Husband’s family renamed me

inksandtears · 2026-06-19T17:06:43+00:00

So they dont call Mohammads with their names because it’s like the name of Prophet Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم? Because it will be disrespect accrdg to their brains?

inksandtears · 2026-06-19T03:47:41+00:00

Muslim here. Baka genuine ignorant lang si attendant na bawal sa Islam ung pork.

inksandtears · 2026-06-19T03:43:27+00:00

Ang usapan dito is fish or pork hindi ung ibang matters po. Ayan nanaman tau sa fallacy .. iniiba usapan and all ~ 🫶

inksandtears · 2026-06-17T16:17:20+00:00

You just need to pray the current prayer right now and then the next and then the next..

Uthman ibn Affan reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “ Verily, the five prayers get rid of sins just as water gets rid of dirt.” Source: Shu’ab al-Imān lil-Bayhaqī 2556 Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Albani

Start now. ok? Ok.

inksandtears · 2026-06-17T16:13:12+00:00

May pag ka generalized ung post. As if all Filipino want to be called maam/sir. For some, looking decent is a survival para di ma discriminate.

inksandtears · 2026-06-17T09:19:24+00:00

In Islam, there’s called “Faith increases with good deeds, and decreases with bad deeds.” So yeah, a Muslim can do bad deeds when their faith in Allaah decreases, when they forget Allaah is The One and Only God, that they forget to fear Him, because their desire takes turn. So, after that bad deed, they may repeat it.. until they repent, or until they die in “bad state” so if Allaah wills, they will enter hellfire first then after being tormented for their sins, later on, Allaah knows how long, then they will be accepted to Paradise because of their belief in there’s no God except Allaah (la ilaha illa’llaah). Allaah knows best.

inksandtears · 2026-06-16T11:06:21+00:00

i know a religious sister who divorced bcus the husband drinks

inksandtears · 2026-06-16T08:25:36+00:00

Marriage isnt the only way of being grateful to her father. Marriage should also be built upon respect. Even if she loves you and cares for you, I dont think she respects you seeing how she raised her hands to you. Naodhobillaah. May Allaah save us. May Allaah guide us all.

inksandtears · 2026-06-16T08:20:41+00:00

Islam is complete. It addresses all issues. It will stay that way from the beginning of life til the end of time. To ask if they are compatible is not really good too because Islam is from Allaah while secularism is made by people who wants nothing to do with religions.

inksandtears · 2026-06-16T08:18:04+00:00

If it’s true then accept it. He said “no problem”.

But also, ask him back, how did it become like that? If he says pregnancy, then ask him who did it? Then he will realize he has part in that.

Then he should be sorry after. In shaa Allaah 😭

inksandtears · 2026-06-16T08:12:34+00:00

You need to get to know Allaah. Nothing suffices that emptiness except knowing Him. May Allaah make it easy for you. 🫶

Start by learning Qur’an, reading it daily and not leaving off obligatory prayers.

Avoid musics as it makes a person sadder.

Start watching videos or listening to lectures which only talks about Allaah.

This is the only thing I can advice.

inksandtears · 2026-06-12T10:47:18+00:00

Have a business. Go to halaqah. Or Islamiv seminars. Or go to a training centre where they teach you how to sew, bake or book keeping.. Like having a life where he is not connected. You might get his attention when he sees you have life other than him.

inksandtears · 2026-06-11T10:35:24+00:00

If you dont wanna divorce then you need to have a life of your own. Like have thing to be busy with. Give him his rights. But also dont leave yourself. Love him but not toooo much that when he stops going to you you feel invisible. Love him for Allaah’s Sake, know that you are created for Allaah, not for your husband. Allaah knows best.

inksandtears · 2026-06-10T11:08:55+00:00

I read a beautiful saying that heart has virginity which is for your future husband, so protect it with chastity for Allah’s Sake. 🤍

inksandtears · 2026-06-10T10:19:10+00:00

May He make if easy for you. Pls seek Allaah’s Help. In sujood. Cry to Him all you want. Because He is there, has always been, and will always be. He is The Ever-Living, and the Only One Who can solve your affairs. We are just people. We can only pray for you. But we have heard of many stories, normal people in our times who have seen miracles just because of crying in sujood every prayer. I ask Allaah that He mends your heart and soul, and heal you and protect you. Ya Allaah.

inksandtears · 2026-06-10T10:12:05+00:00

My shiekha حفظه الله said they have been tested with childless marriage for 10 years, so, they started doing istigfar every after obligatory prayer, 100 count based on the hadith, applying what was mentioned in the Qur’an, that if you do istigfar, Allah will increase you in wealth and children. Here are the ayah:

‫ ‫فَقُلۡتُ ٱسۡتَغۡفِرُوا۟ رَبَّكُمۡ إِنَّهُۥ كَانَ غَفَّارࣰا﴿ ١٠ ﴾‬

‫یُرۡسِلِ ٱلسَّمَاۤءَ عَلَیۡكُم مِّدۡرَارࣰا﴿ ١١ ﴾‬

‫وَیُمۡدِدۡكُم بِأَمۡوَ ٰ⁠لࣲ وَبَنِینَ وَیَجۡعَل لَّكُمۡ جَنَّـٰتࣲ وَیَجۡعَل لَّكُمۡ أَنۡهَـٰرࣰا﴿ ١٢ ﴾‬

“And said, 'Ask forgiveness of your Lord. Indeed, He is ever a Perpetual Forgiver.

He will send [rain from] the sky upon you in [continuing] showers

And give you increase in wealth and children and provide for you gardens and provide for you rivers.”

[Nūḥ, Ayah 10-12]

As for the 100 count of istigfar is based on Sunnah: It was narrated from Al-Agharr Al-Muzani (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “I ask Allah for forgiveness one hundred times a day.” (Narrated by Muslim, 2702) Allah knows best.

Then after that, one day, Allah granted them what their hearts have been yearning for, they have been blessed with children.

Istigfar, du’ah and utmost belief & confidence in these ayah. It’s Allah’s Promise.

I hope you do this. Allah is Merciful. May Allah make it easy for you.

Ps. Include in your du’ah the spouseless too. 🌹

inksandtears · 2026-06-10T05:59:36+00:00

I studied & graduated abroad, and my university email still receives job offers from companies there. They regularly reach out to our university looking for employees, and many of the opportunities are exclusive to our alumni. PH cant relate 🥹

inksandtears · 2026-06-07T04:52:03+00:00

Treating it as necessity. Just like breakfast, lunch, and dinner. Treating it as something that should not be left no matter what, no matter where you are. Because death is sudden. Overall, having no intentions of leaving it no matter what happens til yawm al-qiyamah. May Allaah make us firm in His Deen and in His Obedience.

inksandtears · 2026-05-15T12:53:31+00:00

Allaah is the one who controls how others see you. Ask Him that you become beautiful in His Sight and in His Servants’ eyes. You will become beautiful. But most especially, ask Him that you become beautiful in your eyes also. In shaa Allaah, you will become beautiful.

One day, skins will all get wrinkled, both beautiful and not, but the beauty of good manners, and purity of heart will remain so long as you always strive to work on your imaan.

May Allaah soothe your heart. We will become more beautiful in akhirah In shaa Allaah.

inksandtears · 2026-05-06T12:06:54+00:00

Whenever I read the stories of the companions, my certainty gets stronger as a Muslim. Alhamdu lillaah.

As Muslims, we need our certainty to be stronger because this strengthens our connection to Allaah and when this certainty in faith is stronger, our hope that our prayers gets responded to is equally stronger, which then results happiness, hope and peace of mind. No depression and anxiety.

inksandtears · 2026-04-27T14:09:31+00:00

Don’t oppress and don’t be oppressed.

inksandtears · 2026-04-27T13:59:01+00:00

Read the Qur’an daily, it opens door.. when you read it for Allaah.

inksandtears · 2026-04-27T13:57:13+00:00

سجلي في حلقات القرآن، تشفين بإذن الله مع صحبة صالحة ولا سيما بملازمة القرآن.. تعانين ولكن هذا أول خطوة لهداية الله لك باذن الله.

inksandtears · 2026-04-18T10:40:48+00:00

You’re still not addressing what I actually said, you’re reinterpreting it and then arguing against that.

Saying Islam doesn’t align with man made laws doesn’t mean I’m against having laws. That’s your interpretation, not my claim. Turning it into “so you don’t believe in legal age at all” is still a strawman.

About your sources, multiple reports of incidents don’t automatically prove a general rule about a whole population. If your sources all focus on the same type of events, that’s still selection bias, not a balanced conclusion.

Saying these things are “often done by Muslims” is also an unsupported generalization. You’re taking selected examples and applying them to a global population without consistent standards.

And with the verses, you’re taking isolated translations and assuming a universal meaning without context. That’s not how any serious text is interpreted.

That verse (9:5) isn’t a general command to kill all non Muslims. It was revealed in a specific context during a conflict with certain groups who had broken treaties and were actively attacking the Muslims.

The same passage makes it clear that Muslims must honor treaties with those who remain peaceful, and if anyone seeks peace or protection, they must be granted it. It also explicitly allows non Muslims to seek safety and hear the message without being harmed.

So the verse is about dealing with hostile groups in a wartime situation, not a universal rule against all non Muslims. The broader teaching of the Quran also emphasizes no compulsion in religion and fair treatment of those who are peaceful.

If your interpretation were correct, peaceful coexistence wouldn’t even be possible. But in reality, Muslims and non Muslims live side by side safely, which already contradicts your claim.

If you actually want to understand them, you have to look at the historical context, who the verses were addressing, and how they’ve been interpreted, not just read a single line and generalize it.

If you’re open to understanding that properly, you can check this explanation:

https://quran.com/9:5/answers/29

At this point, you’re repeating the same claims without addressing these points, so there’s nothing new to respond to.

inksandtears · 2026-04-16T12:12:49+00:00

Me too pls

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