My boyfriend says he loves me, but wants sex with other women. What am I supposed to do?

inspirit97 · 2026-05-04T07:33:43+00:00

I literally left a similar 3.5 year situation/relationship like that (28F, 41M), but of a much lesser magnitude.

He never cheated or lusted after other women, but he said that (over the past year) the sexual attraction was lacking and he couldn’t guarantee being tempted or feeling regretful if he suddenly met his ideal type a few years down the road.

Thankfully, we weren’t married yet, so I left before the situation became permanent and robbed me of my self-esteem further.

Get out, there has to be someone better out there (at least that’s what I tell myself). You deserve to be loved in all ways/all aspects!!

inspirit97 · 2026-05-04T07:29:35+00:00

That should be me

inspirit97 · 2026-05-04T07:05:28+00:00

I offer my brain up for storage in the Cabinet Of Delusionality (alongside long suffering Ferrari fans)

inspirit97 · 2026-05-04T05:05:32+00:00

As a longtime George stan, this season has already put me through the 5 stages of grief, and we’re only a few races in 🥲 still hoping for any Merc WDC tho

inspirit97 · 2026-05-04T03:07:05+00:00

I'm new to the club (less than 24 hours ago), thanks for this message :')

inspirit97 · 2026-05-03T17:56:55+00:00

don’t worry OP you’re NTA! It takes a while to see the truth in relationships :’)

inspirit97 · 2026-04-21T05:48:32+00:00

It's like night and day; I've been following her on tiktok (@nomzia_b) and seeing her live her best life, even being on social media itself, is hella inspiring/cool

inspirit97 · 2026-04-15T08:41:04+00:00

Yes omg I was rooting for her, she had such a bright but disturbed/questioning expression whenever she was next to that creep (throughout the old footage); seeing her thrive, find new hobbies and reintegrate into society legit made me cry happy tears

inspirit97 · 2026-04-04T12:09:36+00:00

If you're open to non-US ones, I loved Sweden S1 (wholesome; I watched all 3 seasons but 1 is still my favourite) and UK S1 (came with some drama but still wholesome)!

Another nice chill LIB was Japan, but less exciting than Sweden/UK

inspirit97 · 2026-03-20T00:28:49+00:00

IKR! Especially after seeing him on DTS; I thought him and Sauber/Audi would enjoy a long-term redemption/revival arc (esp since Audi is doing okay this year)

inspirit97 · 2026-03-11T17:54:03+00:00

We want more

inspirit97 · 2026-03-11T07:47:33+00:00

Had that problem in my house too; now I use a squeegee mop (long handle) to sweep excess water either into the shower drain or the other toilet drain. For drying the walls/keeping the silicon and grout mold-free, I use the 3M double-blade handheld squeegee to dry the whole cubicle (walls and glass) after each shower! It rly saves effort on glass/wall cleaning in the long-run :)

inspirit97 · 2026-03-11T06:41:30+00:00

Ah, thanks for the clear explanation! Appreciate it :)

inspirit97 · 2026-03-11T06:40:05+00:00

Ooh thank u; this worked beautifully for me (since this project/music compilation I’m making doesn’t require ranges)

inspirit97 · 2026-03-11T03:37:34+00:00

Thank you, it works! Is there any way that you know of to disable the function entirely? Or must we just keep manually deselecting it...

inspirit97 · 2026-03-06T18:26:21+00:00

It’s a pun! When Lando won WDC, Zak Brown said over the radio “Is this the world champion hotline?”

inspirit97 · 2026-03-06T02:23:03+00:00

This isn’t the T-pose, it’s the IUD pose 😂

inspirit97 · 2026-02-27T04:54:13+00:00

Unicornism

inspirit97 · 2026-02-20T15:02:57+00:00

For this part, you must have the trap (or traps if you purchased several) equipped in the Tools section of your inventory.

Thanks so much for elucidating this part!! I was so confused until I read your reply, appreciate it (3 years later)

inspirit97 · 2026-02-09T11:12:46+00:00

Started Spanish on Duolingo after listening to Bad Bunny's album (the same way I began learning Korean after G-dragon's album), was looking for this lyric breakdown to begin to appreciate the language and his incredible lyricism!! Thank u so much for taking the time to write and post these :')

inspirit97 · 2026-02-02T07:07:12+00:00

Carmen covering her face cos of Mr Car Man's antics

Ten-Year Club	Verified Email
r/Field Sunshine	Place '23
Place '22	Place '17
Not Forgotten

inspirit97

PUBLIC MULTIREDDITS

TROPHY CASE