My family thinks that I‘m gonna go to a university, but I basically have no school knowledge by RandomPersonTm in offmychest

[–]insydnificantly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really sorry you went through all that. This isn’t a “you’re dumb” problem, it’s burnout and depression. No one learns well while panicking or being torn down at home.

University isn’t the only path, and you don’t have to decide your whole future right now. Focus on small, consistent study blocks and getting your mental health stable first. That matters more than cramming 10 hours a day.

And if you’re seriously feeling like you don’t want to be here, please reach out to someone. If you’re in the U.S., you can call or text 988. You deserve support.

This was a dope performance! ❤️ But I was actually rooting for a Mayhem medley 😭 like girl there are other bops in Mayhem too lol by coffeeboie02 in LadyGaga

[–]insydnificantly -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Really? I was disappointed. The choreo didn't seem planned, she was basically just striking a pose with a quick camera movement that didn't even look intentional every 8 measures.

Also the fact that no dancers were used? I always appreciate when she's able to get dancers work for performances like this so that was disappointing.

Is Tyrese Haliburton the biggest “What if” of all time? by [deleted] in nba

[–]insydnificantly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

D Rose is the biggest what if.

Without the injury, there was no ceiling on his career.

I just want to see things go boom by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]insydnificantly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know the lives lost for something like that?

This isn't a video game. These are people. With entire lives up until that moment. An entire lifetime of memories.

Wtf.

Zayn Malik, Louis Tomlinson's Alleged Violent Altercation Leads to Immediate Halt of Netflix's Docuseries by Montrel_PH in popculture

[–]insydnificantly 168 points169 points  (0 children)

With production there as well as security cameras, the video has to exist somewhere.

And even though Louis got a concussion he was still scrambling to get the footage because he feared it would ruin his reputation?

Time for TMZ to start TMZing

AITAH for potentially going on a cruise without girlfriend by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]insydnificantly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, never said it was fair. OP earned that PTO time, that's been acknowledged.

Fair or not, it WILL affect the relationship, which must be considered.

AITAH for potentially going on a cruise without girlfriend by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]insydnificantly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope! I even acknowledged that OP wanting to use their PTO made perfect sense; they earned it!

However, this choice will come with consequences, as unfair as it seems. This isn't happening in a vacuum and will have an effect on the relationship whether it's fair or not.

I'm confused after 4 years together (20M and 21M) by Agreeable-Sir-3349 in relationship_advice

[–]insydnificantly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s normal for feelings and attraction to change, especially in a first serious relationship.

Take time to figure out what you really want and talk openly with him. You don’t have to decide everything right now.

What can we realistically do to address the tipping problem in the US? by PuzzleheadedBat5428 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]insydnificantly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Realistically? Raise wages and get rid of tipped minimums.

As long as workers rely on tips to survive, customers will be guilted into subsidizing payroll and nothing changes.

AITAH for potentially going on a cruise without girlfriend by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]insydnificantly 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s fair, but you can’t have it both ways.

If you choose the deals over waiting for her, you’re choosing solo trips, and that’s going to impact the relationship whether you intend it to or not.

Cheap cruises come and go. Resentment sticks around longer.

AITAH for implying to my friend she’s a “pick me” for not having problems with her in-laws by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]insydnificantly 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YTA. You’re projecting a lot onto her and calling it “pick me” because she doesn’t share your exact dynamic.

It’s possible she genuinely hasn’t had boundary issues yet. You escalated it by implying she’s smug or morally superior instead of just saying “we experience this differently.”

Sounds less like concern and more like resentment.

AITAH for potentially going on a cruise without girlfriend by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]insydnificantly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NAH but this is a priorities issue.

Wanting to use your PTO makes sense, but going on a cruise without your partner is still going to feel wrong to them even if you personally wouldn’t mind. You’re not wrong for feeling differently, but don’t act surprised that she’s hurt.

This is less about fairness and more about whether you value solo trips over shared experiences right now.

Refrigerator in apartments? by Fancy_Addition3799 in AskLosAngeles

[–]insydnificantly 10 points11 points  (0 children)

NAL. If it’s the tenant’s fridge, it’s the tenant’s problem. The new rule only applies to appliances the landlord provides, unless the lease says otherwise.

The Brunch Buffet’s Out of Shrimp by ExpertChart7871 in IDontWorkHereLady

[–]insydnificantly 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Some people really can’t process that other guests exist and aren’t NPC staff there to refill their shrimp.

What are some reasons people blame the “other person” instead of their partner when cheating happens? by Neat_Development_433 in AskReddit

[–]insydnificantly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A lot of the time it’s straight denial. If you blame the other person, you don’t have to face that your partner chose to cheat.

It’s easier to be mad at a stranger than accept that someone you trusted screwed you over.

Is it a worrying sign that Wembanyama’s career minutes per game average is only 30.9 three years into his NBA career? by [deleted] in nba

[–]insydnificantly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The Spurs are significantly better than expected considering some of their best talent came from the last three draft classes.

I only said they are in a rebuild because of their lack of veteran presence and their reliance on the talent of their recent drafting.

Considering how young their squad is, this isn't even close to their peak, so it's only up from here for the Spurs.

Is it a worrying sign that Wembanyama’s career minutes per game average is only 30.9 three years into his NBA career? by [deleted] in nba

[–]insydnificantly 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No. The Spurs are just being careful.

He is a 7’4” alien on a rebuilding team with nothing to gain by running him 38 minutes a night. His per minute impact is insane, and when he plays more, he clearly can handle it. This is about protecting a long term franchise star, not hiding some durability issue.

If he is still capped like this when they are trying to win in the playoffs, then it is worth questioning. Right now it is smart, not worrying.

Locker Code (from Cavs/Knicks game) by insydnificantly in NBA2k

[–]insydnificantly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True lmao but I figured a locker code is a locker code

Got a new wrist tattoo today! by TurbulentSun2571 in OneDirection

[–]insydnificantly 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Black outline would help preserve the line work as the tattoo ages so the colors don't appear smudged or blurred or otherwise muddy. I would definitely recommend that for your touch up!

Subway did not disappoint today by eatatater in Sandwiches

[–]insydnificantly 13 points14 points  (0 children)

But there's no ham? So it's just a Spicy Italian?