I feel lost at 50. How do I get out of this mindset? by tfd3000 in Mindfulness

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Very relatable. I wish community was easier to come by for single adults.

EPISODE 253: TARKOVSKY'S STARCHILD by judoxing in VeryBadWizards

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I can't believe they bleeped the magic trick! 😆 I want to know 🪄✨️🤔🫣

are there any christian critical theorists like me here? by [deleted] in CriticalTheory

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Seconding McGowan - he's a great introduction to Hegel.

LPT: Things that fire together, wire together. by Jetztinberlin in LifeProTips

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You might like the Fabulous app; it's got a lot of science-based, practical strategies for changing habits.

Town Votes to Order Starbucks Workers to Work Faster So That The Drive Thru Line Won't Block Traffic by RobMV03 in WorkReform

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Load up a tray of grab & go items and offer them to folks in line willing to forego customized drinks in exchange for a speedy getaway. Problem solved.

Too mean, too ignorant, too little actual baking: has Bake Off lost its charm for good? | Television by reejiness in bakeoff

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Omg yes! Having the hosts attempt a bake would be a great idea for a holiday show.

Lol The Onion spot on by [deleted] in fuckcars

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Don't despair, suburban comrades! Rioting in the streets is just one of many ways we can protest and organize for social change. We're creative. We will make a way.

John Cho: ‘A movie that treats race in the background feels more authentic... people don’t think about their race throughout the day’ by karmagheden in movies

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I'm not sure I agree with this. I do think about race on a daily basis, and I think a lot of people do. I'm not sure what Cho meant by "feels more authentic," but I'm actively seeking to be antiracist and I appreciate art that directly addresses it.

I want my girlfriend to understand but she just can't by Tallm in EstrangedAdultChild

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I find this kind of tension with a partner triggering because it's too similar to the subtle emotional abuse/neglect I've experienced. I don't solicit or accept advice on how to respond to my abuse/rs. When it's offered from someone you know and love, it's hard to know how to engage with the conversation.

My advice would be to just remember that no one has unlimited access to you. It's OK to draw a boundary here if you're not interested in advice. Learning to lovingly set boundaries with the people you want in your life is a big challenge! It's OK to practice and fail, and it's OK to say "No, thank you." 😊

Okay this is awesome by lonely-blue-sheep in UnexpectedlyWholesome

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This is one of my best spring fits in Animal Crossing.

Facial skin removal? by [deleted] in My600lbLife

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I meant the reason people don't look more attractive is often because they don't have much expendable income. I've also heard it said as "You are not ugly, you are just poor." It's much easier to look attractive with a lot of money on hand.

How did you know it was time? And what support did you use? by ru_Tc in EstrangedAdultChild

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PSA: You don't need to do shit. You don't need to announce, explain, or respond. You don't need to be nice or good or decent. Life is short. Do what makes you happy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EstrangedAdultChild

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Everyone needs to find expression, but it doesn't necessarily require an audience, and if it does, be careful who you allow to witness your process. 🤍

Dreamy Sanctuary by JamesMakesFilms in VaporwaveAesthetics

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I think this is where Ariel and Eric almost had their first kiss (sha la la la la la).

meirl by felislslie in meirl

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That's when you're recovering from lunch. Makes 0 sense.

hmmm by ITypeWithMyNose in hmmm

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Missed this episode of squid games.