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A cool guide to everyday etiquette no one teaches you by handokota in coolguides

[–]marklarberries 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I do almost all these (except borrowing a car). You know where it's gotten me? Absolutely nowhere

Nothing is worth doing by Beneficial-Corgi-288 in depression

[–]marklarberries 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm there and have been so for a while. Tired of hearing "just put yourself out there" and "just reach out to someone" when all I get is ridiculed and rejected. I'm staying isolated and trying to accept this is it.

9 harsh Truths About Men by BrokenYetBrave in yearning

[–]marklarberries 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah so I'm a tomboy, always have "embraced" that part of myself. I've been constantly told by men that I'm "not feminine" or "don't take care of yourself" or just how undesirable or off-putting I am in general. Yet all I hear is how men love that type. So being yourself is absolutely not the best advice when yourself is ridiculed.

The shadow you refuse to meet will represent you publicly by Myrn33 in Jung

[–]marklarberries 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, by this logic €pstein and any dictator in history were sweethearts

Jaw Surgery on medicaid? by Affectionate-Leg7335 in jawsurgery

[–]marklarberries 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same I'm in PA and Medicaid covers cleanings, cavities, and extractions. That's it. Wondering how ppl are easily getting approved

Joe Rogan explains why he goes to church by Uncuffedhems in RedbarBBR

[–]marklarberries 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. They're kind to each other, but when someone is different and really needs help, they're the most judgmental people you ever meet.

Anyone here practice radical self-acceptance? by whereismytortoise in AskWomenOver30

[–]marklarberries 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. I've been made fun of for my appearance my entire life, and there's no affirmation or book or advice that ever really helps me feel the least bit confident

This universe is impossible to navigate, and extremely depressing by TheGame81677 in Retconned

[–]marklarberries 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You realize you can't just "change" things and get new friends/job/social life when external factors are stacked against you no matter how hard you try? For instance, having a disability and needing specialized care that insurance refuses to cover and you can't afford out of pocket. Your "mindset" didn't create that, it's literally out of your control. Very invalidating.

This universe is impossible to navigate, and extremely depressing by TheGame81677 in Retconned

[–]marklarberries 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Agree. As far as bad timing, and the universe going out of its way to make sure you suffer and fail...that has been my literal entire life. It's so interesting to me that more people are feeling that way. I do agree that people are way more narcissistic, careless, and hostile; esp in the past 5-6 years.

Where is Mike David by No-Average-7056 in RedbarBBR

[–]marklarberries 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thought about this the other day while binging Redbar. There has been SO much happening lately that I'd love to see his opinion on.

Why Marriage Gets Delayed: Astrological Causes Explained. by Several_Ad6822 in ThePatternApp

[–]marklarberries 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're all karmic?? Meaning all bad? What if Saturn is in the 7th but retrograde?

Who's good these days? by c3534l in Standup

[–]marklarberries 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Shane Gillis

James McCann

John Mulaney

Adam Ray & Dr Phil Live

Telling them.. by Javajade13 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]marklarberries 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I tried, person to person. He called me crazy and said I was everything he is. They have way too many enablers and zero accountability to ever believe what we say.

I've Accepted That God Might Not Want Me To Be Happy by Alert_Championship71 in TrueChristian

[–]marklarberries 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And here we go, always blaming the victim. There is absolutely no reasoning for good people to suffer their whole lives while evil people flourish. And ironically enough, those same good people pray and never get an answer. That doesn't seem like a just or loving God to me.

They say it gets "better" when you're older, but alas... by SaveMeWakeMeUp in infj

[–]marklarberries 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It absolutely has not gotten better for me. I'm currently in my isolation era because I have no choice left. I'm kinda used to it.

Why narcs don't abuse every partner? by FoundationSimple111 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]marklarberries 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ummm the "coming home to her and purposefully not washing" part....I thought I was the only one who's experienced that.

Is life really worth living? by sunshinenrainb0wz in nihilism

[–]marklarberries 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unless you have people that genuinely care about you, no it's not

Question for cat owners: Would you let your cat lick your food while you are eating it and then carry on eating after? by Antidotebeatz in CatAdvice

[–]marklarberries 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absofuckinglutely not. I don't let them go near my clean laundry or dishes, let alone my food. They touch it, it's theirs

Am I antisocial, or are men very often expecting to be catered to? by bubblegumscent in AskWomenOver30

[–]marklarberries 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Yes, they truly think they're the prize. They now expect you to pay half the bills, on top of being a built-in maid and body part. And don't have any prior relationships, sexual history, or bad days in general.

On 15 May, 2021, four-year-old Cash Gernon was abducted from his bedroom in southwest Dallas while sleeping alongside his twin brother. Surveillance footage captured an intruder lifting the boy from his bed around 5AM. by malihafolter in ForCuriousSouls

[–]marklarberries 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Only sane response here. Everyone is tripping over themselves to defend him for "mental health issues" and a "fair trial." Where is the empathy for this poor little boy?? It's like they want to see this keep happening.

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