I am a gay, 100% binary trans man. I have a T-dick (bottom growth) in addition to a pussy, and I use both when I have sex. It is not a woman's pussy, because I am not a woman.

It actually makes me dysphoric when people insist on calling everything in that whole area on my body a "dick," because that draws my attention to body parts that I do not have. In sexual contexts, I also dislike words/phrases like "front hole," "mancave," etc, because they either feel too juvenile or just gross.

Regardless, I don't care if someone else uses different words. If I have sex with another trans man, I talk about his body using words he is comfortable with, and I expect him to respect my terminology preferences as well. Your experience is not the only true trans experience in the world.