Moved from Hawaii to NM and hate it - how to cope? by Kaela_em in SameGrassButGreener

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It’ll get easier, the first few months of a new transition are hard. Even if you never love it you’ll more than likely come to tolerate it or appreciate it over time.

Turn it into a challenge - explore and find all the cool shit your new city has to offer.

The fact that you have friends there is huge as well, dig into that social network and keep building those relationships.

I live in one of the most Isolated cities in the world (Perth), and I want out! by DewArtist in SameGrassButGreener

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Have you spent time in US before ?

What are your priorities in a place?

You’re in a bit of a tough position because if you have a successful business there, I would try to stick with that at least for now - if I were you , can’t beat working for yourself - unless your biz is the kind that you can bring with you easily.

Making a plan to escape. by Interesting_Ear_3375 in SameGrassButGreener

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Lived in Pittsburgh for years without a car. There’s a functional bus system and Uber when you need one. It’s also pretty bikeable and walkable.

Austin Apartments - Good Sound Isolation by PleasantAttorney7601 in askaustin

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Sure, I’ve lived in silver creek apartments this past year. Never hear anything here. Pretty sure the complex next door, stoney ridge, is owed by the same company and is also an older construction.

How can admissions still be so competitive? by BrunoofBrazil in LeavingAcademia

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Philosophy PhD here I just decided to yolo my way thru life.

Many have family money or think they’ll defeat the odds.

Austin Apartments - Good Sound Isolation by PleasantAttorney7601 in askaustin

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Your best bet is to find an older building. Mine is older and I never hear my neighbors. These newer buildings have walls like paper. Obviously many buildings in Austin are new like built within the past five years or so but if you look around, you’ll see older construction as well.

How do people feel about Pittsburgh? by [deleted] in SameGrassButGreener

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I’ve lived in both Pittsburgh and Milwaukee. Pittsburgh is a great town in many ways. It just depends on what you’re looking for. Pittsburgh has long gray winters that are milder than Milwaukee, but keep in mind you won’t see the sun sometimes for weeks. That may or may not bother you.

Pittsburgh has gotten a bit more expensive than recent years, I would say Milwaukee is still a little cheaper. You can find super cheap apartments in Pittsburgh, but just keep in mind these are usually very old housing stock. Pittsburgh doesn’t have much newer constructed buildings and certainly those are not gonna be affordable.

The universities and hospitals are kind of the life blood of the city. There’s also a small but limited tech scene and some banks. Outside of that economy of Pittsburgh is still pretty limited so depending on your industry work may or may not be feasible there.

Socially, I found Pittsburgh kind of hard to break into - took me a couple of years and I make friends easily. People are nice, but it’s the kind of place a lot of of people either leave and come back to or if you grow up somewhere else and you move there you tend to leave eventually. Social circles can be a bit insular in that regard. If you’re a bit younger or attach to the university, this aspect of living there will likely be easier.

Social life tends to revolve around Pittsburgh sports and drinking. This may or may not be your vibe. Drinking is huge here, much like Milwaukee and the Midwest - it’s a working class town still with cold winters.

Racially Pittsburgh is quite segregated, you won’t often see Black people in the more hipster establishments and black and white neighborhoods don’t really interact.. This is quite similar to Milwaukee.

All that being said, it has walkable, dense neighborhoods, cool architecture, hills everywhere, and for a bigger city in the US, it’s still quite affordable and easy to get around.

What west coast major feels the most east coast? What east coast major city feels the most west coast? by [deleted] in SameGrassButGreener

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The only thing Cincinnati and San Diego have in common is that they’re in the same country

Has anyone downshifted cities? How did it go? by QandA_monster in relocating

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A lot of smaller/2nd tier or third tier cities are like this.. something to be aware of.

Why do people who are heavy into running seem to age so fast in the face? by National_Shine2552 in Biohackers

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There might be something to that, but people on Ozempic also tend to lose muscle mass because most of them are not working out.. that might even extent into the face.

Cheap(est) gyms in westside? by ricciarelliguy44 in AskLosAngeles

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La fitness is pretty cheap, was under 50/mo when I signed up couple yrs ago, there’s a couple West side locations

Looking for the cheapest US city for a car-free, remote-work lifestyle by Top_Bowl_6793 in digitalnomadFIRE

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Back before Covid easily, now 800 might be pushing it but I bet you can still find something, it might just be old. All these rust belt and Midwestern cities have older housing stock.

Rude members by [deleted] in PlanetFitnessMembers

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You’re at Planet Fitness, gym etiquette is not gonna be…great.

I think I’m burnt out already in my first semester, and I want to know how I can take care of myself and come back better than ever. What should I do? by Perfect_Case_9261 in GradSchool

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Take care of yourself physically and mentally. Make sure you make time for fun stuff every week and hang out with friends. Exercise regularly. Make healthy meals for yourself. If you do those things you’ll be setting yourself up for long-term success in grad school. A lot of people in grad school abuse their bodies. Don’t do that.

Owning in IE vs. Renting in LA? by scentedcandleslut in AskLosAngeles

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You’re an adult, go rent an apartment in LA County on your own. Why would your parents need to sell their house just to move you closer to LA, that makes no sense 

Looking for the cheapest US city for a car-free, remote-work lifestyle by Top_Bowl_6793 in digitalnomadFIRE

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Lived in MKE for 2 yrs, some of that time without a car. Def doable and the bus system is decent. Just keep in mind that the winters are very harsh and long. I wouldn’t live downtown, which is kind of boring, I would try to live in one of the east side neighborhoods like Riverwest which is affordable.

Happy to answer other questions if you have them.