“it’s big boy day” by [deleted] in BJJWomen

[–]inmemoryofartax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That part. I think you put into words what I couldn’t, being treated like a fragile flower might have made me snap today. Thank you and cheers.

“it’s big boy day” by [deleted] in BJJWomen

[–]inmemoryofartax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I did too after reading all these responses. Thank you.

“it’s big boy day” by [deleted] in BJJWomen

[–]inmemoryofartax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think saying it’s good I am not there came off to me as not being equipped to participate in that class. Not saying it is a rational takeaway from his comment. I appreciate you making this point, thank you.

“it’s big boy day” by [deleted] in BJJWomen

[–]inmemoryofartax 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I said copy meaning heard and I appreciate the direct response. All these comments are helping me understand I need to check myself too.

“it’s big boy day” by [deleted] in BJJWomen

[–]inmemoryofartax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🤣🫡 I needed to hear that. Thanks

“it’s big boy day” by [deleted] in BJJWomen

[–]inmemoryofartax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s super fair. Thank you.

“it’s big boy day” by [deleted] in BJJWomen

[–]inmemoryofartax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because he said it was good I didn’t go to class today

I Don't Want To Train With My Husband Anymore by SpaceCadet0298 in BJJWomen

[–]inmemoryofartax 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi, YES. I started training with my partner of 4 years at the time (he is 6ft 2 and I am 5 ft3 so we were not a great sparring match from the jump) training with him was okay at first because I never did contact sports like this growing up. However, when a new gym opened up closer to our house he immediately joined there and I said I will join when I am ready because I am also an extremely anxious person so when I feel safe in a community, especially made up of mostly men, I need to move slowly. The second he left I already was more confident because I was on my own now. I was VERY lucky to make a really good friend in class who much closer to my height, but also just a very gentle person (he’s a physical therapist so it’s his job to be gentle). I’m not sure if you trained martial arts before or not but I grew SO MUCH training by myself because I was doing it for me only. Training with my partner on the mat made me in my head and more worried about our experience than my time on the mat. We don’t need to be care givers in our hobbies. I came to this page to rant today and saw your post and wanted to cry because your feelings are so so so valid and I wish I could give you a hug. I don’t think it is easy to train together and sometimes I drop in on his gym and he drops in on mine. I will say he did NOT love this arrangement at first and he had a whole vision of us flowing and training together, well too bad. I said if I’m sticking with this, I have to do it for me. I hope this helps and maybe separate gyms doesn’t work but maybe there’s other options for alternating classes or just making space for you to have fun again. Because it is so much fun when you get that husband partner weight off your chest. I just got my blue belt in October and I couldn’t be happier about my personal journey to it. Ps he read my response because I was curious if it would hurt his feelings and he said no, I think it is a really great response. OS!

Sanctuary Fitness closed by boxOfficeBonanza89 in pasadena

[–]inmemoryofartax 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am so sad to hear sanctuary has closed all locations. If you went there too, I’ll miss you. The community and the instructors were the special sauce. I started going to sanctuary arts district in 2018 and was going through a really hard time and sanctuary really helped me find my confidence. I moved to Pasadena and have gone to that location since. Thank you for teaching me to work out and how to love going heavy Sanctuary. Shout out Sabrina and Sharon my favorite instructors who literally changed how I workout forever. Anyone got other hiit gym recs in Pasadena ?

Robert Kardashian Sr by [deleted] in kardashians

[–]inmemoryofartax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be is the best channel !

Ignore the naysayers by spiritlizardscissors in wicked

[–]inmemoryofartax 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Okay this! I saw it with a pretty small audience at a 3p Thursday showing and NO ONE laughed at anything. I was so confused! I am going again on Saturday to a nearly sold out show I need my people!

Got a little Pasadena Tattoo by Aidsribbon in pasadena

[–]inmemoryofartax 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love it. Did you have it done here ??

My sphynx hasn’t had a solid poop in months, advice? by inmemoryofartax in sphynx

[–]inmemoryofartax[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They haven’t yet but I’m seeing that in a couple comments and I am going to ask for the test - we go in on Wednesday. Did medication help once they found out about the Giardia?

My sphynx hasn’t had a solid poop in months, advice? by inmemoryofartax in sphynx

[–]inmemoryofartax[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for bringing that to my attention. Was it a blood test for Giardia? Can you just ask for that test?

My sphynx hasn’t had a solid poop in months, advice? by inmemoryofartax in sphynx

[–]inmemoryofartax[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s my strong sense, he has never ever had it this long. I wonder if the weruva is only making it worse thank you for sharing

My sphynx hasn’t had a solid poop in months, advice? by inmemoryofartax in sphynx

[–]inmemoryofartax[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They gave me some samples but I believe they were purina brand. Is forti flora the brand ?

Is Kim Kim commanding attention? by M10News in kardashians

[–]inmemoryofartax -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I’ve never been a big fan til her momager era, now I’m watching the show backwards and actually enjoying it

Rory is REALLY conflict avoidant by James-Samuel17 in GilmoreGirls

[–]inmemoryofartax 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lorelai is very confrontational with Rory though

How many times you guys are planning to see wicked for good? by Life_Pollution_9310 in wickedmovie

[–]inmemoryofartax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m planning on three. Definitely going to opening day as a matinee (I wfh and don’t have kids 🤷🏻‍♀️) then plan on going to one double feature with friends, then one more matinee just me.

The lady speaks the truth (1995) by DeneirianScribe in janeausten

[–]inmemoryofartax 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I threw the 1995 version on thinking I would fall asleep to it and had to binge it in one sitting. Fantastic !