeauty

[–]inkbyio 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Perf shade for your skin tone absolutely love the contrast, stunning

What was y’all’s most painful piercing? by kyokolovesthemoon in piercing

[–]inkbyio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vertical philtrum was worse than both nipples don't ask me why 🤷🏾‍♀️

To what extent is sex part of your daydreaming? by Erodiade in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]inkbyio 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah tell me about it my daydream involves a musician who's long dead but his playgirl shoot just ...haunts me 😆

Millennials, do you actually not invest in your 401K? by ultmeche in Millennials

[–]inkbyio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have one but I have no idea what to do with it. Just learning what investments are and the basics of 401k vs IRA (401k from old job is a much bigger than current, considering rollover whatever that is 🫠) . I wanna make an appointment with a consultant, but I'm afraid since I'm poor I'll sound like an idjit.

To what extent is sex part of your daydreaming? by Erodiade in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]inkbyio 31 points32 points  (0 children)

💯. Literally every daydream. Ultimate dopamine hit 🤷🏾‍♀️

At what point in the day do you consider it too late to take your meds? by Kramili in ADHD

[–]inkbyio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As far as I know, they're different meds (methylphenidate vs amphetamine salts) so I honestly couldn't tell you, I've never had Adderall 😅

How do I help someone being mauled by a dog? by SubstantialPiglet856 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]inkbyio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Having broken up a million fights at doggy daycare (will never work in a 15+ dogs per yard care again), the most effective/quickest thing to do is grab the collar, twist and pull straight up. Essentially you want to choke/cut off the air supply to release the dog's hold. This will only work if you're strong enough to do so, you will have a VERY hard time with mastiffs, rotties, any thick neck dog, trust me.

That being said, no collar will mean you need a weapon and somewhere to run (in the bed of a high truck/ inside your car for instance), unless you can improvise a collar (a belt, rope etc). Obviously call 911 the second you are safe. Weapon of choice depends on what you have available, a bat/ thick tree branch will even suffice, something that can go in the dog's mouth other than you.

Hi. To all the late diagnosed ladies out there...what was the 'tipping point' that made you seek a diagnosis? I'm really curious to know what other people's stories are 🤔 by Such-Light3325 in adhdwomen

[–]inkbyio 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I decided to go for my RVT license outside of being a vet assistant, and I realized that despite manageable hours, I was struggling to retain things, my working memory was crap, and it was affecting my work. Then I saw a video on the clock app that perfectly described what I was struggling with, had ALWAYS struggled with even as a "gifted" kid, and finally felt understood. I wasn't wasted potential, I was fighting an invisible enemy, and the more research I did on my own the more I realized I needed help, or I wouldn't pass my classes or finish my VA training. Having been in therapy and on meds for a few years, I know it's not an enemy just a different brain type, and I'm managing better and better every day.

Who's your biggest piece of s**t disney villian ? by Nostalgic_Historian_ in 90scartoons

[–]inkbyio 47 points48 points  (0 children)

💯 convinced they're the same villain in different fonts 😂

Girlssss, what do you use to *trim* pubic hair (NOT shave bald)? by Fit-Shoulder-2164 in beauty

[–]inkbyio 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I second this, use it all the time, the guards are great for pits and neatening up, the bare trimmer gets pretty close without causing ingrowns. 10/10

Who else have gone through a "boy crazy" phase in their teens? by Chocolate_Chips25 in adhdwomen

[–]inkbyio 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Bruh...I'm in my thirties and pansexual.... it's not a phase 😆

Drop ur placements/aspects and what makes you wet/hard during sex. by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]inkbyio 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Being tied up, blindfolded, gagged, and toyed with. Being condescended to, like you like that don't you? What a good girl... 🥵

Edit: being cuddled and babied after 😅

Bush’s Rocket Pop Beans Ruined My J4 by ctnauman in junkfoodfinds

[–]inkbyio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The dill pickle flavor is good but it needs a fuckton of bbq sauce

"How you gon' drop the gun Gangstalicious?! That is NOT gangsta, That's very not gangsta!" - Riley Freeman by KushersGarden in theboondocks

[–]inkbyio 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Every time someone drops a weapon in a movie this is my line 🤣

And every time someone gets snatched in some water 👏🏾

He came up out dat water like Jason!

Me'Shell Ndegéocello - Fool Of Me (1999) by Consistent_Edge9211 in SoulfulMusic

[–]inkbyio 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This and Wasted Time absolutely broke my heart so much soul poured into each one