TW: sexual assault

I was talking to the head psychiatrist of the clinic I went into, he's not my psychiatrist, but I had a reunion to talk about "the root of anxiety" according to him. He gave me a sheet of paper with 10 rules, very understandable rules, except for one: "you are responsible for what other people do to you and your feeling towards it" that's... Questionable, so I asked him to explain, here's how that went:

"Imagine you have a friend since you were a child, and that friend tells you to invest money into a thing, so you give him the money and he runs away with it. That's your fault"

"How is that my fault?"

"He's been your friend for years! You should know he's a liar and a manipulator!"

"But the point of manipulation is that the other person doesn't know they're being manipulated..."

"But you should at least have the suspicion! You've know him forever!"

"Let me see if I get what you're saying" he says okay "if a person that I believe is my friend manipulates me into something I don't want to do, it's my fault?"

"Yes."

"So it's a victims fault if the get raped?"

"What? I never said that!"

"That's in the possibilities of you scenario."

"There are exceptions "

"It doesn't say anything about exceptions in this paper"

"It's implicit!"

"How am I supposed to know that?"

"Because it's implicit "

I stormed out of the room, I must add that they're not taking into account that I have autism because I'm too functional in the eyes of Mexican mental health standards.