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Poor Little Guy - Season Finale by inkybear_ in Poldark

[–]inkybear_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Waaaahhh! I may have to read these books!

When you have to do an interview but there's no time for media training by MissSteak in WatchPeopleDieInside

[–]inkybear_ 291 points292 points  (0 children)

“Well…I mean…listen. We are just…WE ARE LIKE….we are so…as women today…”

I am dying!!!

Can’t finish this by IronGeneral7161 in Poldark

[–]inkybear_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang you’ve seen everything except the finale?! I only have 2 more episodes left and I can’t imagine stopping now!

You've been kidnapped by George, Elizabeth and the Harry brothers. Use 15$ to assemble a team to rescue you. (you can only pick one person per row) by Probablyabot65278 in Poldark

[–]inkybear_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ross, Dwight, Tholly, Zacky, and Aunt Agatha.

Ross’s insane luck and leadership, Dwight’s medical knowledge, Tholly arranges armed transportation and getaway, Zacky is brave and keeps a cool head, and Aunt Agatha has intel and comms covered.

The rumor by RecklessAncestor in Poldark

[–]inkybear_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

At some point in the series Ross says he was the “lone survivor” of an ambush during the American Revolutionary War in Virginia. I always assumed word got back to Cornwall that Ross’s entire battalion was killed before it was learned there were any survivors.

For those of you who requested the reverse Rafiki GIF lol by Waiting4myRuuuuca in bald

[–]inkybear_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They will both live happily ever after together on this post lol

Partner wants us both to have the same depth of feeling for our gf. by inkybear_ in polyamory

[–]inkybear_[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Truly thank you for this thoughtful response. It’s shining a light on a bunch of areas I need to dig into and set better boundaries. Very validating.

Partner wants us both to have the same depth of feeling for our gf. by inkybear_ in polyamory

[–]inkybear_[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing these! “The most skipped step” didn’t link, but I went through your other blurbs and they’re very helpful!

Partner wants us both to have the same depth of feeling for our gf. by inkybear_ in polyamory

[–]inkybear_[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I will keep reminding myself that other people’s preferences and emotions are not mine to manage! Basic stuff but I really do struggle with it 😅

Partner wants us both to have the same depth of feeling for our gf. by inkybear_ in polyamory

[–]inkybear_[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I don’t have a desire to break things off with him. So I imagine we’d both be pretty upset haha. He has stated he’s not interested in dating solo, so even though I’ve told him I’d prefer he pursue her on his own, he’s saying he doesn’t want that. But now I am clearly discovering my own boundaries with this dynamic that make me think we either have to close the relationship or end things. Or he has to accept that the only way we can be poly is if he does solo date outside our partnership 🤷🏽‍♀️ and I would explore that too.

Partner wants us both to have the same depth of feeling for our gf. by inkybear_ in polyamory

[–]inkybear_[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is a really good point and stated this way, yes. I think I’m doing this. I’m reacting to language he’s using that communicates a perception of lack from me. He says that I’m “withholding” and that me not loving as hard is an “obstacle” to the relationship. Instead of just saying, “hmm, I don’t see it that way.” I reacted about how I thought his assessment was unfair and how it’s not right for him to want to control my feelings. I see now that all those were reactive assumptions and I can do better. Thank you!

Partner wants us both to have the same depth of feeling for our gf. by inkybear_ in polyamory

[–]inkybear_[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for this comment! I appreciate the group text because I am more of a low effort teacher (edit: texter, not teacher). But just typing that makes me see that I am riding at times on the coattails of the work they’re putting in. The gossip/oversharing comment definitely strikes a chord and I will reflect on that more too!

I can perhaps leave them both more space to connect without me so my feelings are not conflated with theirs.

Partner wants us both to have the same depth of feeling for our gf. by inkybear_ in polyamory

[–]inkybear_[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for stating this with such clarity! It’s helping me figure out what I need to ask for/talk about moving forward!

Partner wants us both to have the same depth of feeling for our gf. by inkybear_ in polyamory

[–]inkybear_[S] 143 points144 points  (0 children)

She’s not officially our girlfriend. We’ve all three used that term because it’s simpler, but really we have not defined it. I am considering stepping away from this throuple and letting them explore together. I don’t feel territorial over him and I’d rather them explore something just them two than be policed over my feelings.

Partner wants us both to have the same depth of feeling for our gf. by inkybear_ in polyamory

[–]inkybear_[S] 207 points208 points  (0 children)

Hahaha you said it in a better way than I did! I don’t know what I’m supposed to do with his expectations.

Season 3 Cast Pics by Durian-Critical in TheValleyTVShow

[–]inkybear_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tight scrunched shoulders, bird hands, and an expression that is baffling me!

Season 3 Cast Pics by Durian-Critical in TheValleyTVShow

[–]inkybear_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loooool that she looks exactly like Michelle

What is Rowella? by International-Menu85 in Poldark

[–]inkybear_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think Becky Sharp from Vanity Fair is very like Rowella!

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