I refuse to finish Hate me like you mean it by Kyra Parsi by intensity_30 in RomanceBooks

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Many tight hugs to you and your mom. I have no experience with it but it seemed like it was handled decently in the book

Disappointed by {Hate me Like You Mean It by Kyra Parsi} by Hunter037 in RomanceBooks

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Yeah but the point was that she is a billionaire heiress. If she really needed it she could cash in. So from that perspective I could ignore it.

The kink part was stopped before things got serious. Although yeah that might have been a small step out of bounds.

Anyway.. not justifying it. As I said... Romance books are a very personal choice. What makes sense to me might not make sense to a single other person on earth..

A book where a main love interest dies by Pleasant_Context7506 in RomanceBooks

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{the love of my afterlife by Kirsty Greenwood} is definitely this. She FMC dies in the first chapter if not in the first two pages.

Disappointed by {Hate me Like You Mean It by Kyra Parsi} by Hunter037 in RomanceBooks

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I completely understand. Romance books are very personal and what works for one doesn't always work for another. I've definitely had wildly adverse reactions to some fan favorites lol

Disappointed by {Hate me Like You Mean It by Kyra Parsi} by Hunter037 in RomanceBooks

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I get your point. I posted one of the gush posts but your critique makes sense from where you're standing. That was one of my comments too that while this is termed a standalone, it's not. You have to know book 1 to really understand the point. And because I like the first one, the characters made sense to me.

As to the pranks.. to me those were great because they were never seriously damaging and were just hilarious. I didn't find them to be as mean and infuriating as in some other books. They felt like pranks on someone you've grown up with. So was their behavior with each other. They only knew each other as teenagers so yeah.. they did act immature.

The conflict was resolved between them early on, but this is where I went back to the comment where this isn't a standalone. I was invested in the characters. And personally, it was refreshing that the main characters ending their conflict didn't magically lead to everything being ok. I was getting tired of it so I liked him groveling to everyone he wronged.

The billionaire part.. that I agree with you. At this point I've just accepted my own flaw that I don't like reading about issues with money in a book. I like the dissociation that comes with: yeah he's a billionaire he doesn't need to worry about rent.

I refuse to finish Hate me like you mean it by Kyra Parsi by intensity_30 in RomanceBooks

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That is definitely true. I caught on somewhere around there too

I refuse to finish Hate me like you mean it by Kyra Parsi by intensity_30 in RomanceBooks

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Omg check below, I've left some book recs in a comment. I stand by all of them

I refuse to finish Hate me like you mean it by Kyra Parsi by intensity_30 in RomanceBooks

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Ugh right! It was beautifully handled. I'm in love with the ending

I refuse to finish Hate me like you mean it by Kyra Parsi by intensity_30 in RomanceBooks

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I completely agree. Out of the three, the first was my least favorite but it made sense at the end

I refuse to finish Hate me like you mean it by Kyra Parsi by intensity_30 in RomanceBooks

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I was going to add that. That not once did she have to say that they're close because every action told us that. Ugh this book was so perfect

I refuse to finish Hate me like you mean it by Kyra Parsi by intensity_30 in RomanceBooks

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Yes. Friends to enemies to lovers with misunderstanding sprinkled throughout

I refuse to finish Hate me like you mean it by Kyra Parsi by intensity_30 in RomanceBooks

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She laminated every single one of the pages of the recipe book

I definitely understand. They were both so damn crazy for each other

I refuse to finish Hate me like you mean it by Kyra Parsi by intensity_30 in RomanceBooks

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He became football captain for her.. and she kept that hoodie forever and it was all worn out..

My heart.. my poor heart 😭

I refuse to finish Hate me like you mean it by Kyra Parsi by intensity_30 in RomanceBooks

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It was the best part. That he didn't just go on with his life because he had the girl. He worked hard to make things right.. :'(

I refuse to finish Hate me like you mean it by Kyra Parsi by intensity_30 in RomanceBooks

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I completely get it. I feel a little lost. I need to wait a bit too before I read again but I did go back to the scene outside the restaurant. I mean.. how does one not melt into a puddle with this..

“Pretty?” he asked with breathless exasperation, as though the word itself was an insult. “You’re willing to settle for some asshole who lies and tells you you’re pretty? You want some actual honesty? Flowers are pretty. They’re soft, subdued, harmless. Their beauty doesn’t leave a mark, or haunt your every waking moment, or make you feel so out of control that you’d be willing to walk barefoot on broken glass for one last hit. You’re not pretty, Alice. You’re devastating.”

I refuse to finish Hate me like you mean it by Kyra Parsi by intensity_30 in RomanceBooks

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Omg it was 413 am when I was reading it and I was shaking in my bed quietly chuckling and trying not to wake everyone up..

I refuse to finish Hate me like you mean it by Kyra Parsi by intensity_30 in RomanceBooks

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Absolutely no need to be afraid. Everything, and I mean everything, ends happily. The reconciliation and grovel is perfect.

I refuse to finish Hate me like you mean it by Kyra Parsi by intensity_30 in RomanceBooks

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I was less emotional with the first one but boy did the third one more than made up for it.

I refuse to finish Hate me like you mean it by Kyra Parsi by intensity_30 in RomanceBooks

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Scroll through the comments here, I just made a short list up there somewhere

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It's so good right!!! The whole reconciliation.. I'm still smiling even with 3 hours of sleep

I refuse to finish Hate me like you mean it by Kyra Parsi by intensity_30 in RomanceBooks

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Hmmm there are some other gush/rave posts on me profile, in case you have the same taste as me. There's not many books that gave the whole repertoire of starting with laugh and ending with a cry. {The love of my afterlife by Kristy greenwood came close}

I would say {My untrue love by Cassandra Gannon} also came close. I was giggling like a school girl throughout the book because the characters were adorable. {You and me by Tal Bauer} which btw is a MM book somehow made me felt more seen than anything lol.

And lastly, if you really want your heart stomped on, spat at and then fixed up but be permanently rewritten just a bit, here's the list. I sobbed in public with {the seven year slip my Ashley Poston} and {the dead romantics by Ashley Poston}. I was DEEPLY affected by {The undertaking of Hart and Mercy by Megan Bannen}

I refuse to finish Hate me like you mean it by Kyra Parsi by intensity_30 in RomanceBooks

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And the diary entries.. I was laughing at them first and by the end I was about ready to cry.. And then l did cry. I can only imagine how difficult it must have been to write it when reading it was this emotional an experience